*"Straight" providers

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

2 hours ago, savantsav said:

I do not touch any guy that's either straight or isn't but puts 'straight' in their profile. I already made my peace at 17 to not touch or fawn over straight guys.

I identify as bisexual, because I will have sex with BOTH gay men and straight men.

[mike carey]

6 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

I identify as bisexual, because I will have sex with BOTH gay men and straight men.

Or as a well-known British entertainer once said, I'm bisexual, I buy sex.

[CADreamer]

I don't have any specific desire to be with a straight man just because he's straight, but I also don't care if a provider self identifies as straight.  I have hired providers who have identified as straight, bisexual, and gay.  What I care about is that I find them attractive, and they agree to what I am looking for when we discuss meeting.  I almost always check here (and previously on Daddy's old site) to get reliable information on others' experiences before I contact them.  I have had some great experiences with guys who identified as straight, and some not so great ones with guys who identified as gay.  I think you just have to do your due diligence and hope for the best.  And if they deliver on their promises, tip them well.

[d.anders]

1 hour ago, CADreamer said:

And if they deliver on their promises, tip them well.

My former partner was a successful hairdresser. He would always say the customers who tipped the most received the best service. However, that didn't mean the biggest tippers stood among his favorite clients. It's a funny thing how that worked.

[BSR]

7 hours ago, CADreamer said:

I don't have any specific desire to be with a straight man just because he's straight, but I also don't care if a provider self identifies as straight.  I have hired providers who have identified as straight, bisexual, and gay.  What I care about is that I find them attractive, and they agree to what I am looking for when we discuss meeting.  I almost always check here (and previously on Daddy's old site) to get reliable information on others' experiences before I contact them.  I have had some great experiences with guys who identified as straight, and some not so great ones with guys who identified as gay.  I think you just have to do your due diligence and hope for the best.  And if they deliver on their promises, tip them well.

Of the many chaperos I hooked up with at Sauna Thermas, two of the best kissers were straight.  Holy sh!t, did they make my toes curl!  I couldn’t care less if they were gay, straight, or Martian as long as their tongues turned me on.  When I hired one of them for a 5-hour evening, it was fantastic.  I knew his limits beforehand, was fine with them, and we both managed to have a great time.  Funny, I wouldn’t call it a boyfriend experience, more like a friends-with-benefits experience.  Conversation was so easy with him, like we were best friends from high school, with the fuckbuddy angle thrown in.

Like you, I’ve hired some real duds who were gay.  I didn’t hire the straight Thermas guy because he was straight but because we clicked so well on the premises that I wanted to see him offsite.  Whaddya know, he turned out to be one of my best hires ever.

Edited Friday at 04:39 PM by BSR
Typo, always a damn typo

[jackcali]

To be honest, I don't even know what it means when someone says they're straight.  People these days have become so casual about sex that being "straight" is more of a lifestyle indicator than a sexual preference.  To me, a straight guy is a guy who appears hetero in social interactions and who dates (or would like to date) women, but I know there's a good chance that he'd happily hook up with a hot guy or a gay buddy if he's horny or bored.  

Edited Friday at 04:27 PM by jackcali

[d.anders]

58 minutes ago, jackcali said:

I don't even know what it means when someone says they're straight.

I have always assumed it meant they can get a strong erection at the smell of a vagina, and the taste, too. Women's armpit scent is not the same as a man's. That's the thing with pheromones, you can't force them to be gay or straight. Sexual excitement is very organic, and very individual. It can depend on many factors. Almost never a black and white situation.

[studchaser]

On 2/4/2026 at 11:43 AM, Mark_fl said:

I don't think anyone really wants a straight guy. They want a straight acting guy to do gay stuff with them and maybe act like it's their first time with a guy...but they want them to get into it, so at the very least they want a bi guy.

Perhaps some might want a straight guy who closes his eyes and imagines it's a girl, but I'd have to think that's more rare.

Mark you are soooooooo wrong! Alot of ppl loooooooooove straight men because they represent the ultimate prize of forbidden lust. 

Also in the gay world there is alot of pageantry. Ppl learn to filter,edit and camoflauge. Everyone online is a masc jock bro(very often bu). After a while you feel like everyone was produced in the same factory.

When dealing with real straight men(from the street not gay sites) there is a magic to the courtship many gay men will never know. Have you ever put your hand on a straight guys thigh and seen the look of equal parts wonder and confusion? Straight men have no play book to follow(once again not talking about your fave fake straight on rentmen); they were often socialized that being who they were was good enough so you often gwt raw matter of fact emotion and feedback. That for me is the wonder and the magic. 

Honestly ask yourself if Rob Gronkowski , or the Rock or (insert a hot straight celeb we all know) was broke and open minded do you think gay men would not be running to the atm machines? I can literally hear the money being counted.

[studchaser]

21 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

I identify as bisexual, because I will have sex with BOTH gay men and straight men.

