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Many of my clients are straight when they walk through the door, but gay when they leave. Isn’t that fabulous 😉

I'm a provider and I have to be honest one of the worst parts of doing this is the consistent leading on and fake-outs. How are you going to talk to me for over an hour about making plans, then talk to me the entire way through the douching process, and then go MIA the second you're supposed to come over. I'm confused, is it to embarrass us or waste our time? Is it malicious? I don't get it. I'm exhausted. I'm douching my ass out, like that isn't a natural bodily process I really try not to do it unless I have to. Either follow through or don't waste provider's time. It's cruel. If you aren't ready to actually meet up with a provider please stop putting us through this.

It was 23 years ago this month that I had my first experience of sex-any type of sex as I was a total virgin at the age of 41. I was also taught how to Fr. kiss at the same time. It was with porn star Dallas Taylor. He lived in Dallas but was visiting the Cincinnati area where I was living at the time. I was familiar with him because I had been looking at Rentboy and Hooboy's sites for years. He even had a website as I recall. I will be eternally grateful to him for being so nice. I wonder what he's doing now, or even if he's still alive. If he is still alive, I hope he's doing well.

I read the room. I have one client that gets on the phone and calls his wife after. That’s my que to leave. Most wanna cuddle a little bit though afterward. Or see me cum. I get that a lot actually guys wanting to watch me cum after they do. I have heard of some clients getting upset if the worker ends the time right after the client cums, so unless I get a que to leave I stay for the whole time booked regardless of when he cums.

You need to adjust your settings so they don't get an alert you are visiting their profile. Go to my settings, then under account settings, click privacy. Then make sure the "Do not track me" option is enabled.

I have had several providers flake on me as well so it cuts both ways

I think situational horniness is more prevalent than just in jail. When I was in a geographically isolated prep school (back in the Truman administration), I'd venture that most roommates frequently jerked off together and often gave each other a hand, so to speak. I'd also venture that half of them sucked their roommate's dick from time to time (sometimes infrequently, sometimes daily or more). Nobody thought it was gay or embarrassing, though it was rarely spoken about. Only anal was gay. The joke we used to tell each other was "How do you know your roommate is gay? Because his dick tastes like shit."

I've been traveling since February and have relied on Internet reviews to pick hotels, restaurants, etc. Even the best places get a few 1-star reviews because some people always find something to complain about, no matter how great the establishment is for the other 99.9% of customers.

Kind sir, if you think Omar is “aging badly,” I urgently encourage you to visit a topnotch ophthalmologist as I fear you are going blind. Note to the forum: This photo reflects 💯% what Omar looks like in person.

While it’s reasonable to consider a provider’s terms when seeking their services, your statement is overly rigid and ignores the mutual nature of professional relationships. Meeting a provider should involve mutual agreement, not unilateral demands. Both parties have needs, clients seek services, but providers benefit from the engagement too. Insisting on only the provider’s terms dismisses the client’s side. A fair arrangement balances both sides, fostering respect and collaboration rather than one party dictating terms.

I don’t have a specific recommendation but just wanted to comment. I tend not to go below a certain age. I am 71. I always ask if older is OK, I state my age and I’ve had pretty good luck with that. In the encounters that I’ve had it seems the more important issue is are you well groomed, decently dressed and clean. I have had a couple of meetings with guys who I’m sure would never be interested outside of a paid encounter but who went the extra mile, were quite pleasant and complimentary. The kinder and nicer you are the better- treating them like a person instead of an object of your desire…ask about their life, etc. I avoid any ad where the profile language is rough, aggressive or anything like that but that’s just my own personal preference.

Doesn’t sound f*cked up to me, not even a little. In the olden days, back when conventional wisdom held that the best form of contraception was an aspirin, held between the knees, a mistress was such an enormous threat to a wife not just because of the emotional betrayal but also the possible financial burden that supporting a mistress & child imposed. Flipped around, no husband wanted his wife to get pregnant with another man’s child, lest he get stuck with raising and supporting a kid that wasn’t his. Even after the pill, Roe, and DNA testing, that mentality persisted. Maybe that psychology shaped your agreement; maybe it has absolutely nothing to do with it. Regardless, it sounds like you and your wife have figured out what works for the two of you, which is all that matters.

Not "straight" here...but this is how it is for me and my wife. We are both bisexual and have an understanding that extra curricular same-sex activity allows us to satisfy our diverse sexual interests but engaging in outside heterosexual activity would feel like "cheating". I realize this sounds a little fucked up, and maybe the logic is difficult to understand but we BOTH feel strongly about the matter. And we both (to the best of my knowledge) have always respected that agreement since we married 20 years ago.

I just met him again. Every time it gets better than the previous one. He’s truly spectacular. Good soul, great vibes, wonderful skills and truly transcendent experience.

