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For me, this is homoerotic because it seems as though our ass man is fucking a very much smaller and likely tight young man. He has a great ass and I only wish this was a vine with a few thrusts being shown.

There are some mirrors in the gym I am going to now but I choose not to look. Unlike a tasty piece of cake, I can resist the mirrors.

I do not look in mirrors and have not intentionally looked in a mirror other than for medical reasons is more than 30 years. I also do not do photos unless cajoled by a friend. This all started when I looked in the mirror on a morning was like any other and instead of seeing my face, I saw the face of my father staring back at me. Now my father was a handsome man and a bit of a playboy when he was widowed in his later twenties and early thirties. Just seeing the resemblance and my association with him being an "old" man, he was my father after all and he was 39 when I was born, freaked me out. I was never much of a mirror guy and that episode sealed the deal. Now looking back at pictures taken years ago and see that I actually looked quite handsome, I realize that I had dysmorphia which is probably still present, but at this point I have gotten used to not using the mirror and the camera though I can do so with ease now, but I just do not do so. .

To be fair, he did not stand you up, rather he was going to be late and was very late in letting you know that. As a result you cancelled rather than have him come later than scheduled. It seems that you set up a tight schedule with a session and dinner with someone else to follow soon after. So perhaps the warning is not that he cancels or stands one up but rather that he is not respectful of scheduling and so expect that he may be late and also late to let you know that. For me, that would not be a problem, but I can certainly see where others who are more schedule driven would be annoyed.

0 i spoke to a trainer today and told him what my goal was, to be able to do a pec bounce and he said that might take awhile. It could be a result of what would pass for my pecs would require a crane to lift. In any case he said that I could expect that kind of rise by the fall. SO there you have it. I signed up for 12 sessions. Trainers here are charging in the region of 75 dollars a session. I have no idea as to whether that is expensive or not. Back in the early 2000s, a physician assistant who worked in my office was also a personal trainer. He was the first cousin to a reality TV show personality who was known for a philosophy of "tan, gym and laundry". I believe those were the three points. Anyway, he lived by that philosophy as well and he had won a Mr. Long Island contest and was a power lifter. I never found out if he was a power bottom. In any case, he was charging $60 dollars an hour back then, so $75 now did not seem unreasonable. What are trainers charging where you are?

You could just go buy your old phone back, like ransom but I would find that amaxzingly annoying. Pay with a credit card andthen cancel the charge once you have your phone, that would likely cause you further headaches but the satisfaction might be worth it.

Swimming is a great exercise. My gym does not have a pool but my backyard does. However, the pool has two shallow ends with steps on both ends so that doing laps is not possible. It is possible to walk the perimeter in the water, which is fun and allows me to skim the foliage that finds its way in due to the Palm Springs wind. And afterwards, I can sit at one end and look out over a nice view of the mountains. That is not a great exercise for the body but it is a great exercise for the spirit.

Thank you all for the encouragement and the ideas. I ;I used to counsel people who wanted to change their health to do three days, three weeks then three months and then three years. I have done the days and weeks part of that and I am approachjng the three months. Then come the true test, the three year part. There is a general idea that it takes 10000 hours to become expert at something so one hour a day, 6 days a week for 50 weeks a year for three years gets you nearly there.

I do not think self sucking is a good idea in that if I can do that, why would I go to the gym?

I recently retired and soon after my move to Palm Springs, I started going to the gym each day. My intention was just to improve my level of fitness and, as the gym is one which caters to a very high percentage of gay middle aged men, to ogle those men who have not been remiss in going to the gym. The gym has many very muscular men and lots of fit men of all ages. Going to the gym has been much easier as I know that there will be all kinds of eye candy there. The people have been extraordinarily supportive of a fat old man doing walking laps. I have receieved unsolicited encouragement from dozens of people at the gym and it has made this transition to a healthier lifestyle much easier. On the first day, I walked a mile and when I was done, one of the trainers came to speak to me and encourage me to keep at it. Several days later, I saw him again and I asked to speak to him about an eventual training session. He asked me what my goals were at the gym and I told him that my immediate goal was to be able to get up off the floor unassisted. He said that he likes people with realistic goals and there should be no trouble reaching this milestone. He left, I sat for a bit taking in the view and then went to rise from the chair only to have the leg twist and buckle and I landed on the floor. After the inital shock of being on the floor wore off, I looked around and no one was coming to give me assistance and so I need to get myself up. I eventually succeeded just as some men noticed me and came to assist. They were fairly hot looking and I was tempted to throw myself down to the floor just so they would help me up. Instead, I thought, well my first goal was accomplished so time to set a new one. My follow up goal had to do with activities at the gyn and my personal appearance. As a fat men over 60, it had been awhile since I had seen my penis without the use of a mirror and some belly shuffling. So my goal became to see my penis. Only two methods came to mind, lose substantial gut or get a bigger penis. I would have preferred the getter a bigger penis option, but that did not seem viable, so I opted for the lose some of the gut al.ternative. Two month later, my walking sessions have stretched to almost an hour and I have increased my distance by 2.5 times the original. Clothes are looser and energy is higher and yesterday was the day the second goal was accomplished. There, while looking down at my feet, was an old friend I had not seen for years. He looked good but a bit less robust than I remembered him. Still, I was happy to see him and soon afterward he appeared to be happy to see me. So now that I have reached my second plateau, do any of you have any suggestions as to what the third goal should be? I intend to continue going to the gym, even through the summer inferno of Palm Springs but a fun and achievable goal makes the whole process easier. I will be adding some light weight training to my regimen. I have considered that a pec bounce might be the next goal but I am open to suggestions.

