Seanboiswimmer Posted March 15, 2021 Share Posted March 15, 2021 I see a lot of different ads and was wondering what the difference between sensual and erotic was for providers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TracerMain Posted March 15, 2021 Share Posted March 15, 2021 To me, as a customer: Sensual is a simple release, sometimes provider ending the session by giving me a hj. Erotic involves more play, focuses LESS on the massage, and I think has more sexual activity than just hj. Caliboy95, Seanboiswimmer and sportymilguy 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
510guy Posted March 15, 2021 Share Posted March 15, 2021 Erotic i think you will be sure provider is nude and may up for more than HJ. Sensual leaves the door open for it but not guaranteed. One person i know said he does not advertise as erotic because client expects sex or farther than the provider wants to go with every client Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LACoaster Posted March 15, 2021 Share Posted March 15, 2021 As a customer, I expect the following out of sensual: me nude and in draped; focus is a high quality massage, with happy ending most likely by hand, but could involve oral. Glutes and inner thigh areas not ignored during massage. Maybe light mutual touch allowed. Massseur might be shirtless. I don’t go for erotic, but I would expect massage goes from being the focus to a part of the experience. Masseur is definitely nude, penetration may be part of the experience. any masseurs on the board want to tell me if I’m off base? BeefyDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wanderoz Posted March 15, 2021 Share Posted March 15, 2021 I see a lot of different ads and was wondering what the difference between sensual and erotic was for providers. Can you do "What is the meaning of life?" as the next question? lanyc, MiamiLooker, Bluefin and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smurof Posted March 15, 2021 Share Posted March 15, 2021 https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/holiday-guide-to-message-code-busting.130937/ Dated, but incredibly relevant and accurate MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted March 15, 2021 Share Posted March 15, 2021 I’m a masseur. I advertise sensual massage. I’m naked during the massage (I might start in a jock), client is naked, nowhere is off limits (depending on what the client wants), he can interact with me, it can include anything from hand job happy ending through to full penetration. I think the line between sensual massage and erotic massage is blurred. If I’m doubt ask your masseur. If they’re in a country where sex work is legal they’ll be open about what’s available. Luv2play and fedssocr1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluefin Posted March 15, 2021 Share Posted March 15, 2021 Can you do "What is the meaning of life?" as the next question? This. Everyone’s ideas are different. I’ve had “sensual” massages that some would consider erotic and vice versa. Depends on how both you and the masseur define it. Regardless if sensual or erotic are offered I explain to the masseur what I’m looking for and he agrees or not - then those two definitions don’t really matter. MiamiLooker, Jamie21, Seanboiswimmer and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redwine56 Posted March 16, 2021 Share Posted March 16, 2021 I’m a masseur. I advertise sensual massage. I’m naked during the massage (I might start in a jock), client is naked, nowhere is off limits (depending on what the client wants), he can interact with me, it can include anything from hand job happy ending through to full penetration. I think the line between sensual massage and erotic massage is blurred. If I’m doJamieubt ask your masseur. If they’re in a country where sex work is legal they’ll be open about what’s available. @Jamie21 members of the forum could only wish for a mssseur such as you on THIS side of the pond. You make us all envious that we don't have you here! ? Luv2play, + ButchAtl and Jamie21 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneTimeOnly Posted January 31, 2022 Share Posted January 31, 2022 This is the thing. So many of you expect full course meals when they’re not for sale. Sensual does NOT require you to have a naked masseur. Nor a happy ending. Just because one or two masseurs believe that it is obviously apart of it, they’re highly mistaken. Sensual doesn’t mean sex. It mean sexy. But, sexy doesn’t mean you are deserving or paying for a happy ending or sexual favor. The touch, the stroke of the hands and fingers, the closeness. That’s sensual. Erotic I can understand a naked masseur but stop applying your thoughts that you are paying for what you think it is. Ask your masseur and go from there. I see so many complaining on this site about expectations but give very little or try to negotiate us out of our prices. But then get mad when you don’t get what you want in the same fashion as a toddler. To then go on and write scathing reviews when you didn’t even ask proper questions. And then you don’t care or just don’t think about the fact that we have who are actually licensed have to worry about busts. We lose our licensing and possible jail time with high fines if we get caught doing things we legally shouldn’t be while having a license to do this. Like, really be considerate of what we go through and what we have to worry about. If you want sex and sexual favors hire an erotic masseur or an escort. But stop treating and talking about us on this forums m like we’re just toys for your benefit and not human beings. MikeBiDude, CuriousByNature, ekoile and 13 others 7 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ azdr0710 Posted February 1, 2022 Share Posted February 1, 2022 (edited) https://www.companyofmen.org/search/?q=sensual erotic&quick=1&search_and_or=and ten people = ten opinions!...... Edited February 1, 2022 by azdr0710 Capitano, MikeBiDude, + poolboy48220 and 2 others 3 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted February 1, 2022 Share Posted February 1, 2022 8 hours ago, OneTimeOnly said: This is the thing. So many of you expect full course meals when they’re not for sale. Sensual does NOT require you to have a naked masseur. Nor a happy ending. Just because one or two masseurs believe that it is obviously apart of it, they’re highly mistaken. Sensual doesn’t mean sex. It mean sexy. But, sexy doesn’t mean you are deserving or paying for a happy ending or sexual favor. The touch, the stroke of the hands and fingers, the closeness. That’s sensual. Erotic I can understand a naked masseur but stop applying your thoughts that you are paying for what you think it