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How can you afford to hire service providers consistently?
+ purplekow replied to + Gar1eth's topic in The Lounge
There are sex clubs around that still allow that kind of bargain basement sexual encounter. Here in PS there are at least two of which I am aware and I have only been living here a short time. I expect when the Eagle opens here in a few months, there will be an uptick in available leather guys and bears. -
For me, too much of a good thing. There is a similarly endowed man at the gym I attend. However, when I started there six months ago, he did not have that kind of ass et. I believe he made a stop at a local Fill Up Station. That may explain why this man's goods seem to be different in some pictures.
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Feeling ugly/unattractive when with a provider
+ purplekow replied to DMonDude's topic in Questions About Hiring
I agree with Decatur Guy about enthusiasm and would add imagination and innovation as other qualities that help soften the looks dichotomy. I have had a surprisingly large number of escorts tell me that "I never had that done before." Now that might sound like a line. Perhaps it is, but they mention very specific things that I am surprised that they find interesting or new. So, keep your techniques fresh. If you are a lay back and fuck me man or a "tell the escort to bend over and take it: kind of guy, think about freshening up the act. They will have more fun, you will too and they will be happy to see you not only for the bucks but also for the fucks. -
Feeling ugly/unattractive when with a provider
+ purplekow replied to DMonDude's topic in Questions About Hiring
The first time I met Vin Marco, we walked along the boardwalk at the Jersey shore. He was looking like Adonis and I was looking like me. He was shirtless and in tight shorts. At one point, I decided to take off my shirt and just walk with him and forget about it, as who was going to look at me anyway. Afterward, he said he was impressed that I felt comfortable and confident walking along the boardwalk. He thought that was sexy. Now maybe he was just being nice, but that helped me to come to grips that it is not what other people think of me, it is what I think about myself. So, DMonDude, just think positively about yourself and they rest will fall into place. Google Search WWW.GOOGLE.COM -
I did a six month immersion course in Mexico and although forty years later my Spanish is still at the conversational level, it has definitely diminished due to periods of either disuse or limited use and it was never anywhere near fluent. Now that I am living in California, I find my Spanish has improved again. with increae use. I have had many Spanish speaking patients and when i asked if they speak English, many say they did not. When I started to speak to them in Spanish, they replied in English. My thought is that my Spanish was so bad that it gave them confidence that their English had to be better than my Spanish. I must admit than when I first arrived back home after 6 months away, in dealing with Spanish speaking people, they would frequently ask where i was from. When they found that I was American, they would tell me that my accent told them I was not from where they were from, no matter where they were from, but they thought it might be from another country. In any case, disuse and limited use decreased my skills greatly, though I used to play Scrabble in Spanish with a friend and would generally win. She was Cuban and came to the US at 8 and she felt her vocabulary never progressed as she concentrated on learning English.
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Thaniks for the felicitations. Now if you are offering fellatiations that would be even better.
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Provider Proselytizing To Clients
+ purplekow replied to Heart It Deep's topic in Questions About Hiring
Prostrate Proselytizing Prostitute's Prostate. Say it 5 times fast. -
I care enough to give the very best Gotta a Hole lot of love I can fill that hole in your life Ram tough Night Rider I am up for going down Rolling in and Deep Hard Days 'n Night
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Providers are going to provide the information which they feel is going to get them the most attention. i think "ask me" is a little weird, but if I am interested and I care about it, I ask. Perhaps they are like me, and identify as a man who has sex with men and women and do not necessarily think of themselves as bisexual, just sexual.
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Nice promotion. What will they do for a World Series championship
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Provider Proselytizing To Clients
+ purplekow replied to Heart It Deep's topic in Questions About Hiring
Have you considered saying something such as: Every experience with you makes me feel like I have found god, but after I leave, I happily go back to my usual place of worship. If that does not change things, then you just need to make it clear: Politics and religion are not appropriate discussions considering your arrangement. -
Sharing my first-time experience (hiring and with men)
+ purplekow replied to Nameless's topic in Questions About Hiring
Cash is king but some providers are traveling and do not want to carry a large amount of cash with them. Also, if you are going to what may be a seedy neighborhood, carrying a cash donation may not be prudent. If you are carrying cash, stashed somewhere, like an envelop in you underwear may add to the safety of the money and can also add a bit of fun to the undressing during the meeting. -
Good luck. It is a bit nerve wracking to hire for the first time and it is also common to get cold feet. A small glitch, such as being told he is in a bad neighborhood, will sometimes be just push you to cancel. Meeting in a public space near his place and then having him take you back to his place would have been an option. In an case, do not let the logistic difficulties you had keep you from working it out.
