Buyers remorse

[Reggyreg56]

Now my most recent encounter with a masseur was great and I plan to see him again but I wonder if you guys have ever regretted hiring the provider a second time?

[+ poolboy48220]

It happens, but not frequently. I've found that second sessions are usually better since the provider's gotten an idea of what you like. 

[Mark_fl]

So far I've had 4 encounters. 3 Rentmen; 1 Rentmasseur. The first 2 rentmen disappointed. The 3rd I'd love to hire again, but we aren't geographically close. The masseur I plan on going back to, but thus far I haven't had a second visit with anyone.

[mtaabq]

I’ve probably had an equal number of 2nd appointments that weren’t as good as the first time as I have had 2nd (and subsequent) appointments that were even better than the 1st time. It’s impossible to predict; there are a lot of factors at play. 

[Reggyreg56]

47 minutes ago, poolboy48220 said:

It happens, but not frequently. I've found that second sessions are usually better since the provider's gotten an idea of what you like. 

That makes sense but the mystery and intrigue is gone. I would be afraid of the "been there, done that" energy.

[Reggyreg56]

21 minutes ago, Mark_fl said:

So far I've had 4 encounters. 3 Rentmen; 1 Rentmasseur. The first 2 rentmen disappointed. The 3rd I'd love to hire again, but we aren't geographically close. The masseur I plan on going back to, but thus far I haven't had a second visit with anyone.

Ok by and large it's 2 out of 4 good experiences. Not bad at all!

[Reggyreg56]

13 minutes ago, mtaabq said:

I’ve probably had an equal number of 2nd appointments that weren’t as good as the first time as I have had 2nd (and subsequent) appointments that were even better than the 1st time. It’s impossible to predict; there are a lot of factors at play. 

Have you ever had a provider become an actual friend?

[mtaabq]

Just now, Reggyreg56 said:

Have you ever had a provider become an actual friend?

Very close. In fact I would say for about a year … yes, one of my regular hires was a friend. He then experienced some personal challenges that led to some uncomfortable texts (not, I will say, concerning money), and I felt that I needed to put some distance between us. 

[+ poolboy48220]

Off the top of my head I can think of a provider who became a friend, another a fuck buddy, and have had dancers from the clubs become friends. 

[Reggyreg56]

7 minutes ago, mtaabq said:

Very close. In fact I would say for about a year … yes, one of my regular hires was a friend. He then experienced some personal challenges that led to some uncomfortable texts (not, I will say, concerning money), and I felt that I needed to put some distance between us. 

Wow that's unfortunate. Friendships take so long to build but could end in an instant!

[Reggyreg56]

5 minutes ago, poolboy48220 said:

Off the top of my head I can think of a provider who became a friend, another a fuck buddy, and have had dancers from the clubs become friends. 

Wow that's good to know!

[mtaabq]

5 minutes ago, Reggyreg56 said:

Wow that's unfortunate. Friendships take so long to build but could end in an instant!

Indeed. I still think a great deal of him and I’m grateful for what he did for me and, especially, for what he did to me. Dude was, and still is by all accounts, an outstanding lover and an outstanding provider. 

[Reggyreg56]

48 minutes ago, mtaabq said:

Indeed. I still think a great deal of him and I’m grateful for what he did for me and, especially, for what he did to me. Dude was, and still is by all accounts, an outstanding lover and an outstanding provider. 

That's high praise. I made the mistake of falling in love with a provider. We hooked up for over 5 years. We because kind of sort of friends. Unfortunately he has a bad drug problem. Boy could I tell you stories. Lol. I still have feelings for him unfortunately.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

6 hours ago, Reggyreg56 said:

Have you ever had a provider become an actual friend?

Yes, many times.

[big-n-tall]

5 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

Yes, many times.

Same.

[Nue2thegame]

On 1/9/2026 at 9:49 AM, Reggyreg56 said:

Have you ever had a provider become an actual friend?

Yes

[soloyo215]

On 1/9/2026 at 8:26 AM, Reggyreg56 said:

Now my most recent encounter with a masseur was great and I plan to see him again but I wonder if you guys have ever regretted hiring the provider a second time?

No, never. There are some that I don;t hire again after the first time, but those that I've seen more than once have been great.

 

On 1/9/2026 at 9:49 AM, Reggyreg56 said:

Have you ever had a provider become an actual friend?

Yes, several, in different countries, two here in the USA where I live.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 1/9/2026 at 8:47 AM, Reggyreg56 said:

That makes sense but the mystery and intrigue is gone. I would be afraid of the "been there, done that" energy.

Offer to wear a blindfold... And leave the door open for the men you hire to let themselves in without you ever seeing them.  Then your mind won't know if you've done him before.  Maybe, the guy even sends someone else in his place and never tells you... And you'll never know.  That's how Cum Dumps keep the energy fresh... So I've been told.

[Reggyreg56]

3 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

Offer to wear a blindfold... And leave the door open for the men you hire to let themselves in without you ever seeing them.  Then your mind won't know if you've done him before.  Maybe, the guy even sends someone else in his place and never tells you... And you'll never know.  That's how Cum Dumps keep the energy fresh... So I've been told.

That is an interesting way of looking at it! I could actually see that working! Lol

[TMB]

I've had a handful of not great first encounters but only 1 bad second second encounter. When it's been good the first time, so far (n= 4) it's been at least as good or better the second.  I'm usually more comfortable and they know what buttons to push on me.