Isrhunter

I took the interesting work route and it became boring. Europeans get insulted when asked "what are you" as if one's line of employment defines someone. It's work. For money. 

My 2 cents, it is unprofessional on your part to ask an escort what is the rate for 30 min knowing that it’s always minimum an hour. With all my respect, one advice for you, if you want an escort to take any of your request seriously never ask for 30 min. This sounds ridiculous. 

Doesn’t change anything my friend.
I will never pay deposits to a provider. And if that doesn’t work for him, and that’s totally his prerogative, that’s fine because he won’t be getting my business and we can go our separate ways.
As always, good luck to you 😊

This is what it means when people take kindness for weakness. 
 
This person was scheduled to book for the evening since earlier today. He shows up, and before we get started I ask to settle up and he says he forgot the money at home. Like literally didn’t seem coherent to the fact that nothing is going to happen unless I receive the payment. He was “embarrassed” and apologetic, but couldn’t go to the atm to get more because that’s all he had. 
People want to keep giving these sob stories of being ripped off or not feeling comfortable, but yet do the very things that compel me to have to ask for it to begin with. They afraid of deposits, but then do moves to inconvenience and waste others time. 
 
But jokes on him because apparently he drove 45 minutes across the valley in California at night. I sent his ass right back out the door 🥾  
 
People expect me to trust them more who only have 1 picture, or no picture at all: versus me with references and reviews. How does that work? It doesn’t…
People have to understand: no matter how much another escort has ripped you off, or failed to deliver…Some of us still have to stand our ground regardless. 
 
I also think people may just be getting generally shittier in the country too because, most every hotel I go to also wants deposits as well. Even your run of the mill budget chains. $100 ON TOP of what I’m already paying. That’s like me asking a client to send $100 on top of my rate, and then say I’m going to give it back. And since I’m a full time traveling provider, that puts even more onus on me to collect deposits because it’s not just the cost of room I have to front and possibly lose, but the hotel deposit out of pocket as well. 
If I have to continue to fight this much, I’m just going to stop touring and hosting. They’re going to need to have everything set up, and it’s not going to be what I’m charging now. 
 

I've got enough saved up now that I can start planning/prepping for my first big events (Coolwave35 inspired!) - first, a gangbang: 6-8 guys overnight, all tops. I will also be giving away 500 dollar prizes for different contests like best striptease, best cumshot, etc. Some time after that, a full weekend-long competition! Grand prize will be a full week vacation
I'm thinking of these cities so far: 
Miami/FTL, Barcelona, Vegas, NYC, LA, Madrid, Berlin, London, Bogota, Medellin, Sao Paolo, or Rio. And heres how I'll choose where: starting ASAP, i'm going to hold 5-10 minute "auditions"; reaching out to guys in each city and seeing if they're interested and down to do a compensated audition camshow. I'll score them on a pre-determined rubric and the city with the highest score will be the place I go
If anyone has recommendations for guys or accommodations, let me know! 

Yes you're absolutely right! I remember on my first trip to Israel right out of high school in early 1980, Israelis used to talk about the Oriental culture and Oriental food etc... At first I was confused because being from the USA growing up in the 60's/70's for me the Orent was a lot further east. Then I remembered it's how the British referred to anything east of the Mediterranean basin historically. Today Israel has lost its old European Jewish flavor and instead the terms Middle Eastern or Arabic/Israeli are used in place of Oriental. 

If you're in a country unlawfully, you're ILLEGAL!
If you have overstayed your visa and are here without permissions, you're ILLEGAL!
PERIODT.

