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Hi JB_Studio38/ Mocha/Jarrod_uncut (and all the other names you have had on this platform in the past- there have been many) No. I, and my fellow client colleagues, are not willing to be "on call" with money for you when escorting is not working out financially for you. Although I do NOT wish you or any other escort financial harm, we are not responsible for your solvency. But to you and all escorts in the world: I'm hopeful you prosper. You provide a wonderful service to the community. Ah, you are not satisfied with my advice? Allow me to elaborate. You and I are both business men. Similar fields, albeit with a few differences. I'm a physician. You are an escort. We are both seek to ...heal our clients (or patients). As a physician I have high overhead costs in maintaining my office: support staff salaries, my office rent, my exorbitant malpractice premiums, to name a few, costs which rise yearly which is alarming & frustrating. And just like you, before I take home one dollar, ALL my overhead MUST be paid first. Heck, I was hundreds of thousands of dollars in medical school debt before I even got paid to see my first patient! Yes, I genuinely understand your predicament. I live it daily. But when a business informs the client this is my fee, BUT then says, "oh, I also need a deposit", um, yah, no. Or the escort says, "Oh, I need you to pay my Uber". Also a big Nope. See, all of my overhead AND my own salary AND (this is the critical point I fear you dont understand) the cost of the lost revenue is wrapped up in the fee I charge for that office visit. You think patients call, make an appointment to see me and don't show up? It happens DAILY. Every physician has no-shows. You think patients get a bill (after I provide them medical services) from me and always send a payment? Nope. I get patients who stiff me ALL.THE.TIME. But that loss is factored IN to my fees. That's Business. I don't charge multiple fees. I have protocols that attempt to minimize loss. For example: two no-shows and my staff informs the patient they are discharged from the practice. You think you are the only businessman who takes risks and experiences financial loss? Think again. I don't come to this platform and bitch & whine & come across as a lunatic because my patients stiff me. Rather, I focus on my wonderful patients who stay, pay, and make it all worth while. To all escorts: keep providing your excellent services. Stay professional. Continue to hone your craft. Keep detailed reports of what's not working. For what's not working focus on strategies to minimize loss and maximize profit. You are an escort to make MONEY - there is nothing wrong with that! So am I. But demanding fees (deposits or Ubers) will ultimately turn away good clients & make you seem unprofessional. Good clients (like me) stay away from escorts like that. Including staying away from JB_Studio38/ Mocha/Jarrod_uncut. Asking for a fee makes you look sketchy. Its a bad look. Love to all, Josh

I give them my social security number and my banking information. It makes the finances of this much easier.

I think you’d be surprised how many of us - regular old Rent Men escorts - are actually well educated, with real degrees from reputable higher education institutions. Some of us wear suits well and move comfortably among sophisticated crowds, even without being on the arm of a generous gentleman. Many of us even read books! I think you have more options for this than you may realize. I can easily name a handful of escorts I know in person who fit this description. Including myself! 😏 Happy hunting! I’m confident the guy you’re looking for is out there.

I do high tech and clear about 2 mil a year so setting aside 50k/yr so I don't have to deal with grindr is a blessing.

You’re not reading the room here very well.

My doctor previously told me a banana a day would be good for my colon. I found out on a follow up visit that he meant I should EAT the banana.

Oh yes! 30 years ago when I was in my 30s, sexy and desirable I was asked by a friend who owned an Art Gallery to pose naked with other 4 guys for a known painter. I wasn't paid, but the painter named the painting after my profession:) It was fun! (I am the one with the visible ass....)

Quick update for everyone: with today’s weather in NYC (heavy snow, that gross sleet mix, and genuinely sketchy travel conditions), we’re going to be closed today so nobody has to risk getting stuck, sliding around, or turning a simple appointment into an extreme sport. The safety of our clients and our guys comes first. Thanks for understanding. This weather has been absolutely wild lately, and we’ll post again as soon as things clear up and it’s safe to reopen.

I’m not offended, as I’m sure others would think the same thing. But why do you consider it sad? I’ll add that I still escort because I enjoy it. It’s a choice.

There are plenty of escorts between 35 - 50 years old currently advertising on Rentmen... They just don't admit to it! BTC 🤡

I'm absolutely more likely to engage a provider 40+ If desperate, 35 is the absolute youngest. I like men, not boys. There are any number of reasons - the same that I do not seek social relationships with young gay men. Communication styles demand a learning curve from both of us. I loved having a long career working alongside performers (and other artists) aged 14- 90, and will gladly hang out with my niece and nephews 20-30's. On my dime, it's adults only.

https://rent.men/AdamChris https://rent.men/Codywilliams I have hired both these young men individually. I was looking for a threesome and I know these two guy are friends and have played together before. They are both sexy and passionate men. They work together and were very interactive with each other but concentrating on me. A good time was had by all and lets just say that they helped me make my protein goal for today.

After seeing his pics, I came up with the conclusion that anybody can be an escort these days.

The short answer is Not more than I can afford. The shorter answer is. Way too much.