Feet a a frequent fetish and the guys who show them know this and feet=ure them. Also odd, i have known several escorts who do not take their socks off during sex and do not want their feet seen nor touched. I am not into feet in general but just like the dance of the seven veils, it is the covered that I will, find, at times, the most desirable. I enjoy taking men to a slightly uncomfortable place during sex, only as to expanding their horizons and also feeding my control desire. So I will consider it a feat to uncover those feet.

It may not be the escort quality has changed but rather it is your specifications have narrowed. When I first found a male escort site, I had had minimal male male contact and none in 30 years. I found 3 men I was interested in meeting on a site that had 500 men or so. I decided to experiment and I hired two of the men. I enjoyed being with both of them very much and in the intervening years I have come to love my time with men. After my initial perusal of the ads and my first experiences, my tastes broadened. I found more and more kinds of men of interest and as a result I hired a wider range of men. After a bit, I became more selective again. Having discovered there were men of all types that might interest me, but really my main interest was in the men not in the type of men. So I became a client with only a few men I would see and slowly added and subtracted from that list as time, inclination, location and of course money permitted. While I am sure I would probably pick those original three men out of a similar escort lineup as I did in 2004, I find now that the men I like are older, more intelligent, more accommodating and less dangerous than the men I first found intoxicating. I find that locating men with these qualities is a bit more difficult to find than the qualities searched for after my initiation into hiring. And so, yes for me there is less of a selection, but that is more my doing than it is the quality of the men out there. It is just that big muscles, a thick dicks, a handsome face and a nearby location will get me to window shop, I am looking for much more than that in the men I hire.

So Mrs. Lincoln...other than that, how was the play?

It seems no one is coming at all. Time and tide wait for no man in or out of the closet.

From your description, you need to take a long hard look at yourself and figure out why you have passed up these opportunities with people you love and gay friends. It may be that you nned to look in that mirror and self acceptingly, fully come out to yourself and then go from there.

So deep that he may be in Narnia?

I agree with pubic_assistance in that as a bisexual man, my approach to men and women is different. The difference is stark. As a younger man, women needed to be seduced while it was often the women that was surreptitiously doing the seducing. The expectation of that female seduction usually was not a quick fuck. If that is what a woman wanted, especially younger women, all that was needed for that was a willingness to do it. So in dealing with women, it was mostly a slower process and with an expectation that it was not going to be a one time thing/. Sometimes it was intentionally a one time thing but that remained unspoken. When I was 35, I decided that after years of refusing set ups, I would go on blind dates. I then told all my friends and acquaintances thjat I wsa willing to go on blind dates. In a two month period, I have 25 to 30 blind dates. I was a single, relatively good looking, reasonably fit doctor willing to go on blind dates. This is in the pre computer age. I wound up having sex with about 8 of those women. but only one on the first date. Granted as a fix up, these women did not necessarily want to risk having it known by their fixer upper that they were willing to have sex on the first date. But the standard was at least one and usually two dates before sex. With men however, it seems that if you do not have sex at the first opportunity, they are moving onto to the next guy. The standard seems to be that sex is expected. As a result, everything is more upfront. Most men I have met are of the opinion that any sex is better than no sex. I have rarely found women who felt that way, though these days older ladies are much more willing. The problem is, that sex is only one thing with the women and with men, usually, it is the only thing,

All recoomendation with link to RM from page 6 on, only Jack Ryan gives a glimpse of the goods in the regular part of Rentmen. I trust the posters, but speedo pictures only give a small protion of the story.