He is a conman 

Booked an escort off rent men. When he arrived, he looked absolutely nothing like his pics. Completely different person. He was a catfish. I asked him to leave immediately, then he demanded his full payment. When I told him I’m not paying anything cause he’s not the guy in the pics, he started shouting and causing a scene at 2 AM. Then he proceeds to pull out his phone and starts recording me. After the video, I decided to pay him the $200 we initially agreed on via Cash App. From the cashapp transaction, he learns my full legal name. He then asks me to make it 300. I absolutely refuse, then he increases it to $500 claiming it’s because I wasted his time and was disrespectful to him (by telling him that he was a catfish). So now I don’t know what to do. He says if I don’t pay him the $500, he’ll post the video online with my face and my name. I managed to tell him let’s go outside to the atm so I can get the money. I walk behind him and once he’s out the apartment building door, I shut it immediately behind him. Help, any advice? I don’t know what to do. He has my number, the video, my name. I’m in grad school and this would probably destroy me. I don’t know what to do. Please only constructive advice. No form of chastising would make me feel more shittier than I already do.

First of all thanks a lot to all the guys that posted their opinions here.!!!!
Well actually at the end I ended up meeting with the guys. 
And I survived the ordeal......🤣......just joking!!!! It was a good experience.
PM for details if interested

Unfortunately just had a very poor experience with Habibihunk and really regretting my decision. Happy that other reviewers on RM have had good things to say, but I would personally not recommend. Feel free to PM me for details. 

A glowing endorsement from a new poster and, ten minutes later, Adam checks in. 
Just sayin'!
 

Another very hot interaction I've had...
Went to eat at a Chili's with 3 friends one night. We had an EXTREMELY muscled up server. I was not out - AT ALL.
The 3 friends get up to go to the bathroom at the end of the meal. Muscle server boy comes over and I say "Hey, I hope this doesn't offend you but you are AMAZINGLY HOT!! Look, my friends have NO CLUE but I am gay. If you ever want to make a little bit more money, text me and let me know."
Gave him my number and he said "sounds good, I'll text you when I get off."
A few hours go by and I get this "Hey bud, this is ____ from Chili's. I'm down for taking you up on your offer. What you looking to do?" My reply: "best discussed with a phone call." Phone rings.
He came over the next day after the gym and I spent several months helping this guy out and he helping me out. 
Damn, that was ONE HOT ITALIAN!!!!!

I loved Naorhason, Danielnarissi, and ahmedxxl

I loved Naorhason, Danielnarissi, and ahmedxxl

It’s by experience. My rate and availability times are easily found - it’s on the website. If a potential client has looked there, seen what I’m about and most likely had all his basic questions answered by what’s written on there then he’s more likely to book. 
Whereas if he’s just found my number somewhere (it’s on lots of places even where I haven’t advertised because these sites just find numbers of guys who do this kind of work and add them to their directory to make it look busy and attract paying advertisers) or if he’s not looked beyond page 1 of my website then it’s more likely he won’t follow through with booking.
Example texts I get:
”Hi, I want a girl for tonight, my hotel”. This punter thinks I’m an agency. Ignore. 
”I’m a student, what’s your best rate?” This one hasn’t read that I don’t do student rates. “Sorry I don’t discount”.
”Your videos have got me screaming Wow every sec of the way through. Tonites my best nite. Had to give Head for a gram in the office toilets and its gd stuff i can get more for us?” That one is one of my favourites…. one of many examples where the client is drunk or high when they contact me. Ignore. 
“Hi do you do massage?” That’s obviously someone who has found my number on a list of workers….and often the conversation reveals they expect me to be female…(I guess my name could be female too) and when they discover I’m a guy…it’s my fault and I get shade. Those guys are actually worth being rude to: I tell them guys give a better bj so he should try it out 😂.
”Hi I’m at a hotel on 23rd and 5th downtown Indianapolis. Are you free later tonight?” He believes I’m in some  US city (swap Indianapolis for AN Orher place). God knows how he thinks that. “I’m in London, England, sorry”. I could add that if Concorde still flew I might be able to make it but my outcall rate for outside of London includes travel costs….
So you see, lots of questions get asked that obviously aren’t going anywhere. They get a short, polite, response, some get instantly blocked. 