I love it 

[studchaser]

15 hours ago, mike carey said:

Or as a well-known British entertainer once said, I'm bisexual, I buy sex.

😛🥰

[studchaser]

On 2/4/2026 at 7:24 AM, Veryshyone said:

In my area, I am seeing an increase of "straight" providers advertising on RM. Curious to know if anyone has had any experiences with these providers?  I am a bit skeptical but do have fantasies about being with a straight guy.

Man i wrote an epic fkn epistle that got deleted before i coulf send!!!

Straight guys are the holy grail of authentic masculinity and dont ever let anyone tell you different!! If you never grew out of your crush on the captain of the football team or your fave action hero then welcome to the club. Many gay men came to grips with what was available to them and some of us said fk that im getting my football captain now that I have the money. 

Rentmens infrastructure encourages alot of pageantry and cosplaym Alot of providers understand authentic masculinity is elusive and prized and are incentivized to amend their orientation in ways that dont line up with their lifestyle. Id say the amount of actual straight men on the app are prob around a bakers dozen. They tend to become hot commodities very quick but as said this is very rare.

Most gay men dont understand straight mens psychology and dont care to know. They approach every situation the same when they couldn't be more different. I wish I could teach a class on this. I could put Alfred Kinsey to shame.

Be persistent and dont give up. Rooting for you!!!

 

[studchaser]

On 2/4/2026 at 7:54 AM, mtaabq said:

Dude, you just answered your own question. A LOT of gay men fantasize about being with a “straight” man and a lot of gay men only seek out “straight” men. In my opinion, and in many cases, “straight” is nothing more than a marketing ploy to get business. I am old and way too cynical. That said, check the guy out, vet him well, hire, and have fun. (And, to be fair, a lot of men who enjoy and seek out sex with other men don’t identify as gay. I’m not telling you anything you don’t know.) 

Im skeptical of finding straight men on rentmen but not of gay men being able to get real protypical hypermasculine 100 percent straight men. I consider myself the Stella Goldschlag of hunting down straight men right in the streets in plain sight. There is an endearing simplicity to straight men but you have to know who you can do what with and who you cant. You have to understand culture and other intersectional demographic elrments. There are certain towns i can go to and can just reference certain things and gain trust very fast. 

 

The places you would think straight men would be the most open minded they tend not to be. Gay men also tend to be more comfortable with safe presenting straight men but I have found the most badass intimidating straight men will shock you. They never have their masculinity questioned and for many straight men being approached by a gay men can be seen as them outwardly giving off gay vibes. You have to really know what you are doing. If you crack the code you are basically equivalent to a slutty  cheerleader waiting under the bleachers after every game 

[studchaser]

On 2/4/2026 at 12:38 PM, theplayerking said:

The best providers (and porn actors) are gay and more than a little slutty in real life. They found a way to professionalize their lifestyle and get compensated for something they enjoy doing anyway.

Truly straight providers are just in it for the money and generally crap in bed. It’s like going to a restaurant with a chef that doesn’t like to cook and is not interested in food. You may it something on your plate, but it’s not going to be as delicious as it would be if the chef actually enjoys what he does.

In America we have the freedom of opinion. No matter how wrong and you gotta appreciate that!!

[+ KensingtonHomo]

17 minutes ago, studchaser said:

Im skeptical of finding straight men on rentmen but not of gay men being able to get real protypical hypermasculine 100 percent straight men. I consider myself the Stella Goldschlag of hunting down straight men right in the streets in plain sight. There is an endearing simplicity to straight men but you have to know who you can do what with and who you cant. You have to understand culture and other intersectional demographic elrments. There are certain towns i can go to and can just reference certain things and gain trust very fast. 

 

The places you would think straight men would be the most open minded they tend not to be. Gay men also tend to be more comfortable with safe presenting straight men but I have found the most badass intimidating straight men will shock you. They never have their masculinity questioned and for many straight men being approached by a gay men can be seen as them outwardly giving off gay vibes. You have to really know what you are doing. If you crack the code you are basically equivalent to a slutty  cheerleader waiting under the bleachers after every game 

This sounds like many of the friends I had in college who were obsessed with straight men. Most of them are now middle-aged and alone. They never had a significant relationship. The rest of us (straight and gay) met partners, some had kids, and now we're enjoying our success. These guys sometimes find married guys who let them blow them. But that's it. Very sad. 

I do agree that it can be easy to find straight men who are willing to let you pleasure them. One needs only to have no self-esteem or standards. Or get them very drunk, which is borderline SA. Men don't respect the slutty cheerleader. 

And comparing oneself favorably to a Jewish collaborator of the Gestapo who may have sent up to 3,000 of her peers to the camps before converting to Christianity and becoming an avowed anti-Semite is wild. 

 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

1 hour ago, studchaser said:

Most gay men dont understand straight mens psychology and dont care to know.