I give the men I see a sample of my DNA, and always near the end of each session.

Never ever. Not only do I shower with the lights off, I also wear a blindfold just in case I somehow get a glimpse of myself.

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Information once shared cannot be unshared. Shared information cannot be retrieved, only regretted. Choose wisely.

Ok. I started this thread for fun sexy travel stories. Please stop the anger. This is supposed to be fun and a little sexy. Thank you.

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I hired for the first time a few years ago around age 47-48. Up until then I had only slept with women. About 10 years ago I accidentally clicked on a gay porn clip and said to myself you only live once, and I think I want to try that sometime. It was then I kinda realized I was probably bi sexual since it turned me on. Some years passed before discovering rentmen, it was then I began searching for a decent match in my area. Since I was new to rm, I hired someone who advertised erotic massage not really knowing what to expect. I thought even if actual sex wasn’t on the menu I’d at least be getting my nervousness out of the way for my first time being naked with a man. I hired the same masseur a couple more times (no sex, but I was content with the mutual touch/ oral) and a nice massage to boot. Just this past December, I felt like it was finally the right time to “graduate” lol. I hired a guy (based on a recommendation on this site, thank you very much) and he delivered beyond my expectations. I was only looking to bottom.. it was great, I loved it so now I’m really looking forward to my next hire even more to try a 69, topping, and of course getting railed again 😊

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In the 1960s, I was in my early '20s and living and working in a small town in provincial Iran (this was pre-Islamic Republic days). There was a lot of gay activity in town, and there was a bathhouse where I heard guys went for sex, but I was too nervous to be seen at the bathhouse. One time I was in Teheran with a group of American coworkers, one of whom went to the neighborhood bathhouse for a massage. (In those days all Iranians went to the bathhouse weekly for a bath, massage, and depilatory treatment). Iranians wore a tight fitting bathhouse towel, that was almost like a diaper...keeping the family jewels off limits. Fathers, knowing what masseurs were known for, always accompanied their sons. My friend (who was straight, well hung, and had the biggest balls I had ever seen up to then), not knowing about the bathhouse towel routine, laid down on the massage table, nude, ass-up. The masseur, not knowing Americans were casual about nudity, took this as the sign the customer wanted sex. A few minutes into the massage, the masseur wrapped my friend's hand around the masseur's hot erection. The friend jumped up, threw the masseur out of the room, left and rejoined our group, and relayed this awful experience he just had. As soon as I could inconspicuously leave the group, I made a beeline for the bathhouse, paid my 25¢ for a massage, laid down naked and ass up on the massage table. A few minutes into the massage, the masseur went for the jewels and I let him know I wanted to get fucked. He said that would be another 25¢ to which I readily agreed. After that, whenever I was in Teheran, I would go to different bathhouses to have sex with a variety of masseurs. It was cheap, convenient, professional, and anonymous. Here today it's convenient, professional, and anonymous, just not cheap. But it's worth it.

I think the answer is always variable. Individuals by nature are all different - on this massage board we have individuals that are extroverted and others are introverted. When meeting with a client/provider, the best advice is two things - be yourself and do not create a false persona that you will need to support in future meetings. If you are naturally quiet, don't force yourself into talking and sharing information. If you are naturally a sharing person, be yourself, (but trust your "spidey-senses" and limit your sharing if something doesn't seem to be on the up and up.) If you are asked something you are not comfortable answering, just say so.

I would say you can put out there what you like and what you feel comfortable with, no more than that.... Some of my clients are very personable and tell me everything, and some of my clients are very private and tell me nothing. I tend to keep things private, and there's nothing wrong with that 🙃 My regular clients are like friends to me, and that's always a nice thing 😁

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Picture it….. Philadelphia. 1995. A very young (and unbeknownst to him, strikingly beautiful) NYCman is leaving Woody’s after a rare unsuccessful night of cruising. I stumbled upon a tall, dark, ripped, handsome, rugged man in torn jeans. He smelled of roofing tar and desperation. I was right on both accounts. I took him back to my apartment and we spent a wonderful evening together. Although we hadn’t discussed it ahead of time, in the afterglow, it became obvious he expected to be paid. I had absolutely no money. I mean seriously, I had to save up for “Dollar Margarita Night”. And even then, I could only afford one margarita. So I gave him a pair of my jeans. When he realized I only had 2 pair of jeans to my name, and I was willing to give him one of them, he started crying. At first, he refused to take them. When I pointed out, there wasn’t much left of his old jeans to even put on, he begrudgingly accepted them. I’ll never forget how happy he was when he put my jeans on. He also showed me the knife he had planned to use to rob me and told me to be more careful in the future. Several times after that, I saw him on the street outside Woody’s after closing and he would come to crash at my place. The smell of roofing tar still makes me hard. God, I’ve had a fun life!

I’m 55 - in shape and willing to travel. Woo me.

I’m coming up on 2 years now. I’m looking to stop within the next year or so. And move on to other things. But I have to say 95 percent of my clients have been great guys and I’ve been pretty lucky not to have any dangerous or rough situations!

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