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purplekow

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  1. I think they fuck you a little bit more energetically. Clearly, if an escort knows you and has any professionalism to him, he will know where is push, where to pull, if a bit is a snack or a turn on. However, once you become a regular regular, I think you do run the risk of being taken for a bit of a given and the efforts may not be as strong. So if you are thinking about developing a regular thing, watch for waning interest and more perfunctory performances once you have known each other for awkile. It is a bit like marriage in that regard.
  2. Well in actuality I am thinking if my change in thinking is a sign of future difficulty and if it is, perhaps I should make plans for that accordingly. But, I see your point as well.
  3. After thinking about this, I decided to google "thinking voice in my head" and it seems 30 to 50% of people think this way frequently or often. Others think with vivid images and others with emotions. Similarly, people also have different way of reading with about 50% of people reading by talking the words in their mind. I never gave much thought to the thinking process other than the neurologic complexity of it all. However, even as a physician, I do not recall ever being instructed or informed about this. Well to those of you who think this way, do not let me interrupt your conversation.
  4. I do not know if this is part of the aging process or just something I never considered in the past. I find when I am planning something, I now think in complete sentences, almost as though I am talking with myself. It seems that when I was younger, I skipped the middle man and went right from brain to action without stopping to think about the action in words in my brain. For example. I just finished a bit of cleaning up and I am planning on feeding my dogs. As I recall, in the past, I would have just stopped cleaning and without any type of other thought, I would just move on the feeding the dogs. Last night while baking chicken, I was watching TV and I smelled the chicken which triggered me to check on it. Instead of standing up and going into the kitchen, I thought, hey the chicken is cooking, I should go check on it and then I arose from my chair and walked to the kitchen. For those interested, the chicken was not quite done. I suppose that thinking through what I am planning to do makes a great deal of sense, but for me, it just seems as though I am wasting time in thinking it through. Clearly, I do not condone just doing anything without a first or second thought to the action and its consequences, but this thinking about mundane tasks is new to me and has given me pause. Perhaps my mental faculties are in decline and this is a compensatory mechanism. Will I be writing myself notes next? So men of a certain age, has the way you think and act changed as you have aged? Not the thoughts and actions themselves, clearly those have changed, rather the process of moving from thought to action. Do most people give this much thought to how they proceed in the routine matters of their life? Am I just bored and so I now enjoy only the sound of my own voice in my head?
  5. If you are inclined to help him, start by telling him you are willing to help him get clean but you are not willing to help him continue to use. If he accepts that, you can move forward. If there is any kind of push back from that simple hand out, then you need to tell him when he has a different answer, he may call but your help offer requirements will not change. If you have no experience dealing with addicts, this is not an easy situation and you should probably offer to get him information on withdrawal and then walk away. The people who suggested that he will not get help until he wants help are correct but sometimes, addicts may be nudged toward wanting help. However, they will play you if you let them and you will not even know you have been played. Addicts will lie with impunity. They will steal from you. They will beg for help and then disappear only to resurface. If you do not know this person well, if you do not have a close bond with him, he will play on your emotions and then, if he is not getting what he wants, turn on you on a dime. So if you do decide to help, be warned and be careful.
  6. Seems you got the boyfriend right before you break up experience. You just did complain by the way, so that answer is yes. It really does not help. Recommend you be more direct in the future before and during the experience. .
  7. Strictly from a shirt point of view, the thinner man wears the shirt better and it fits his body better. The heavier man definitely should not be buying that shirt. IMO
  8. I am always perplexed by the concern about age. Hot is hot no matter how old the fire and if he stokes your flame, that should be your only. concern. I just had an encounter socially, not sexually, with a 95 year old who was vibrant, and intelligent and a lot more fun than men 1/3 his age. And dare I say, I found him down right sexy. He is my new aspiration, to be all of those things when I finish the golden years and head into the rust years.
  9. Another measure is. Small.(3-5) Medium (5-6). . Large (6-8) X-Large (8-10) and of course. Way too large. (more than 10) Ads rarely mention size if it is small or even medium. So lower what the ad promises by one size and you pretty much have an approximation of what you are going to get. Of course, magicians can to the trick with any size wand.
  10. For me, it is a matter of more than a mouthful or less than a mouthful. So I judge by that. If it hits that sweet Goldilocks spot that is just right, then we have a winner.
