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Having just moved from New Jersey to California, I have not found the cost of living to be that much different. As you are Filipino, you are rightfully concerned about diveristy and the sourthern US is not known for its tolerance. So if you are going to move there, you definitely need to find a community which has other Filipinos or at the very least has a church that you will feel comfortable joining. I am not religious but much of the social activity in the southern areas out of the big cities centers around church. Northern NJ is much more expensive then Central Jersey and South Jersey, so you might consider an in state move. Also. many hospitals are offering substantial bonuses to nurses to sign on though you do have a time commitment with those. Have you considered being a travelling nurse to try out a variety of locations before manking a final decision?

Sorry for your loss. As we age, the losses become more frequent and the ability to make new friends or even fwb is limited so each one hits a bit harder. Once again condolences.

By homeless, according to my reading of another article about this, his final home which was in Baltimore was foreclosed, so he is living at Airbnb and hotels. He is working as a singer in Cyprus and moves where he finds work. So he is not on the street, just out of houses,

I had two recent encounters with Brogan and my mileage definitely did vary. We spent two full hours of sweaty and acrobatic sex. Acrobatic is not something I expect of myself at my age but it is a legitimate description. He did suck...the good way. He was also very sensitive to sensual touch and very loud. All things I enjoy. I will definitely hire him again when he passes through Palm Springs. Broganxbrogan - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in West Hollywood, CA | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in West Hollywood, CA - Broganxbrogan: Midwest Muscle

Great face especially with the scruff not so much the goatee.

High risk, high reward. The risk is, for some, part of the thrill of it all. In any case, there are lots of gyms around.

The gym I go to here in Palm Spring caters to a gay crowd that skews older. The steam bath is the place where encounters of the type that should have happened here take place. If you would have followed him, he may have gone to the steam and you could have sat next to him. Hands touch. Legs touch. A hand is rubbed on a thigh and fairly soon afterward someone is getting blown. As this event happened in the early afternoon on a Wednesday, it is likely that there were not many people there and the steam may have been private enough even if the gym does not cater to a gay clientele. You could followed and suggested you meet on the way out and have gone to your car and found a place that was fairly private. The short answer is: An opportunity was missed. You now know better so do better.

What you want to do may change from visit to visit. I think if you can't answer that question, you can probably answer what you do not want to do. That will at least give the escort some guidance. I do not want to bottom/ top. I do not want scat or urine or a lot of pain. I am not into leather. That will give him some idea. But I am sure you can think of some things you like: kissing? sexy underwear? nipple play? having him show off? Those are just examples which will help things go along. And at that point you can add that you are open to other things as they arise and that you will let him know what is working for you and you hope he does the same. So essentially: Baseline nos. Baseline yeses. Flexibility. Willingness to try new things. It is unfair to expect the escort to guess what is going to work for you as he has lots of clients with lots of different preferences. He will be much more relaxed if you give him some general directions and show that you are willing to try other things. You may not realize that there are somethings you like which you wouldn't have thought to be the case. BTW, I like to ask the escort while we are together something like: Where would you like me to put my mouth? Would you like it if I pull your hair while we are kissing or if I slap your ass?

Scheduling is difficult at times. I recently hired an escort and was set for a Friday 5 PM appointment which is a time he selected. The day before he requested we move the appointment to 7 PM. Still fine. The day of he asked that it be pushed to Sunday. Sunday he called two hours before and asked for it to be pushed back several hours. I accommodated each request. The meeting was not one of the best but it was acceptable. I am retired and have a fairly open schedule, but even for me, these changes seemed excessive. Perhaps it was the gods of sexual satisfaction indicating to me that this was not a great match, but I did not listen. Things happen. Providers and clients have lives that are unpredictable and subject to sudden changes. I understand that the OP is frustrated but all jobs have plusses and minuses. Best to focus on the plusses and deal with the minuses as graciously as you can muster.

Considering my preferences, I would prefer a back or top of the head shot rather than a face shot

While different opinions are aloud =, sometimes it is better to keep them quiet. Whoops, i see a different wiseguy made the same observation of punning on aloud.

I just had an encounter with a terrifically built handsome man with an above average sized but significantly thick dick. The encounter was fun but despite the man's impressive physical attributes, I would not repeat the encounter. He was too self involved or rather he was not as involved with what was happening with us as I would have liked and as the encounter went on, he had some fairly noticeable limitations which came into play only after those things had been done earlier. For example, he was a great kisser initially but he would not kiss again after we had performed oral and he would not go back to performing oral after the initial time. This led me to consider whether I would want to have his gifts if I had to take his baggage. This in turn became the germ of an idea for a porno movie where two strangers meet, have sex and lo and behold have the rarest of conclusions with a simultaneous orgasms causing their sexual identities to switch bodies. Before they realize what has happened, they have separated without any contact information. As anyone who has ever seen one of these body switch movies knows, mild amusement and confusion transpire subsequently. So my question is: Would you want to exchange sexual identities and physical being with the last person with whom you had a sexual encounter?