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Yes I hire Gay Male Hookers ! So what?
+ purplekow replied to BoyGeorgeandMarilyn's topic in Questions About Hiring
Probably more correctly you hire male hookers for sex, so what. A significant percentage of the escorts do not identify as gay. It is hard to say that any of them are straight, when they are actively having sex with men, but at least some of them consider themselves so. Many are probably bi. And of course there are transsexual escorts as well. In any case, I agree, sex should be fun and what is more fun than having sex with someone you find attractive and sexy? -
*Does ANYONE look like their pics ?
+ purplekow replied to Chancealot's topic in Questions About Hiring
The only picture that I can discern as being questionable is the one in the orange speedo where it appears his head is on someone else's body. The others are impressive and perhaps a bit too much so. Only way to know for sure it take the plunge. Meet him at a public space and see if you are buying a bull or a pig in a poke. -
Lizardbrain robbed two banks & went to prison
+ purplekow replied to InterestingGuy's topic in The Deli
Well if you are into being gagged and or choked, he might be a good hire. Otherwise... -
Lizardbrain robbed two banks & went to prison
+ purplekow replied to InterestingGuy's topic in The Deli
It seems that you may the one to avoid. Seems danger likes to find you and if it misses, I do not want to be in the firing zone. Congrats on survival. By the way, there is a convicted felon who is screwing most of us. -
I met up with again in Palm Springs a few months ago. As always, it was a pleasure and not exceptionally costly.
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Providers asking for a client's professional services
+ purplekow replied to Ali Gator's topic in Questions About Hiring
It is very difficult for some, me included, to draw that line as I feel all I am trying to do is help them out. However, there are people that use my desire to help to excess. It is too late for me to set a definitive boundary but when asked now, I have the very real response of being retired. However, when people ask and it is a serious issue and they have not gotten cogent information from their doctor, I am inclined to offer to help though in truth I would not have to do so if the doctor in question had done a better job. -
Providers asking for a client's professional services
+ purplekow replied to Ali Gator's topic in Questions About Hiring
As a physician, being asked to do work without compensation comes from all quarters: friends, escorts, family members, patients I run into out in the public, strangers on a plane, acquaintances at a party etc. I usually try to answer to the best of my ability and then advise them to seek out paid professional help, telling them that without a full exam and history, any information I give them should be considered incomplete. No one has ever offered to compensate me in any manner for this. I had a regular escort who I calculate used hundreds of hours of my time with his medical questions. I was a pushover, I agree with you that you should not be. The person with whom you were dealing was insulting and greedy and you were right to end you utilization of his services. -
In my recent move to Palm Springs, I have been unbelievably happy. There are many places to go and things to do. There are several clothing optional upscale resorts but also down and dirty clothing optional resorts. Most of the resorts have day passes so, if you find the place you are staying less than optimal, you can try other resorts. I just spent a Sunday afternoon at Canyon Club, which by most standards is not high end, but I had a great afternoon meeting people and just hanging at the pool. There is a playroom and a maze there but neither seemed particularly busy when I was there. There are many casinos and acts such as Jerry Seinfeld are doing shows there. So, if the logistics of travel are not a problem, I would opt for Palm Springs. Key West is not as gay as it used to be and the weather is much less predictable. Palm Spings will be hot, but, poolside everything is cool
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There was an escort and porn actor Parker Williams and I decided that I wanted him to try and have me bottom. He was generously endowed and he was trying to be concerned but, we we were not achieving the desired result. In a moment of utter stupidity, I said. "just push the fucking thing in already". He did. It was not fun. I screamed quite loudly and begged him to take it out. After he did so, he told me: And that is why I love my job. So at least one of us had a good time and to be fair, he more than made up for it on the turnaround.
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Wnen did you guys sneak into my house?
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As a bi guy, I am usually a top. I have tried to bottom, usually about once a year with very limited success. So ever once and again, I try to bottom and I recognize why it has been so long since the last time I tried it. So for the bi guys out there, are you willing and able to give and receive or are you a one way street? This pertains only to anal, as I think most guys who have sex with men give and receive oral, though they may have a preference for one or the other.
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Since you had a conversation with him and he remembered not only your name but also what you had told him, it was time to make a gentle move. I think something to the effect of "i am going to miss seeing you around the pool. Perhaps I can take you out for lunch before you head away." If he says yes, then there is hope. If he says no, then there is no hope. To make it a little less obvious, you could have also told him to invite his brother. After a lifetime of missed opportunities, I have decided not to miss any others if I can avoid it. My advice to all here is to do the same.
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