Words in Escort Ads That make him an instant "Pass"

[rvwnsd]

13 hours ago, Danny-Darko said:

 

pictures in Dubai, on yachts and in out or on high end cars that clearly aren't his...

Are you saying they aren't tootling over to Target in their Bentley? 

For me, it's "findom," "master," "exclusive," "high-end" (if you gotta tell me then you aren't) and (my favorite) "selective." Oh, and Dubai pics and wearing LV or Hermes T-shirts.  

[marylander1940]

PNP

 

[marylander1940]

"Serious inquiry only"

In all business there are time wasters!

Edited September 16 by marylander1940

[Pepper Young]

Large chest tattoos. Often of birds of prey. I want to ask: What were you thinking?

[+ Scott Carroll]

On a very HOT provider's page, he lists "PNP" in the "I am into" section.   The question I have (I know that I can ask the provider directly too) is that is there anyway to determine if he is OK with a client using or if he uses?  Sorry if I am naive about these things.  This is the magnificent man:  

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[Luv2play]

18 minutes ago, Scott Carroll said:

On a very HOT provider's page, he lists "PNP" in the "I am into" section.   The question I have (I know that I can ask the provider directly too) is that is there anyway to determine if he is OK with a client using or if he uses?  Sorry if I am naive about these things.  This is the magnificent man:  

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RENT.MEN

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Some providers state in their ads that they are ok with pnp but they don’t personally indulge. 

[marylander1940]

On 10/1/2025 at 9:06 PM, Scott Carroll said:

On a very HOT provider's page, he lists "PNP" in the "I am into" section.   The question I have (I know that I can ask the provider directly too) is that is there anyway to determine if he is OK with a client using or if he uses?  Sorry if I am naive about these things.  This is the magnificent man:  

Liio - Male Escort, Gay massage - Dallas | Rent.Men

RENT.MEN

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Maybe he allows clients to do drugs, joins them or sells them drugs.....

Would you like to take chances on him? Is he's been doing drugs for a while his dick will be limp and he might be late, moody, unreliable or all of the above. 

I'm sure there's a market for PNP just like there was a marked for BB before PrEP but some of us didn't take chances.

You can still play safe with him NOT doing drugs and asking him when was the last time he did drugs (and what kind) with a client so he can perform with you. 

Obviously pot doesn't count as a hard drug.

Your choice! 

[BSR]

On 9/15/2025 at 7:26 PM, BSR said:

“Generous clients only”

Wait! It gets better!!  Check out this guy’s ad:  *special note: Poor people stay away from me*

[+ sync]

2 hours ago, BSR said:

Wait! It gets better!!  Check out this guy’s ad:  *special note: Poor people stay away from me*

On the one hand I suppose it reduces/eliminates negotiating time.  On the other hand, his ad has been up since January this year and no reviews thus far.

[samhexum]

"undercover sting operation"

[BSR]

On 9/16/2025 at 1:33 PM, Pensant said:

Any mention of royalty: king, prince, etc.

100% this.  Who do you think you are … Meghan Markle??  At least she married a royal.  What’s your claim to blue-blood inbreeding?

[marylander1940]

It doesn't happen often, and it's been talked about on here a few times, but I dislike ads that say: "no blacks", "no Asians", and similar things. 

[ThirdEye]

On 9/16/2025 at 8:07 AM, marylander1940 said:

"Serious inquiry only"

In all business there are time wasters!

 

What about this statement is particularly turning-off to you?

[marylander1940]

6 minutes ago, ThirdEye said:

 

What about this statement is particularly turning-off to you?

1. Likely attitude
2. Lack of knowledge about basic customer service

 

Is not particularly something, is just the ignorance that all professions/activities involve dealing with people who may not be serious about actually hiring you. 

Sometimes even the pictures of ads with this kind of statements tell you they're high maintenance. 

Edited 8 hours ago by marylander1940

[ThirdEye]

3 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

1. Likely attitude
2. Lack of knowledge about basic customer service

Is not particularly something, is just the ignorance that all professions/activities involve dealing with people who may not be serious about actually hiring you. 

Sometimes even the pictures of ads with this kind of statements tell you they're high maintenance. 

I would disagree that someone who, for example wants to avoid being contacted by maybe many many scammers on the site, "likely" holds an attitude.

I mean, I'd prefer they put that message up than, say, something like "Deposits only- nonnegotiable"

 

I also don't see how the statement conveys lack of knowledge about basic customer service.  Saying out front that "people who aren't serious  should not contact" does not at all betray ignorance.

Edited 8 hours ago by ThirdEye

[marylander1940]

11 minutes ago, ThirdEye said:

I would disagree that someone who, for example wants to avoid being contacted by maybe many many scammers on the site, "likely" holds an attitude.

I mean, I'd prefer they put that message up than, say, something like "Deposits only- nonnegotiable"

 

I also don't see how the statement conveys lack of knowledge about basic customer service.  Saying out front that "people who aren't serious  should not contact" does not at all betray ignorance.

Let's agree to disagree and "scammers" are a whole other category.

As someone who has been called an "endless apologist for escorts"... I'm amazed about the reactions to that specific post but to each his own.

Edited 7 hours ago by marylander1940

[+ sf westcoaster]

Multiple "Ask Me's" and pictures with  a backwards cap or the middle finger.

[TorontoDrew]

Much like others it's Findom and PNP.  

[+ azdr0710]

"special moments"...."morbido".....I realize these are unintentional casualties of Google Translate. 

[NipLuvr212]

"sophisticated"

if you have to say it, you ain't