 
 

I loved Naorhason, Danielnarissi, and ahmedxxl

Adults have the right to say no to anything. I’m cultivating a new boy and here’s the text message I JUST sent him. 

Oh boy. Where to start. These come to mind. 
 
My personal Grindr success rate is 4 out of 35 in my home area, and maybe 1 out of 6 in New York City.  However, there’s a small network of guys in my county that share boys that they’ve identified as receptive to generosity, so there have been about 12 guys identified on Grindr that I’ve paid for stuff.  
 
At a strip club, namely Adonis, I’ve only ever been turned down twice. One was when brothers propositioned me to participate in a highly regulated, over priced 3 some. But I kinda turned them down I guess. Another was when I asked Beau Montreal to go get a falafel barefoot while 3 guys came in his shoe. He said no, but another dancer said yes.
I have much better success rates in situations where I can develop trust over time rather than pounce in a moment of horny exploration than I do propositioning out of the blue. 
 
My ups guy is gorgeous. I planted the seeds in a joking manner. It took 4 years to get his dick pics (with face) but once I had them, I knew I’d get to suck it, and I did. He invited me to join him and his buddies at a bar when his gf dumped him. I went. He got drunk and asked me to drive him home. At his house, he goes “let’s go. I know you want it.  Don’t tell a fucking soul.”  That’s all that was said. This was after 5 years of dramatically increasing Christmas bonuses tucked in Christmas cards declaring my desires. 
 
I hooked up with my ex husbands straight co worker. He had just had a baby. I had just had a divorce. I congratulated him and said “baby’s are expensive, if you need anything I have some extra cash.”  He got it and took me up on my offer thrice in 19 months so far. 
 
I got a straight single dad to take 6 loads to his face and body at a strip club once because he couldn’t afford Christmas. 
 
Instagram models I’ve only tried 4 times and landed 2. There were stories that they were receptive so that success rate is a bit inflated. 
 
I gave a waiter 100% tip once and wrote if you wanna make REAL money, text me. I was the dude in the blue. He did. 
 
I left a note on the windshield of a guy at the gym’s car that was probably one of the hottest men I’d ever seen. I said I was a guy that long admired his body with my eyes and I’d love to pay for the privilege of using my hands. We texted for nearly 4 months before he caved. I just gave him a massage and touched his dick. 
 
Those are the ones that are fresh but there are more. 

There was a strip club called SWINGING RICHARDS in Atlanta back in the day. It closed last year. MOST of the guys there were VERY straight and would upsell the FUK out of you in the backroom and you got NOTHING, usually.
So, I did not go a lot unless I was with with friends who wanted to go. 
One night, a particular guy caught my eye. I chatted him up and found out we actually had a lot in common. I went back to see him several times. 
One night, I may have had a little more liquid courage than normal, and I just asked him "So, how much would it cost for you to bottom for me?"
He seemed taken aback at first, and I apologized profusely, "I'm sorry man, I didn't mean to offend you." To which he replied "no, no, it's all good. I've never done that. Kinda new here. And I've only JO'ed with another guy. Not saying no, but how about you text me and we can discuss it via text."
Long story short, my next trip into Atlanta, I got a hotel room and he came to see me for an hour. I WILL NOT ADMIT to how much I paid for this VERY STRAIGHT GUY to let me inside him...but it was WORTH EVERY PENNY. The strange thing is, I could tell he was NOT having a good time but he was VERY intent on ME having a good time – it was a weird dynamic but weird in a good way, in my favor. 
 

His size wouldn’t be an issue with me….because I’d like to top him!

As a a top I love to manhandle and play rough when dominating, of course communication is key. 

I have the opposite version of this fetish I like being on my phone or watching TV while being serviced. I have done this a few times with with guys I have hired

Absolute vers. And a smooth comodious ass. 

I think the op could change the title to make it clear that it was a client who ran out without paying.
Otherwise I want to know who the provider is who normally pays. I want to meet him.😜