  11. Benjamin Franklin is a really old white bear and I bet he is into him and into you if you bring Ben along.
  12. I would not bring it up directly referring to him. However, I would, somewhere in the first encounter, mention that you are glad that he seems to be a reasonable person as once in the past you had an experience where you trusted a stranger you met on line and lent him money without knowing him only to be ghosted. As a result of that encounter, you have take up a no loan philosophy. That does two things, if he realizes that it was him, he knows that it is likely that you know it was him, if he does not realize it was him, he will know better than to try it again but if he does, you have an easy no to give.
  13. Sound like virgin whore-syndrome. As long as I do not know you I can do vile unspeakable things to you that you will write about in your diary and be praised in your obituary. One I know you, not so much. I, on the other hand, prefer to have some knowledge about the person to whom I am about to do vile unsepeakable things. That way, I can get his name and details right in my diary. In response to the original question, of course some experiences written here have a bent toward the better, but as long as they are not using the no one could fuck better, he had the best body I could imagine, only I could stop seven wars type of hyperbole, then I trust it. That last one I find most damning and least believable.
  14. His rates may be a bit high for Denver. Then again, everything is high in Denver.
  15. I am always suspicious when a client can walk out of from a meeting. For me, a good session ends with my legs too weak to get me off the bed or the floor or the desk, well from anywhere. His evaluations certainly look as though he is well worth the trip. If he comes to PS or I go there, I will try to arrange something with him.
  16. Lots of guys on Long Island head into the city but there are a few guys out there that put the long into Long Island and they put it into anything you want.
  17. And have more bite
  18. The 4 C sof Addiction. Craving. Compulsion. Control loss. Consequent negative effects. So. Craving. Almost every minute since I hit puberty. Compulsion. I do not hire on compulsion but there are times I feel compelled to hire. Control loss. That is my ultimate goal. First to be totally in control and then totally lose control. But I have gone months without hiring. Consequent negative effects. Bank statements have not turned negative and I have not had physical or mental negative effects. My end result, is that I am not addicted but there are times it may feel as though I am.
  19. As in Speed Chess, the appointment starts as soon as he hits the button.
  20. Many people sat at home during the pandemic and stayed on the internet and had a government that was not particularly inclusion friendly. When people sit and stew about their lot in life, those who are different suffer. The question becomes why am I suffering because of the Chinese virus? Why can't I go out and socialize when I bet there are homosexuals having all kinds of sex? People were in small groups of like minded people and unhappy and that brings blame to the surface. In addition, behavior is cyclical. A drop of 70% with a subsequent rise of 10% gets one to 33%/. Still much better than it was, just not as good as it when it was at its best. So, while this is a trend worth watching, the numbers are not likely to reflect an accurate picture of how bad things are.
  21. I do not know if most American fathers would want to see their son going down on another man on TV. And truth be told, if you edit out the sex scenes for Dad, there really is not that much cohesion to the story. So despite his son playing a bisexual, I think many men would prefer not to see it on film.
  22. Ah you must have read it before I corrected it. There is a Long Bottom joke and that is what threw me off. That and his body is more in keeping with Neville Longbottom rather than the stout Ron Weasley. But it is very clear that it is indeed Ron.
  23. He\\I thought he was playing Nigel Longbottom, but I went to watch it again. Though I must say, it could have been either as he looks more like Longbottom than Weasley in body type and there was a joke by Mamoa about his Long bottom.
  24. Hell, even providers have a bedtime and at 1:30 AM start that means the session went to at least 2 AM and then his ride home. I am not justifying his leaving, just it is not surprising that, at that hour, someone may want to be over and done. An escort, as with any transactional business person, should keep his end of the bargain. We as consumers need to look not only at their bad efforts, but also what it is we may have done to add to that bad experience. After all. we know that escort will not be at our next meeting but we will be. A late call, paying up front, first time encounter with this escort, your relative inexperience with providers all add to this bad experience. Next time, you will know better and you will do better and if you select carefully, the experience will be better. Chalk this up to experience and jump right back on the horse when you have the time and the cash. (By the way, horseback riding goes a long way toward the satisfaction of frottage if your jeans are tight enough.) I am sure there is a first rate, frat boy, frot boy out there for you. HiHo Silver Away.
  25. Obviously they are part of the Hunting Party who are hunting for a job.
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