I agree with @AJDalton, it’s a read the room situation. A few clients are so horrified that they’re with a sex worker after they’ve cum that they want to be up and out of here immediately. It’s like the guilt and shame immediately kicks in as soon as the first splash of cum hits their belly😂. I like to give them plenty of time to come down from the moment. I usually do head massage (or surprisingly foot massage is fantastic after a climax) so they can get into a totally relaxed state. If the climax has been early in the session and if he’s able to have a second coming then it’s been known for me to start playing ‘down there’ again and get him going for a speedy second load. It’s interesting to take someone from zero to 100 in a short time. Most however just like the slow return to normal and some cuddles. Lovely.

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/G2f6p1pWEAAUdpL?format=jpg&name=medium An activity I’ve long fantasized about but haven’t been able to try yet.

I notice you joined this forum less than a month ago. That’s great that you want to join the discussions here. I don’t know if you were a lurker before joining but in any case we have a long history of the deposit issue. The general consensus is not to pay a deposit except in certain limited circumstances such as extended multi day engagements. I have no idea of what market you hire in but being always asked for deposits in the 200 to 500 $ range as you assert is not the norm in any market I am aware of and over the last 30 years or more I have hired throughout North America and many times in Europe. I have rarely if ever been asked to pay a deposit. I only once paid an airfare for someone from San Francisco to meet me in Montreal. And that worked out fine as we were together for 3 days. But then I am a premium client on RM and even before then was always seen as a reliable client by the way I presented myself. I always conduct myself in the same way in other commercial transactions. Being trustworthy engenders trust.

I met him again this morning, and he was absolutely terrific. Gorgeous all around very attentive and polite. I hope he didnt break anyone's heart 😅 Some of the comments here seems a bit too targeted and personal, but of course not everyone connects with everyone. As of fillers and botox I haven't seen any of this.

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When I was 24 I went to live in the South of France for a year. I arrived without having anywhere to stay and on the first day ended up being taken to hospital where I spent a couple of nights. It was all a bit weird how it happened, but I was well cared for and, even though I was a bit disoriented etc. was glad of the medics who sorted me out. One of the male nurses, Olivier, who didn't look that much older than me, was especially kind. He was also incredibly hot and, even though I hadn't had very much experience with other guys at that stage other than a couple of hand jobs and a messy blow job, he definitely got the blood pumping. My French was already pretty good and so we'd chat when he came to check on me and stuff and so he knew my situation. When it came round to being discharged he said he didn't feel happy just throwing me out of the hospital to fend for myself and so invited me to go & stay with him. Of course I took him up on his offer...and so began my first meaningful and very, very sexual relationship with a guy. It was everything you would want from a holiday romance, it just went on for a whole year. Let me know if you want any graphic details - happy to share here or DM.

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The relevance of how long someone has been a member is simply that others here have little idea who you are. For example, you could be someone who's been active on the site for a long time but decided to create a new profile simply to promote a specific point of view or specific provider while not having your posts tied to your well known identity. At the end of the day, this deposit or no deposit issue will never be resolved to everyone's satisfaction. It's clearly in the provider's benefit as long as he has sufficient business to make up for the loss of some clients who never pay a deposit. For a variety of reasons (privacy and concerns about being scammed being the top two) some clients will never pay a deposit. It isn't like either side is incorrect, even if some of the arguments for requiring a deposit are far off the mark. But I think even the "no deposits ever" clients here will acknowledge that a provider can run his business how he wants to (charge a higher than market rate, require a deposit, require a face photograph, etc), and they can simply book a different provider if they don't like those policies.

My Dinner With Andre (1981) have mentioned this before when the topic comes up here......saw it with my parents soon after it was released because of all the hype and buzz.......we kept wondering when something was going to happen.......what a horrible movie disguised as sophisticated high art....

Agree. I’ve declined other clients in the past because I’ve got a booking and I’ve made a commitment. I’ve travelled to the clients hotel, or place, spent time preparing, making myself mentally and physically ready to see him….and then I either get ‘oh I changed my mind’ or some what sounds like a lame excuse or worse just complete ghosting. I feel like a fool for having taken someone seriously. I’ve lost business and wasted my time. But I’ve learned and now I can tell with 95% confidence who is a flake. What I do agree with some clients comments is when unscrupulous and unprofessional providers accept bookings, even deposits and then flake on the client. That’s totally unacceptable. But my advice to clients is to book with your head, not your dick. If he responds lackadaisically, wants a deposit without good justification, seems too good to be true, is evasive with details, has few reviews or they are too unrealistic, or he’s suddenly appeared on platforms, then use your common sense. Good providers will be professional in all their dealings with you. You won’t see any of these red flags if you book a good guy.

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