How to use up two hours?

[viewing ownly]

One hour on your front, one hour on your back. If the time flew, repeat. If you're cranking your neck looking for a digital clock, don't. 

[Wings246]

12 hours ago, Proximusss said:

(I don't think the agency I use allows for longer bookings otherwise I absolutely would!)

May I ask what agency you are using?  I only know of RM and I'd love to explore other options.

[Proximusss]

1 hour ago, Wings246 said:

May I ask what agency you are using?  I only know of RM and I'd love to explore other options.

I use a local one in London as that’s where I am based. They do also take bookings longer than 2 hours even though their website shows 2 hours as the maximum length. 

[jeezifonly]

Does the provider include massage among his skills? From there, it's easy to go in to extensive mutual touch, and...

Why this provider? He obviously has something that's drawn you to him, in spite of unfamiliar terms of engagement. 

Face?  Spend a lot of time kissing, talking, eye contact

Body? Explore slowly, using every part of your body to make contact with every part of his, with a lot of teasing touch and kissing on parts you find most beautiful. 

Derrière? Tell him you plan to worship and devour it and he should prepare accordingly. 

Penis?  If that's the star of his show, you probably already know how to slow-roll the enjoyment of that. 

 

 

 

 

 

[+ Tygerscent]

I’ve never done a one hour appointment in my entire career… I think maybe once or twice and it was kind of a special circumstances, but I’ve always just swung with a two hour as my basic appointment. For one hour appointment it too easy to arrive there, maybe somebody starts talking and then it’s getting your clothes off and getting comfortable or unpacking gear or equipmentor lube that sort of thing until you’re already 15 minutes into it or maybe more and then he started playing and all of a sudden somebody is worried about the clock and looking at the time and that is utterly distracting for me personally. So, with a two hour I can open the door or they open the door and I get a nice warm embrace and I can draw in their scent and we can start to unwrap each other, which allows us a little time to touch each other’s mood and energy… If it’s quiet energy, we move in One Direction. If it’s big energy, we go a different way… typically for my clients, they take a position of edging because they don’t wanna come right away and they just wanna keep things going… For me I may come one time and maybe come another time and if I feel like it, maybe go another round before they come  
 Sometimes things are going on in people‘s lives and it’s a totally different kind of energy. The vibe is much more subdued and maybe even has elements of grieving or sadness or something going on… So, then we move into a little bit of body rub or basic consoling… Intimacy doesn’t just hit on a physical level. It’s an emotional and a psychological thing as well. 
 So you can always exchange some bodywork and feed each other snacks or take that time to get to know each other a little bit and you know, maybe the provider can chill and not be so worried about the timeframe and just let things roll into a really quality experience where you exchange some meaningful intimacy 
 If everybody comes quickly or for some reason, actual playing results quickly, you can utilize that time to get to know each other a little bit better so if you meet again, you have a little more context about what that person needs or maybe learn about some exciting cake or adventure that they want to explore But we’re too shy to talk about… You know, it’s a chance to move into each other. 

[+ Jamie21]

Interesting comments on here regarding duration and activity in the session. If one is thinking in terms of sex as being the actual act of fucking and cuming, and that act is the focus or objective of the session, and it is rushed towards in an hour session then I would say one is missing an opportunity. That kind of session describes a random hookup app encounter, which is fine but do you really want to pay an expert (a sex worker) good money for what you could get for free on Sniffies? (Not Grindr because that’s impossible to use now 😂). 

The old adage ‘it’s the journey not the destination’ comes to mind. The journey makes the destination. The journey is the event and it can take as long as you like if your mind is adjusted to consider it as such. Fucking and cuming could be part of the journey, at any point, or not be part of it atall. If there is a destination to the session then it’s to feel connection and intimacy, to be desired and to desire.

Yesterday I saw a client for a two hour session on the floor. He lost track of time, I almost did (we ran over by 20 minutes). There was no concern about how to fill the time…it just happened. I know his boundaries, but within that frame we paint a picture. He’s a regular client (regular is a few times a year - he lives abroad). Each visit is the same but different. 

I get some clients asking for half hour sessions. Sorry I don’t do them, those are not worth buying. An hour is the minimum but it feels rushed sometimes. I understand it’s a cost thing, hence why I offer an hour as minimum session but my advice is consider a longer session and to think of it differently. Not as a way to get off…but as a way to connect and discover. That way the time is never long enough. You’ll go back to him for subsequent sessions which are just like moving to the next chapter in the book you can’t put down. 

Did I say my client above is 80? He’s still on the journey of discovery. It’s fabulous isn’t it 🙂.