When I first started hiring I did not know what I wanted. That led to many enjoyable but not exhilarating experiences. Once I figured out what I wanted, I had no difficulty asking for it or initiating it and seeing what the response was. While the original experiences were fun the latter ones are the ones I will be thinking about upon my exit from this earthly toil. I may not get to heaven, but it will seem like it when I am on the road.

If he is a competitive body builder, it is possible that both pictures are accurate one when he is in contest shape and the other when he is not. On the other hand, I vote for photoshop of the photo on the left.

Prostitution is the oldest profession and while the majority of that is heterosexual, homosexual sex is practiced by at least 12% of the male population. But for a long time and even in most gay social circles, hiring an escort is not usually discussed. In Palm Springs section of Rentmen, there have been as many as 15 pages of escorts for a population of 150000 in the great Palm Springs area. There is a lot of money and bodily fluids being exchanged

Depends on personal standards. Some have them and some can look past them.

I know sexual assault is real and damaging, but it seems many of these allegations only come to light years after the event and only after the alleged perpetrator has gotten a significant degree of financial stability. Until proven, allegations are just that, some are just bitterness and gossip. I know nothing of this show nor the person being accused, but I am tired of these johnny come lately accusations and the rush to establish a hands off attitude. In the 1990 s one of my medical students accused me of not giving her honors due to sexual discrimination. Her evidence of this was a Nicole Miller tie with the title night and day. I had many Nicole Miller graphic ties and this one had an stylishly sexy business woman wearing a long black business suit and stilettos and fishnet stockings. The student told the medical school that she would drop the allegations if her grade was changed to the "honors" she felt she deserved. I refused to change her grade and faxed a copy of the tie to the dean. The matter was dropped at that point. She suffered no consequences of her manipulative accusation.

Are you looking for clothing optional? Inndulge while not a opulent has several entrances and exits which do not require the guest to go through the lobby as is the case in Vista Grande. It is also considerably less expensive. As I am more a blue collar hotel guy, others would likely have better ideas.

Are you going solo or with someone? They can be hard nosed about guests.

No one prepared me for how difficult it is to direct a urinary stream as you get older. In the house I just sold, I had a urinal and that made for an easy and clean urination. I miss that urinal about as much as I miss the bowl these days.

After my recent move to Palm Springs, I decided to commit to working out as an aid to health and an aid to meeting people. In the past, I have worked out for weeks and even months at a time but always gave up. I have hired a trainer through a gym, but the trainers did not stay with that gym long enough to establish a good rapport. Now, I hired a private trainer at the gym and I sse him two days a week. If nothing else, I get those two days in but more usually it is 5 days a week and on some days, water aerobics in my pool. Even though I am doing okay financially, the cost of the trainer and the gym is significant but definitely worth it. I am assured that I will go and now the routine has set in such that when I miss a day, I miss the experience of the exercise. I am about twice the age of the OP and I wish I had been more diligent about exercise earlier. Invest in a trainer, even if it is once a week for only a few months. It will help you develop a routine with good form and consistency. BTW. Do not skip leg days. Everyone hates leg day. Just check out many of the well built guys at the gym and many will have great upper bodies and legs that seem disproportionately small. But especially as you age, leg strength and flexibility becomes more and more important so do the leg day even if you feel your legs are doing well.

Got a call from him yesterday. He had some personal issues with his family and pets. He is busy doing ex military parachute jumping displays. He still is available to be seen but it does take some doing. He has always been erratic in his replies so patience and persistence are features of the successful arrangement. He still looks great. I had a meeting with him here in Palm Springs about 6 weeks ago and he looked great and is as enthusiastic and sexy as ever. He will be here for the Palm Springs weekend even if I need to fly there and kidnap him.

This is a get together of forum members and their friends and assorted escorts. The event entails several get togethers over a weekend. These events include a dinner, a welcome barbecue, a pool party and in the past, a breakfast. These range from mild to moderate with nothing significantly wild going on at the events themselves, for the most part. Probably R rated is a dramatic as it gets in the open spaces with some X rated activities in private. Many of the guests stay at the same resorts, Inndulge, Hacienda, Canyon Club are three. There are informal events such as hikes, trips to casinos, dinner, karaoke which are arranged by the guests. It is mostly a chance to see meet fellow posters, escorts. Fun in the sun. Temperatures are usually in the 80s to 90s during the day and 60s at night. The first people arriving from out of town usually get there the Thursday and most people who are coming from out of town stay from 4 to 7 days. That is the thumbnail version of the events.

You should definitely come. I can guarantee you at least one encounter of the close kind. Most of the people who come to town are here for more than just the weekend. And there are some full time PS residents as well as seasonal residents. I doubt you would have an issue breaking even. There are also several people from NY that come, so you may pick up a regular or two.

Oliver, if you may still do this, please do. You are great at it and it has always been an entertaining weekend. It seemed that you were only going to be in PS for a few days, but I did not realize that there was a possibility that you would still host under those circumstances. Far be it from me to interfere in anyway. Once it is decided, either way, let us all know.