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Unfortunately, as much as your feelings are real, they are based on a lie. He is an escort having sex for money and you are a client looking for acceptance and intimacy. A great escort can fake intimacy for a long time, years, even a decade or more, but, a closer examination reveals that this kind of relationship is very one sided. The money flows one way and most of the affection and attention flow the other way. Escorts, for the most part, reveal just enough of themselves to make the experience you have with them have a basis in reality. Ultimately, there is a lot you do not know, will never know and that, I am afraid, is the nature of these interactions. There are exceptions. Many of us, including myself, have thought that this is one of the real ones. Ultimately, it is usually self delusion and the wishing for it to be so. As hard as it is, move on. You are paying for a service and you are getting tsuris. Translated from the Yiddish Aggravation, Heatache.

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Hot guy. No experience with him. If you see him, suggestion at least one photo in which he as friendly looking as he says he is in his blurb.

I see no reason to ask that question on a form and every reason to ask that question as part of the. history taking. I would usually ask the question in this manner. Are you sexually active. Most adults reply yes, many with the same old tired jokes. Not as much as I want to or some variation thereof. After the oh you're so witty moment has passed, the next question assuming a yes to the first is: Do have sex with men, women or both. Which is your preferred partner? This may lead to follow up questions such as when was the last time, how many partners etc. Other questions such as have you knowingly had unprotected sex with Iv drug users. Gay men. Those questions go to both sexes. If I sense any hesitance in the patient or I see that they are uncomfortable, I explain the need for an accurate sexual history related to possible exposure to sexually transmitted disease. Unfortunately, I have had more than several patients come in for a routine physical who say that they have never been asked those questions by other doctors. I explain that this is an essential part of the history but if they do not want to proceed, it would be best to find another practitioner though I will perform the rest of the exam at this time and note the request to not ask sexually related questions. I can think of at least 5 occasions in which the answers to the questions led to HIV testing and a positive test. I did not routinely order the test, but I always asked if they wanted to have the test done. Of those five occasion one was a pregnant woman who would have had the test done as part of the prenatal evaluation in any case, but she was very surprised at the result. Another was a man in his 70s who said he had not had sex in 10 years and he had not had sex with a man for slightly longer than that. His chief complain was fatigue. So while I think the question is clumbsily phrased and the whole situation could be handled more personally, I am pleased that at least the questions are being asked.

Then I guess, since you responded, that it was not a straw man argument. I find that when people do not answer they just do not answer. I offered an opinion and you hid from defending yours. I think that says it all.

Shouldn't one be more concerned about the lives he has ruined/

Too bad. It did end on a good note, so I will assume they all lived happily ever after, although we all know that does is a fairytale.

Some people just look like a cop. My brother in his younger days was always being mistaken for a cop. He was tall, broad shouldered and carried himself with a certain swag that sang out "cop". He got out of many a traffic ticket just by his cop look. Even now, in his eighties, he still gets mistaken for a retired policeman. On the other hand, my godson who works undercover, spends a lot of time making sure he does not have a look that makes him stand out. Fit but not muscular, unshaven but not with a groomed unshaven look. Clothing that fits less than perfectly and which easily hides concealed weapons. All an all, he looks like a schlub on hid way to the hardware store who is trying to handyman a home problem. Recently saw him at a family pool party and under all of that, he is built like the Statue of David.

There is a closed thread on this series from Netflix. I watched it all yesterday. I enjoyed it very much. The characters were recognizable in that they had the kind of concerns many people face when dealing with interpersonal relationships. It was clear what the ending would be in view of Bruno's passion for rom coms. There is some nice eye candy and a few r rated scenes of gay sex. It seems as though they did not make a second seasons which I think is too bad. At one point in the show, one of the characters mentions that there is the excitement of getting a gift and then the how to deal with the gift once you get it. That is exactly what the second season would be about if they ever make it.

At this point in time, I am concerned that anyone could be working for the government and not in a good way. Asking is peculiar in that the answer is almost always going to be "No" even if he does work for the government.