Very true.  It's amazing to see the occasional hate from a gay SJW against those of us who admire and lust after the mentality of the straights.

1 hour ago, studchaser said:

If you crack the code you are basically equivalent to a slutty  cheerleader waiting under the bleachers after every game 

If I could go back to high school knowing what I know now, I would definitely embrace the slutty cheerleader persona.  I was the quiet smart kid.  When I visit my straight high school peers at reunions, we have so much more fun and respect for each other now that they know I'm a slut!

 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

2 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

Or get them very drunk...

😍

[Nue2thegame]

This is one of the more interesting threads for me during my short time here. As some have already pointed out, “straight” is a matter of perception, self-description or impression of others. In this context, we’re talking about the client’s projection on someone who’s really not really completely “straight”. I find the range of tastes and reactions to this truly fascinating. As someone who’s been perceived as “straight” for almost all of my life but now having fun pushing boundaries, I think I can perhaps see both sides with more clarity than some. Strong preferences for uber macho men (fill in your own version) or very feminized versions (ditto) will always be appealing to some but most of us fall somewhere in between. I have had great fun letting my little head tell my big head what excites it and it’s been full of surprises. So far, I haven’t fully embraced either of these “extremes” but I I do have trouble understanding why some feel a need to judge someone whose preferences are different from their own. 

Edited yesterday at 01:04 AM by Nue2thegame

[+ KensingtonHomo]

48 minutes ago, Nue2thegame said:

Strong preferences for uber macho men (fill in your own version) or very feminized versions (ditto) will always be appealing to some but most of us fall somewhere in between. I have had great fun letting my little head tell my big head what excites it and it’s been full of surprises. So far, I haven’t fully embraced either of these “extremes” but I I do have trouble understanding why some feel a need to judge someone whose preferences are different from their own

Amen 

[studchaser]

3 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

This sounds like many of the friends I had in college who were obsessed with straight men. Most of them are now middle-aged and alone. They never had a significant relationship. The rest of us (straight and gay) met partners, some had kids, and now we're enjoying our success. These guys sometimes find married guys who let them blow them. But that's it. Very sad. 

I do agree that it can be easy to find straight men who are willing to let you pleasure them. One needs only to have no self-esteem or standards. Or get them very drunk, which is borderline SA. Men don't respect the slutty cheerleader. 

And comparing oneself favorably to a Jewish collaborator of the Gestapo who may have sent up to 3,000 of her peers to the camps before converting to Christianity and becoming an avowed anti-Semite is wild. 

 

Here is the thing for many men the gay homemaker relationship would have never satisfied them. Actually alot of these men will often rather just marry women and be traditional if they havw to go that route but its straight men or nothing at all when they want an escapade.

As for comparing myself to Stella i am only comparing my effectiveness to hers. Yes she was notorious and diabolical but she found the ppl  that eluded the best Gestapo agents. Similarly i have hunted down types of men that would be thought of as unthinkable. Some may say there is a notorius element to that because i should be booed up with a nice gay men ordering the best drapes from the home shopping network. No i will be infiltrating the bars this superbowl  Sunday(hopefully the storm doesnt freeze me out)  where I will be sniffing out the straight men who are broke and needy or maybe just needy. 

[studchaser]

1 hour ago, Nue2thegame said:

This is one of the more interesting threads for me during my short time here. As some have already pointed out, “straight” is a matter of perception, self-description or impression of others. In this context, we’re talking about the client’s projection on someone who’s really not really completely “straight”. I find the range of tastes and reactions to this truly fascinating. As someone who’s been perceived as “straight” for almost all of my life but now having fun pushing boundaries, I think I can perhaps see both sides with more clarity than some. Strong preferences for uber macho men (fill in your own version) or very feminized versions (ditto) will always be appealing to some but most of us fall somewhere in between. I have had great fun letting my little head tell my big head what excites it and it’s been full of surprises. So far, I haven’t fully embraced either of these “extremes” but I I do have trouble understanding why some feel a need to judge someone whose preferences are different from their own. 

For most yes they are being deluded. Just know when you see my posts i am referring to 100 percent straight men. 

[+ KensingtonHomo]

23 minutes ago, studchaser said:

i will be infiltrating the bars this superbowl  Sunday(hopefully the storm doesnt freeze me out)  where I will be sniffing out the straight men who are broke and needy or maybe just needy. 

This sounds really predatory and coercive. If you said this about women in front of me, I would tell them to cover their drinks. You’re stating your intention to go into a space where people are drinking, identify people who are “needy” or “broke” and use their drunkenness or precarity to get them to have sex with them?

This might be considered premeditated SA in many jurisdictions. 

Minimally, you’re the embodiment of every horrible thing that the Right Wing says about gay men. 

[RadioRob]

 

It’s Bad Bunny weekend so let’s take a timeout for some pizza.