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Graciously accept the compliment, don't overthink it.

Anything a provider tells you is meant to keep you as a client. Try asking for a date without paying and you'll see what he really thinks. From the alternative perspective, if he thought you were a gross old man then he wouldn't have done the extras. Lastly, you should never value yourself based on other's opinions. 😘

I have hosted dancers at my hotel, or traveled to the dancer's hotel, several times in many cities including dancers from Johnsons Ft Lauderdale. I have never had any problem with safety, but I am ALWAYS let down by the personal interaction compared to what I received at the club. Dancers are good at dancing, masseurs are good at massages, and escorts are good at fucking. I've never met one who is good at all 3, including at Johnsons.

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Lol, I don’t know if you other regular contributors also get that, but I am still getting regularly DMs from people who have never posted anything on here. To those who do that: No I am not going to tell you what happens between me and the masseur behind closed doors, why do you think I would? You never help us about your experiences or reviews of masseurs , what makes you think we should help you? I don’t know you, you could be a cop trying to find which spa to close down next. Aquire some credentials first by posting your experiences, then maybe we’ll talk.

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"dashboard" abs? Sounds yummy. Though it is an expression that Bozo is not familiar with. It must be a Canuck thing . With Nick's great face and body, as long as the ignition light goes on and his speedometer is functioning... he sounds perfect! BTC 🤡

Yes of course it is. It would be a grim job if there wasn’t any pleasure in seeing clients. I sometimes think ‘wow, I’m being paid for this’. I do think that to do the work one has to be predisposed towards being comfortable seeing and being intimate with all sorts of clients. If you don’t do this kind of work you likely never discover that attraction can be found in a much wider variety of people than you think. I have learned that if I am prepared to look for it I can really find things that are attractive in people who I wouldn’t have thought I’d be attracted to. I think that doing the work broadens your understanding of human attraction so if a sex worker pays you a compliment and acts on it then you should take it as genuine.

If anything I’m probably more critical of my appearance than is realistic. And both me and my husband get complimented frequently by providers. We also don’t hire ripped guys in their 20s, so I tend to think the compliments are genuine. But I also think we (as men and then as gay men) put entirely too much emphasis on appearance- even when hiring. I’ve lived long enough to know that anyone can get laid. But not everyone can get laid by “a 10.” But in my experience - across hiring; hooking up, and dating - many people who are conventionally extremely hot are not particularly good lovers. Attraction is unpredictable. It’s not just what you can see with your eyes. There’s pheromones. Depth and timbre of someone’s voice. And then there’s charm and charisma; neither of which are captured in a photo. One of our consistent regulars is younger than I’m generally attracted to - in his 20s - and he’s thin and somewhat athletic but he has a little tummy. I suspect he may have been overweight in his teens. But he is absolutely incredible in bed. He’s both intense and easy going. We enjoy talking to him before and after. So take the compliments; perhaps you’re being graded on a sliding scale. Or perhaps you’re just this guy’s type. And don’t overthink it.

That’s I stopped doing masseur bc everyone want something more but don’t want pay the correct price.. and sometimes I do but I charge the same price as doing escort

I never go in to a massage session for anal or oral. Yes, it has happened but it has not been the norm.

I recently flew JFK - Dublin. I thought Aer Lingus was Irish oral sex which I expected with my Business class seat. It wasn’t a bad flight once I got over that disappointment. The male flight attendant (not the customs agents) got pretty huffy about the misunderstanding, however.

Last I checked you don't need to break up with someone you're paying. If you hire a painter or a plumber or a massage therapist and they don't do a good job you just don't hire them again... you don't break up with them. Ask him if he'd like to continue seeing you for free and then you won't have to break up with him b/c he'll break up with you.

It's similar to why I occasionally eat chicken when I prefer beef, why I go to a piano bar when I prefer live Broadway theater, or why I occasionally play roulette when poker has better odds. Variety is nice; and, each thing serves its purpose. It's nice to occasionally sit back and watch a dozen young men work the room in their underwear while a shirtless bartender pours me a drink. It's different than sex, but it serves its purpose of entertainment nonetheless.

It's also been a rise in "my child must never experience pain or discomfort" parenting.