One of my roommates in college built a still and distilled vodka. It took a long time to get any results and the results were putrid at best, but he seemed to enjoy drinking it. Glad he did not go blind.

Ringworm is spread by contact skin to skin. You see it frequently in sexually transmitted situations of all kinds Wrestlers frequently need to be checked to prevent it becoming spread during matches. Young children who roughhouse also will transmit it one to another. Usually ringworm can be treated with topical medication. This particular strain of trichophyton in this patient required prolonged oral medication with a trial of three different medications. The issue here is the resistance, not the manner of transmission,.

I am a big fan of Apollo Phoenix and he is a very nice guy. He will go out of his way to please in and out of the bedroom. He does not advertise so the way to contact him is to send me your text or e mail address and I will pass it on to him. He responds promptly once I forward the contact to him.

He is here in Palm Springs right now. Someone I might have looked into before this thread. Thanks for the information. Now a definite no.

Back in the day, I paid usually with checks and so they knew my name and if they wanted it to be made out personally, then I knew theirs. Occasionally, I would leave the name blank and allow them to fill it in. I do usually ask if the name I am using for them is a stage name, sometimes it is obvious that it is. I have not had a provider tell me they would rather not reveal their real name. In my head, the person's actual name already increases the intimacy significantly.

My trainee from 5 years ago has just left. Had a nice 1.5 talk and he is back to packing to head back to NJ to live. It is a shame we did not get together sooner as it would have been nice for me to speak with him a bit more and to perhaps share a meal. His mileage may vary.

Or push up the daisies

Canoe or canoodle?

I am getting a visit today from one of my trainees who I have not seen in five or six years. He is driving an hour for a one hour or so visit and then returning home. He is moving back east and has said he wanted to see me before he did so. He and I were not particularly close and other than professionally, I do not think we have much in common. Though not a friend, I am very pleased that he is stopping by to say hello and ?pay respects. Do people pay respects other than with a death? In any case, it gave me hope that kindness and gratitude are not totally dead. Of course, he may be coming over just to get some deep seated hostility off his chest. I will inform as to how it went.

I dont think he says "Do you work out" to everyone. At least he never said it to me. Good reason for that.

Is that chain strong enough to keep that junk in the trunks?

About thirty years or so ago, I was dining midweek at Commander's Palace and there was only one other table being used. That table had one older man and about a dozen beautiful young men. I ask the waiter what was going on and he said, Oh Just another Tuesday for Herb Ritts. Not knowing who Herb Ritts was, I went to a book store to see his photographs. Clearly Mr Ritts liked putting on the Ritz and did it well.

I did not mean to imply that one should consider age as a criteria for friendship, merely beyond a certain age spread, it is difficult to connect on day to day travails. It doesn't require conversation to have issues seen. A night out used to require a quick pee at the onset and perhaps one at the end of the evening depending on the intake. Now not so much. Walking cross town used to be a fun way to chat and get some air and perhaps sober up a bit. If a younger friend suggested that, I would have to decline. I did not select friends by age, but as I age, the same age difference has gotten larger.

I have had mostly younger friends since my early thirties. I am not speaking of a year or two, I am speaking of about a decade. I used to think that this was great, that they would keep me younger acting. I am not speaking of friendcs with benefits, which I believe most would find younger preferrable, I am speaking ofjust someone with whom to spend time. Now that I am over 65, I find that younger friends have a difficult time understanding things like frequent urine stops and lack of desire to go out at night. They would rather have dinner out than just have something at home. While I still enjoy their company. it seems they are less understanding the things that we seniors face on a daily basis. I hit a curb while driving and got a flat tie. I was able to make it home. I spoke to my friend who is in his early 50s and he suggested I just change it myself. When I explained that I had already called a tow truck and I had difficulty getting up into the cab, he was surprised and seemed a bit incredulous that would be the case. So men, expecially the seniors but anyone is welcome, do you prefer your friends older or younger. I believe that there is a sweet spot between five years younger and five years older that is ideal, but life and friendships are never ideal.