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purplekow

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  1. As a retired physician, asking for Copay up front has benefits for the patient and the office. It smooths the check in check out activity. It guarantees that you are not waiting to pay at the end as you might as a restaurant. It also avoids the discussion at the end of the visit as to what credit card or other payment form the office accepts. Not to mention, the large number of patients who suddenly discover they forgot their wallet or do not have anything smaller than a 100 dollar bill. As opposed to an escort, the doctor is going to see you or give you a refund. That is not to say that the number of escorts that hit and run is a large one, it is just a larger percentage compared to doctors. In my office, if you did not pay the copay up front, you were not seen. It is a simple courtesy the patient can offer the office to help make their time more efficient and if there are persons who do no like that or will not be conform to that policy, they were welcome to go elsewhere. When those patients asked to speak to the doctor about this, doubling down as it were, I would come out to the waiting area and ask if they intended to pay the copay at the end and why was it that they would not pay in the manner established for the office. If they said yes they would pay after the services, I would say, well this visit is over, or you can pay the copay now. I have patients to whom I need to attend and I have already spent more time than this should have required. Thanks for your feedback. Some left and never returned but most opted to pay. How many of those that left would have walked out without payment is unknown but when I instituted this policy, I had more than 25000 dollars in unpaid copays. That number went down to about 12000 dollars when I closed the office for good. It also eliminated patients who felt they were somehow entitled to more than just the medical care. And this happened in the days of $5 and $10 copays. The ritzier the zip code, the more likely they were going to flake on the copay on a percent basis.
  2. I have had bottoms wear a baseball batter's helmet, concussion avoidance.
  3. I am in my over 60s and not every sexual encounter needs to end in a fully explosive orgasm. For an overnight, I can usually come 3 times, once at the beginning, one before bed, and one in the morning. That does not mean there is no sexual activity aside from those times. As for the escort, he can come as often as he likes as long as it is at least once. Once I come, many escorts feel that particular session is over. On the other hand, I have had escorts ask me if it is okay that they come before I do. I find that very hot and I also find those men are usually anxious to 1 get me off strongly soon after and 2 often anxious to come again later in the visit. I have had overnight escorts come 5 or 6 times and others just the once. I do not judge their number as long as they have my number where I like it.
  4. Take a permanent pause from hiring men who you are not sure will fill your needs. Perhaps cut back on the ones that you know will satisfy you rather than stop. Abstinence does not make the hard grow fonder, it makes it indiscriminate.
  5. Fate has ways of having me spend money on this. Just today, I was wondering about a visiting escort who I have seen twice and decided to look him up. He has not been on Rentmen since the new year and so I dropped him a text asking if he had retired and if not to contact me the next time he was in Palm Springs. Half hour later, I get a response that he is in fact in Palm Springs until tomorrow and has some time if I am interested. Well I have plans with someone for tomorrow and I am not as young as I once was and I have been feeling ill, so naturally, I said sure I'll meet you tonight. I am just about to get into the showere for that meeting and going to tha bank in the AM to get the cash for tomorrow's scheduled interlude.
  6. The short answer is Not more than I can afford. The shorter answer is. Way too much.
  7. Bumping on here is as described. Bumping uglies is something else again. Welcome to the forum. This is the obiligatory post offering the Funny Thing on the Way to the Forum.
  8. Allow my escort and me, to bring you over the corner where the provider is speaking with the sex worker. They all do the same things, some better than others, but essentially, it is more discrete for those not in the know.
  9. Well here in Palm Springs, the place has been invaded by Bears. https://www.ibc-ps.com/
  10. I give them my social security number and my banking information. It makes the finances of this much easier.
  11. You can on the reviewers.
  12. I had lunch with him the day after he arrived. I am sure he is here. Perhaps he is storing energy for the better weather.
  13. I understand they particularly like older men like Ben Franklin.
  14. I had an escort tell me of an offer to be on call for a billionaire in exchange for a luxury apartment in NYC and all the expenses paid plus a stipend. He had to be exclusive and available at short notice. He did not like the indentured servant aspect of this. He also told me of other very wealthy, some billionaires, that used his services. This gentlemen would definitely meet the requirements the initial poster wanted and he used to be on Rentmen until leaving the business after a long and I assume lucrative career.
