sportymilguy

Sorry, more specifically Irving, TX. This is the Jack I'm referring to: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/1275/

Has anyone been with Jack recently in Dallas?

Hi guys, I'm traveling to DC then NYC for a few days. I was wondering who your reliable masseurs are these days? I really don't have a go-to in DC. I like Chris in NYC, but I'm always open to someone new.

I guess I won't know until I come back to CA. Today, I was suppose to see Shane at 1130, but en route I get a text from saying he woke up late after taking care of his daughter who has COVID and that he wanted to get tested. I asked Shane if I should outright cancel? He said, "no", and that he would just need time to take care of his daughter and get tested as he had tested negative last night, so I got close to his house for the originally scheduled time and waited an hour, and then I texted and left a voicemail to see what his status was? No response, so I texted that I hoped all was well and headed to Palm Springs to see friends. The day prior to today, he had texted me while I was in route to his place saying he would need to reschedule, which we did only to have this come up. I am sympathetic to emergencies, things coming up, etc., so hopefully things are better for him and his family. It is a puzzling interaction, and in hindsight, I should have told him I would outright cancel for everyone's sake. He looks to be an incredibly good looking man with mostly positive reviews. Who knows what the future holds, but this instance is why I prefer to go back previous hires rather chase the novelty of someone new. On a separate note, I did hire Glenn out of the OC based off a fellow member passing over his cell. He is still a very handsome, down to earth masseur with good technique. I also reached out to "Deron" who said he will be in Palm Springs 8-20 FEB. Unfortunately I won't be in town then, but good luck gents.

Update: Shane is charging $250 for 90 mins at his place. Is it worth it?

No worries. I still think Jack is worth meeting. Good luck!

I wrote that posting. I don't think he misled me. I just think he could communicate better what his availability is, and if/when it changes then to let a potential client know in a timely manner is all.

I'll send you a PM. However, I adore Chris both as an LMT and a person. I highly recommend.

That may not be the best indicator of what a person may be willing to do. I haven't seen Rob recently, so maybe he changed his protocol, which if so, is highly unfortunately. I had a great time when I saw him. I think it was late 21 or early 22 when he was traveling through PS.

I had contacted him well in advance and he asked me to send him a photo of myself, which I did. Then I followed up on Friday that I would leave work for Dallas. I get in around mid-afternoon 3-4 pm and he responded that he was out doing errands and wouldn't be "available until later", which I thought was fine. I follow up early-evening to see when he would be free and he said that he had told me would not be free today. I was confused and kind of frustrated. Telling someone you won't be free until "later" is not the same thing as telling someone you won't be free at all. I understand things change and if he couldn't see me at all on that they day, then I would have appreciated him just stating that. It's all about expectation management and timely and clear communication. Some guys like ROBCMTNY are very clear and timely with whether or not they can see you at a certain time or duration, and if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out, but there's no confusion on my end or his and I greatly appreciate that. In hindsight, it turned out for the best I suppose because I met a nice guy through Sniffies of all places and went on a date Friday and Saturday. However, I was looking forward to meeting Jack for the first time and thought he was worth contacting and meeting.

I couldn't be more disappointed with Jack's lack of communication skills. I drive 2-2.5 hours into Dallas only to be told that he won't be available until later, which is his mind equates to "not available today". I get that he's sexy and all but I find that to be unprofessional and inconsiderate at the very least.

This goes back to everyone's opinion is going to be different and that's perfectly fine. Most of the profiles I've seen that include "erotic" showcase their butts/balls/cock, etc. and celebrate those parts more than or over their massage "skill". I view those performers more a quasi-escorts and there's no negative judgement there. However, back to your point or the topic, if they list "erotic" it better include hj/bj/kissing otherwise what's the point (lol) OR do you view it as they are masseurs that are open to the idea of erotic touch to sex?

I interpret erotic as full-on sex. If you're unsure of expectations, I would ask to manage everyone's expectations appropriately.

Best Purely Therapeutic: Jamison, Palm Springs. Extremely good clinical-like technique. Nice guy. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/2968/ My two front runners for my best massage of 2022 are : https://rentmasseur.com/RobCMTNY/ , https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/12230/ . Based out of NYC, but travels across the US. Rob is an older, fit muscular, white guy, shaved head, handsome imo, blessed with good genes He uses great technique, good personality and communication was prompt. A blend of deep tissue and sensual touch. YMMV. The other top notch experience was with Chris, 51, red hair ginger, had longer hair when I met him than his photos which I think makes him look even better. Also top notch legitimate technique. Extremely nice personable guy. I usually don't seek out new LMTs but his reviews on here were positive. Muscular physique. A blend of deep tissue and sensual touch, also blessed with good genes https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/1261/ , https://rentmasseur.com/SportsMassageNYC Both Chris and Rob will be amongst the 3 LMTs I will seek out first and foremost because of skill, looks, and chemistry. Chris is a slight edge for me and will be my go-to in NYC, but both are worthy hires to me.

In case it matters, he currently lists sensual as well. Has everyone seen him the last time he had listed it? Is there a a difference?