I hired a couple many times. Munroe and Ross, back 30 years ago. Not sure if they are still in the business. They were great together and there was not awkwardness. Eventually I preferred one to the other but never pulled the trigger on hiring only one, so that was a missed opportunity. I have set up threeways one a few other occasions and hired them separately. Mixed result. One was for an overnight, which was a mistake. The guys were well reviewed individually and one was an escort I hired numerous times with great sarisfaction. It really did not work out well. Another situation I had an appointment with an escort, who convinced a friend who was an escort to join us. I had done a favor for the friend and the first escort thought this would be a way of paying me back. REally, the first escort had the hots for the second guy and this was an opportunity to get action that he was not otherwise getting. Both very hot, but the roles were not clear and so there was a lot to organize for an hour appointment. Ultimately, it was a good experience for me and them, which had the potential to be great, but one hour is not enough for a threesome and in general, I would still prefer guys who have been together..

I intended to be brief but I was not. Skip to the last paragraph for a brief summary if you do not want the details. I have mentioned this is the past but I will repeat it, briefly, here again. At 17 I was picked up while hitchhiking and was offered $50 dollars to allow the driver to blow me. I agreed, as I needed the money, and afterwards he gave me $20, which considering my shock at doing this at all, was something I was willing to accept and get out of the car. By the way, I drove while he blew and then when he wanted to stop because his back hurt, I forced his head doen until I came in his mouth. Two years later, visiting a friend at college, we had a drunken encounter which resulted in frottage. We are still friends 50 years later and have not discussed it since. He visited me this week and revealed to me that he was sexually abused as a child and that he found it difficult to speak of sexual matters. He also told me that he lost his virginity to a woman that was aggressively sexual and in control of the entire act. In any case, my sexual encounters from that point until after my wife passed, were strictly with women. I had practically no interest in men as a sexual partner and if my wife had not passed before me, I believe that I would never had any other sexual encounters with a man. After my wife died, I tried dating women and having sex with women and after two years, I found both of those activities unsatisfying. I then noticed a friend of one of my employees who was a Romance novel coverman and prone to wearing form fitting clothing. Later, I discovered that he was a male escort catering to men and women, when I hired him sight unseen from an agency and he showed up at my door. Anyway, one day he came to go to lunch with my employee and I noticed him and thought, I could fuck that ass. So soon after, I found a site on line with male escorts and went through the entire catalog of about 500 pictures, and I found three men who I thought I would be able to fuck. I contact the two local ones and arranged a meeting with each. The first encounter was terrifying in anticipation but life altering in completion. The day after I hired him, and leaving the hotel stunned by my activity, I awoke with an erection and wanting more from him. I hired him again that day. Since then, I have had sex with men and women. I find men more satisfying in general but I still enjoy the company of women. So, in conclusion, I have sex with men and women. For the first half of my sexual years, I had sex almost exclusively with women. Now, I have sex predominantly with men. I have never discussed my sex life with members of my family nor with professional acquaintances. Several weeks ago, having brunch with a gay couple I met through the forum, one member commented about my ogling a women and said that he did not realize that I liked women. So I came out to him about that.

Bumping this up so an newbie who asked about him can find the thread.

I am not a big porn fan but Brock Masters as the top in this has a great body and a deep sexy voice and his fucking kind of keeps time to the musio probably more correctly the music keeps. time to his fucking, The music at the beginning I believe is an oboe which is getting blown in time to the BJ.

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First of all, i would make sure the provider is aware that you would like him to be subdued in appearance. Lots of escorts wear form fitting or skin revealing shirts and pants that emphasized the goods and for good reason. They got it, they flaunt it. Except in this case, you want to be sure he is not flaunting it too obviously in view of the co workers. Otherwise, I would say, the sexier the better. Prepare a cover before hand in that, in general conversation about the trip, mention a friend or relative who lives in that city with whom you will be having a meal. That way, a man coming up to your room can casually be dismissed as that friend or relative. You want to have a room on a separate floor if possible. You do not want to be inhibited in expressing your excitement especially if the provider hits all your buttons and control is not on full. Finally, what happens in your room is not the business of your coworkers. I can respect your desire for privacy and so should they. Also, if you are there for a conference or a meeting. You might want to schedule your encounter during those meetings and then excuse your self as to not feeling well. Tell someone you are headed back to your room to take a nap and that you will probably be unavailable for the rest of the day. All that prep will give you some sense of security/ But most of all, plan to enjoy the encounter. Is your escort well reviewed here? You might want to share his name so as to get some feedback from others who have hired him.

The most impressive part is covered.