Different “services” – different approaches?

[xyz48B]

If a client approaches about meeting tonight for a session, I assume providers respond, set up the necessary details to carry out said meetup, and there’s little to really communicate. But say a potential client communicates about a longer session (multiple days). Or suppose he contacts for a BFE. Or role play. Or anything that’s not a “typical” hookup experience. Do you have a different way of handling such potential clients? Do you engage in more discussion before the meetup or do you go with the basics and let it at that? What if the potential client is scouting out providers before traveling into your area? What kind of communication do you consider normal, appropriate, and expected once whatever agreement to meet has been made before he comes to your location? I’m talking like saying, “Hey, I’ll be in Vegas next month for a conference and would like to hire you for a few days while I’m there.” Or something similar. What sort of approach do you use with one-offs versus someone who’s looking for a longer session or a special session or potentially a new regular?

[+ nycman]

The more you talk / text….the less likely you are to hire. 

That’s simple escort math. 

Be direct and to the point.  

[Jamie21]

50 minutes ago, nycman said:

The more you talk / text….the less likely you are to hire. 

That’s simple escort math. 

Be direct and to the point.  

100% correct. Ask directly for what you want. Don’t chat about it. If clients want to chat about the session they never book. Waste of time. 

[+ The Big Guy]

I am finishing up a Vegas trip now.  I scheduled and confirmed one provider for Thursday and one Friday.  Both appointments were made about 12 hours in advance.  In both cases when texting to confirm before getting in an Uber I was ghosted. Not sure what I could have done different but am open to suggestions.  

[xyz48B]

3 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

100% correct. Ask directly for what you want. Don’t chat about it. If clients want to chat about the session they never book. Waste of time. 

How do you know beforehand if you’re able to provide what the client wants if you don’t discuss it? Assuming the client wants something other than a vanilla fuck session, in and out under an hour?

I understand the dreaded “waste of time” argument. Believe me. But I’ve also wasted money because an escort either a) didn’t take the time to actually read what I was looking for, and/or b) care. Nobody who’s not mentally ill wants to waste anyone’s time. But I believe a degree of discussion can help in “special” circumstances.

So am I understanding you right, Jamie, that you just stop communicating with a potential client if he wants to discuss things before the meetup?

[italianboyph]

I don’t think there’s really a different approach, like others have stated I think being direct and getting right to the point of what you want is really the same with both long sessions and short. Direct communication and transparency always makes things a lot easier with both parties. Whether it’s BFE, FF, Vanilla, E Massage, it’s just important to say exactly what you’re looking for.  I’ve found that they’re guys who just like to talk about the idea of meeting, seeing nudes vs actually doing it. 

[Jamie21]

1 hour ago, xyz48B said:

So am I understanding you right, Jamie, that you just stop communicating with a potential client if he wants to discuss things before the meetup?

No that’s not right, maybe I wasn’t clear. I’m very happy to discuss requirements. What I’m not happy to do (because it invariably goes nowhere) is to engage in sex chat. There’s a difference. One is establishing what the client wants and agreeing whether or not I’m ok to do it, and the other is just a fantasy that the client has no intention of seeing through, he’s just getting off on the chat. From experience I can quickly tell when a discussion about requirements etc becomes sex chat. I close down the discussion at that point. 

[xyz48B]

44 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

What I’m not happy to do (because it invariably goes nowhere) is to engage in sex chat.

Understood. I see that as different from “discussing.” The clarification helps.

 I just received a text and email from my dentist about my appointment on Tuesday. If a client schedules ahead, do you (or others) text a day or two beforehand to say anything like looking forward to the meetup etc? Or is it radio silence until you show up or vice versa?

[Jamie21]

I always confirm with the client the day before. Just in case…

 

[xyz48B]

5 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

I always confirm with the client the day before. Just in case…

 

Like a good dentist 😂 

[Jamie21]

4 hours ago, xyz48B said:

Like a good dentist 😂 

And just as invasive 

[mike carey]

28 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

And just as invasive 

But I doubt the encounter would be like drawing teeth.

[xyz48B]

6 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

And just as invasive 

One hopes you penetrate to completion! 

[Jamie21]

1 hour ago, xyz48B said:

One hopes you penetrate to completion! 

Yes that’s the post penetration mouthwash 🙂

[Hlparx]

18 hours ago, xyz48B said:

Like a good dentist 😂 

 

14 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

And just as invasive 

 

7 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

Yes that’s the post penetration mouthwash 🙂

Talk about full service.  Offers a massage, tonsil examination, and mouth care.  What more could a man ask for?

[Jamie21]

14 minutes ago, Hlparx said:

 

 

Talk about full service.  Offers a massage, tonsil examination, and mouth care.  What more could a man ask for?

Honestly you never know these days…some of the requests I get! 

[xyz48B]

49 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

Honestly you never know these days…some of the requests I get! 

We probably don’t want to know! 

[12is12]

I do.

One of the things I'd like to do when I meet a provider, is to hear his answers to the following questions:

What are the most funny or bizarre or or creative or scary interactions you have experienced?

[Jamie21]

8 hours ago, 12is12 said:

I do.

One of the things I'd like to do when I meet a provider, is to hear his answers to the following questions:

What are the most funny or bizarre or or creative or scary interactions you have experienced?

Read my blog ‘The Z to A of sensual massage’ on my website for that! 🙂

[+ KensingtonHomo]

On 3/1/2022 at 2:58 AM, Jamie21 said:

Read my blog ‘The Z to A of sensual massage’ on my website for that! 🙂

Your blog is great. You're a good storyteller. 

[Jamie21]

Thank you! I’ve lots of stories to tell 🙂 

[Rudynate]

When I contact a provider, my mind is made up and I know what I want.  We book an appointment usually in 2 rounds.  They always show and I always show.    I don't know why people complicate it.   One time I cancelled on short notice and I sent him the entire fee on VENMO.