  15. Inflation is slowing but still prices are going up and most salaries are not keeping pace. So this is good while Americans still feel the increase in prices for imports due to tariffs.
  16. Back in the day, I was a medical student and we were learning how to do colonoscopy. Not the nice fiberoptic colonoscopy but the rigid metal colonoscopy. There was a room set up with about 15 curtained off areas, each with an examining table. There was an individual instructor for each of the students and a volunteer patient who was paid a modest sum. The instructor first showed us how the scope itself worked. Not a big mystery, a 3 inch around hollow metal tube with a plunger with a hard rubber dildo like head which was rounded and allowed for the insertion into the rectum and then was removed through the tube. At that point, one could see in through the tube which had a light inside. One would follow the course of the intestinal opening, twisting one's wrist to allow the tube to straighten out the curves of the sigmoid which is s shaped and then introduce the rigid sigmoidoscopy which was 25 centimeters long, 15+ inches. The volunteers had this done without medication or anesthesia. Although fairly easy to describe, the twists and turns were difficult to get through and instead the intestines would be stretched and prodded. Fifteen of these, going on at the same time. Screams permeating the room. "STOP STOP STOP" being yelled by the patient and the instructor. You were instructed to pull back and then try going forward again. Sweaty medical students who were told they had the complete the scoping to pass this segment of the course. The first person done took about 15 minutes and as I recall the last person done took more than 1 hour. I just recall leaving the area, drenched in sweat and with the screams echoing in my head all through my trip to the lunch room. Yes, we had lunch right afterwards. I can not imagine what the volunteers did, but my guess would be they never volunteered for this again. Other patient volunteer sessions were not so gruesome.
  17. very nice. I hope a fun time was had by all. Lawyers in Love?
  18. Saw him last night. Had a great encounter and then dinner after off the clock. He does enjoy gay porn when engaged but that is fine. I went at it a bit more enthusiastically and quickly diverted his attention from the porn to the act. His body is in great shape and we went well over allotted time without complaint or cost.
  19. If you are thinking this long and hard about this, you should do it. Here in the US, nudity is taken much too seriously. More Prudity than Nudity. I have no desire to see my body, naked or not, but as it happens, I have little concern about others seeing it. In the evenings, I would walk onto my porch nude if the weather was permitting. If I needed to take in the trash cans, I would check for traffic, but I found it refreshing to take that brief stroll briefless. I have also been on stage naked and go to nude beaches and will go nude at the pool if the host is okay with that. Come to Palm Springs in April, if you dare and see for yourself. Trying to get into better shape for that but that is not really going to happen. I wish I had more to be boastful about when I am naked, but I see no point in being ashamed. I am what I am.
  20. What would you have them do? They are elusive little critters and if you do not stomp right away, they will definitely head for dark areas. The squish, I would presume is under the shoe, so ample time to look away. I saw several roaches out in my outdoor space and immediately put down traps in my home. I did not put them outdoors as my dogs would surely eat the traps. So far, I have had no indoor visitors that lived to tell the tale.
  21. So you are looking for someone who has had a slow month or two.
  22. As a coincidental occurrence, at the gym last nigth I was speaking with a returning seasonal resident who mentioned on leaving that he and his husband were going to their favorite restaurant. It was indeed the restaurant of which I am speaking in this thread. I decided NOT to tell them the story. After all the food is good and why bring up this event.
  23. Unless I am mistaken, which certainly could be the case, your avatar is a picture of you. If that is that case, I believe you are on the wrong end of the hiring dynamic.
  24. I can see May Day as particularly apt with some dancing around the May Pole. Father;s day of course you need a Daddy.. Juneteenth time for a black escort. Thanksgiving, the special escort with the drumstick for which to give thanks. Christmas, giving yourself a present. Labor day for perhaps a blue collar escort. Veteran's day either a member of the military or someone who has been escorting for a long time. New Years so you can bring in the year with a bang. President's day when you pay only with bills with presidents on them. So no Franklins.
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