is. Ask your masseur and go from there. I see so many complaining on this site about expectations but give very little or try to negotiate us out of our prices. But then get mad when you don’t get what you want in the same fashion as a toddler. To then go on and write scathing reviews when you didn’t even ask proper questions. And then you don’t care or just don’t think about the fact that we have who are actually licensed have to worry about busts. We lose our licensing and possible jail time with high fines if we get caught doing things we legally shouldn’t be while having a license to do this. Like, really be considerate of what we go through and what we have to worry about. If you want sex and sexual favors hire an erotic masseur or an escort. But stop treating and talking about us on this forums m like we’re just toys for your benefit and not human beings. Well I agree about asking but that’s about all. Because the sensual/erotic style of massage isn’t regulated the content isn’t defined by any body or authority, so ask what it includes if it’s described as sensual or erotic. @OneTimeOnlyseems to be considering things from a US perspective. Describing yourself as a sensual masseur, offering sexual services and escorting will not get you busted here in the UK and in most of Europe. It’s legal (depending on how it’s sold). So sensual CAN mean a naked masseur, and a happy ending and more. Just ask the question if in doubt. Capitano, Wolfer and claym 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted February 4, 2022 Share Posted February 4, 2022 On 1/31/2022 at 6:55 PM, OneTimeOnly said: ....stop treating and talking about us on this forum like we’re just toys for your benefit and not human beings. Bravo. Well said. ekoile, MikeBiDude and Vulgarii 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dutchal Posted February 4, 2022 Share Posted February 4, 2022 (edited) Since the definitions of sensual and erotic can very considerably from masseur to masseur, best thing is to ask here about the masseurs you're considering and hope that there are members who've been and can fill you in from personal experience. PMs are very useful for getting details from guys who have posted that they've hired the masseur but are up against the rules here and plain old prudence and so won't post much detail. Edited February 7, 2022 by dutchal spelling pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneTimeOnly Posted March 12, 2022 Share Posted March 12, 2022 On 2/1/2022 at 12:17 AM, Jamie21 said: Well I agree about asking but that’s about all. Because the sensual/erotic style of massage isn’t regulated the content isn’t defined by any body or authority, so ask what it includes if it’s described as sensual or erotic. @OneTimeOnlyseems to be considering things from a US perspective. Describing yourself as a sensual masseur, offering sexual services and escorting will not get you busted here in the UK and in most of Europe. It’s legal (depending on how it’s sold). So sensual CAN mean a naked masseur, and a happy ending and more. Just ask the question if in doubt. Yes, I’m talking about American way of things. Escorting is legal in many European countries. But here it’s federally illegal. And they’ve been doing busts like crazy lately Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luv2play Posted March 13, 2022 Share Posted March 13, 2022 9 hours ago, OneTimeOnly said: Yes, I’m talking about American way of things. Escorting is legal in many European countries. But here it’s federally illegal. And they’ve been doing busts like crazy lately Really? What area are they doing lots of busts? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rustyrex Posted March 13, 2022 Share Posted March 13, 2022 Since I have started getting massage the communication has gotten worse and the price has gone up. I’m not blaming anyone but nowadays anyone can post an ad, put up some scantily clad pics or pics from the glory days, a fake pic of a massage studio and say anything they can to get your business. It happens every single day. Since everything is getting more expensive I’m most likely going to stop getting massages or going to reasonably priced people male or female. I prefer extra in my sessions but I’ve been getting burned too many times. The last guys place was filthy, his pics were outdated and he lied about his skill, he made an offer but after getting dog hair all over me I declined. The term of sensual and erotic are vague because people can say almost anything. Someone told me the sensual aspect of their massage was using a peacock feather during the massage to tickle my feet. One guy started playing games with me and told me he couldn’t elaborate. I didn’t pursue his business further. I hate playing games with guys, if I wanted that kind of back and forth I’d be on scruff. Like I said things are getting expensive, gas, food, and bills come before massages. kyleham, TravelingLibra, Capitano and 4 others 5 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ KensingtonHomo Posted June 17, 2022 Share Posted June 17, 2022 This is where communication is very important. If you're in the US, you have to keep in mind that most sex work is illegal in the US. So providers may be reticent to get into details over text or email. Read reviews or ask people who've seen providers about their experiences. Then, either by phone or when you arrive, talk to the provider and ask what to expect. pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted June 18, 2022 Share Posted June 18, 2022 On 6/17/2022 at 8:29 AM, KensingtonHomo said: providers may be reticent to get into details over text or email. YOU yourself should be careful. As you stated sex work is illegal. Sting operations often concentrate on the clients. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ KensingtonHomo Posted June 18, 2022 Share Posted June 18, 2022 1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said: YOU yourself should be careful. As you stated sex work is illegal. Sting operations often concentrate on the clients. I'm good, boo. I was making a generic statement that most providers won't get into details over those mediums because of potential entrapment. pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 On 6/18/2022 at 12:03 PM, KensingtonHomo said: I'm good, boo. I was making a generic statement that most providers won't get into details over those mediums because of potential entrapment. Sorry. I meant to respond to someone else and use YOUR statement to reinforce my own . Sorry for my clumsiness in social media discussions + KensingtonHomo 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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