% of clients who are straight

[Fridolf]

Was speaking with a provider who has become a friend. He reports that 85% of his clients are straight. 

Does this ring true for other providers on this site?

[Gilfson]

Nope if someone is hiring me a man to have sex with them they are not straight. Are some of them married with kids sure. But they are bi. Or at the very least heteroflexible. Class repeat after me… if you have sex with a man and you are a man you are not straight. 

[+ Jamie21]

They might outwardly present or describe themselves as straight, many are married (I see a ring on their finger), some tell me they are exploring, occasionally they say I’m their first experience with a guy but if they’re contacting me they aren’t 100% straight. I don’t think it matters. I just want to know what they are looking for not what  label they give themselves. 

[+ nycman]

5 hours ago, Gilfson said:

…if you have sex with a man and you are a man you are not straight. 

[+ Just Chuck]

Orientation is complex. The idea of a gay/straight binary caused me a lot of anxiety when I was younger.  There’s not a binary.  There’s not even a single-axis scale.  I think there’s a multi-dimensional scale for people’s sexual orientation. 

The Klein Sexual Orientation Grid (KSOG) gives one of the most succinct ways to describe a person’s sexual orientation that I’ve found.  You can take a quick seven-question quiz in the site that I linked and it will give you a grid describing orientation description table for your past, present, and future.

 

[Nightowl]

A lot of guys will claim to be straight because they are reluctant to admit to themselves that they might be otherwise.  

[+ FrankR]

9 hours ago, Fridolf said:

Was speaking with a provider who has become a friend. He reports that 85% of his clients are straight. 

Does this ring true for other providers on this site?

If the provider is somebody you are paying, he is not your friend. You may be on friendly terms, but that is likely where it stops. Confusing a friendly provider for a friend is likely to get your feelings hurt. 
 

Most providers dont ask for orientation, so getting a reliable answer here is doubtful.

[Nightowl]

2 minutes ago, FrankR said:

Most providers dont ask for orientation, so getting a reliable answer here is doubtful.

The only question about orientation I’ve ever been asked was whether I was a top or a bottom 😀

[LookingAround]

25 minutes ago, Nightowl said:

The only question about orientation I’ve ever been asked was whether I was a top or a bottom 😀

Interestingly I've been asked my orientation several times at the men's spa where I go for massage and I think it's because I always got a high score on straightacting.com back when it existed 😂😂😂. I think they were trying to figure out my story. So when I told them I was a gold star gay they were really surprised. Lol

Edited 3 hours ago by LookingAround

[+ Just Chuck]

12 minutes ago, LookingAround said:

Interestingly I've been asked my orientation several times at the men's spa where I go for massage and I think it's because I always got a high score on straightacting.com back when it existed 😂😂😂. I think they were trying to figure out my story. So when I told them I was a gold star gay they were really surprised. Lol

I don’t trigger many guys Gaydar and they are often surprised that I’m not straight.  Escorts know why I hired them.  Masseurs often start to roll out the sensual/sexual side of it very slowly and a little timidly with me because they’re not certain that I’m game for that kind of massage.

[Gilfson]

5 hours ago, nycman said:

lol it’s not a big deal nothing wrong with not being straight but call a spade a spade.

[mtaabq]

Here’s my two cents - it’s not so  much a question IF a man is straight - because I agree if you’re taking it up the ass or sucking cock you’re not entirely straight - but if they IDENTIFY as straight. If 85% of that provider’s customers/clients IDENTIFY as straight then I can believe that. We all know men who get - and enjoy - sexual gratification from men but they identify as straight.

[Spikeguy]

Some guys think receiving head or topping is not gay lol.