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Bravo. Well said.

It really is as simple as this!👍🏻👍🏻

I’m always upfront about the minimum I’m looking for: “Hi I’m looking for a therapeutic massage with some sensual elements throughout, both nude with mutual touch and release. Is that something you provide?” Not only does this help avoid disappointment it also helps prevent up charging later (which I hate) - the provider can quote me a price for what I’m asking for. 

I actually find this gentleman quite attractive. 

I agree, though since I'm not a premium member of RM, I can't leave a review anymore.

I've found a 5 "positive" review with warning in the actual wording is more likely to stay on RM.

Please do not forget there ARE real LMTs out there. Aka Myself I travel cross country in my car WITH my deluxe top of the line Nova by oakworks table. I am college trained and have taken classes such as body electric and other male workshops. My rates include mutual nude, mutual touching, kissing, oral, body contact, top, vers, kinks. 
At a starting point of I ask 225.hr, 325.90mins, 425.2hrs and 500.3hrs 
 
Gas to travel 8 hrs to next city: $80.
Name brand matriott hotel 80-250$ (per night)
Table: 400$ plus scleping around a 85# table.
 
I think instead of saying you'll never pay over 180 for a massage and blaming the provider I think you need to vet your masseurs more. Ask where they trained, where they worked, ask for reputable reviews or client testimonials (rentmen reviews are a great hint) oh me? Having 40 something 5 star positive reviews is not because I'm a fake LMT.
 
Good day gentlemen and be safe out there.

But since you asked, I've posted this before:
Don't bother with blocked phone calls. Seriously. He's a time waster. Same for texts that come through from an email address.
  Hear a voice on the phone before heading over or giving your address. Subsequent booking can be made via text.
  It's not a bad idea to call the hotel and get patched through to the room before heading over, especially if something strikes you as 'off'. The likelihood of a future booking actually happening is inversely proportional to the number of texts, calls and emails beforehand.
  Keep note of the numbers that flake on you, for they'll do it again in six months. And that same guy has done it to me, and every other escort. Be leery of drunk. They often pass out before you get there, or after.
  He may be having a great time and want to extend the session. Mazel tov. But he may be thinking with his little head and not have the funds. Settle up occasionally.
  Every client starts as a first timer. But first timers also often lose their nerve, and you lose your time and effort. Don't front the money for a first time session (hotel, travel, etc.) and rarely for repeat sessions.
  Don't drive two hours without a deposit (e.g. Venmo or Amazon e-gift card). Key words that indicate this is going nowhere: Engineer, Nigeria, "your city".
  Don't discount your first session because he's going to see you weekly. Future sessions may be negotiable, initial bookings are always full fare. Make some friends in the biz. They've seen it all before and can offer guidance.
  Trust your gut. A few bucks isn't worth your health, safety, or freedom. Most guys you'll meet will be wonderful and pleasant. Some will be odd ducks, and even that can be fun or at least entertaining. A few are bad eggs, but those guys are extremely prolific in wasting your time.
Kevin Slater

For this client, Rate posted is a starting point. I figure paying that rate gets me respect, kindness and physical access  - consensual, and within boundaries set ahead of meeting. It’s like the basic car wash..
Now…
Making me feel that he’s enjoying our activities, that gets him a bump. Reading our exchange accurately and instinctively, guiding the play to something new for one of us?Premium Wash with additional rinse! Another bump. Exceptional hosting ability (cleanliness of self and environment, punctuality, having a private and conducive space with appropriate ambience, bottled water available, etc) Yup, another bump. Hot wax!
I reward efforts of preparation, connection, and imagination. Hand polish and buff. Bump.
And if he knows how detail my rims, well…
 

 
 

I saw him, no exaggeration, I had a great time. Worth it. PM for details.

Wholey fuck dude, 14 times??? I can’t imagine you’re actually fully cumming each time. Unless you have some extreme super balls, but I won’t discount what you say. 
 
I’m curious how do you stick to non processed and artificial foods when traveling often, does that mean avoiding all fast food? Where can you find that each day. 
 
I’m annoyed that many fast food places seem to have moved away from healthy options during Covid: McDonald’s no longer has salads, KFC has taken off baked beans and green beans 😤 I’ve been finding better options at Safeway grocery stores when it comes to meals with healthy side items 

Yes. I remember when I was young and would go with older men ...I noticed that the balding guys were better in bed.

Very true. I had a fabulous time with him.

If I hire a masseur for a massage at their home, they are getting 100% of the fee. Unlike a spa ( or similarly how you are expected to tip for service in a restaurant.) So I see no obligation to tip unless I want to thank them for service that exceeded expectation.
Of course the massage business can often include extra services after the massage ...so naturally tipping is then mandatory and should be as generous as the provider was generous with his special skills

This topic (“tipping”) shows up every few years. It usually ends in back and forth disagreements between members that have strong feelings but generally end up being unhelpful.
My takeaway has always been to do what works for you and help you achieve your objectives.
I value my regulars - I choose to tip them because they meet or exceed my expectations. You do you. 🤷‍♂️

Honestly, I usually scroll through the Platinum guys because they're expensive and head to the lower levels. 

He could be a fiduciary 😜

Anyone have any experience with this hottie?
https://rent.men/TallTexanVisitor

Sativa (THC) dominant if you want wild sex and Mix of Sativa (THC 80%) Indica (20%) if you want more romantic/relaxed sex.
I like to buy flowers mostly because I know what I'm getting, which is not always the case with pre-rolls. I'm wary of vapes - too much chemicals.
Concentrates (tinctures) are good too as long as you know that they kick-in sometimes after 1h, and depending on how much you took the high can last 6 hrs.
Don't go crazy buying edibles because it's tricky to know how much you're eating. I find that gummy bears (of the same batch) give me more control on that.
THC infused lube sounds like a great idea for a long session. Never found it online. Let us know how it goes.

Yes that’s the post penetration mouthwash 🙂

I always confirm with the client the day before. Just in case…
 

Like a good dentist 😂 

And just as invasive 

Saw him several years ago when he lived in the DC area. Had a good time. He's an Interesting guy--into the arts. At that time, he was planning to join a commune in Maine. He occasionally turns up in DC and has been based in a couple different Maine locations. Not your typical provider.

True. That seems maybe excessive for a provider. 5-6 times a day, for how many days now? Is that supposed to continue till you meet in person? Are you dating? That's a serious question, because unless it's a very elaborate session of time together that's being constructed and discussed... what are you talking about? While it's conceivable to become friends outside of the provider/client relationship, that takes time. 
How long was he talking about his money problems before you offered? How often/emphatically did he bring it up? How personal are the topics of conversation? 
Serious question to reflect on: how emotionally invested are you getting, and is that reciprocated? I've also set up session with providers far in advance before traveling to an area, though they were long established with solid reputations. I say that because, with that provider, all communication was almost explicitly regarding our time together and details regarding that. Is that the case with you currently?