What to do with a masseur besides anal f***?

[Callas]

Besides anal fuck, which is off the table, what else can I do with a masseur who is open to everything else? 
 

I’ve been seeing him for ~almost a year, weekly. I think I have done everything I know.
 

Any suggestion would be greatly appreciated. Except anal, nothing is off the table.

thank you!

[Alchemy]

Might get more responses if you start with everything you have done, something for the rest of us to build upon. But I'm guessing you've both tried every oral options, rimming, JO, showering, and frotting. Maybe edging, masks, blind folds, minor restraints, darkness, vibrators, cock to the anus without penetration? Maybe altering speeds of these activities?

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

4 hours ago, Callas said:

Besides anal fuck, which is off the table, what else can I do with a masseur who is open to everything else? 
 

I’ve been seeing him for ~almost a year, weekly. I think I have done everything I know.
 

Any suggestion would be greatly appreciated. Except anal, nothing is off the table.

thank you!

Play gin rummy.  It can be done on the table.

[soloyo215]

8 hours ago, Callas said:

I think I have done everything I know.

We don't know what you know. It's hard to suggest without some basic details (don't need to be explicit).

[+ JamesB]

List from AI:

 

1. **Mutual masturbation** - Stimulating each other’s genitals by hand.

2. **Oral sex (fellatio)** - One partner performing oral stimulation on the other’s penis.

3. **Deep kissing** - Passionate, prolonged kissing on the lips.

4. **Body worship** - Kissing, licking, or caressing areas like the chest, abs, or thighs.

5. **Nipple play** - Touching, licking, or sucking on each other’s nipples.

6. **Handjobs** - Using hands to stimulate the partner’s penis to orgasm.

7. **Frottage** - Rubbing genitals or bodies together, clothed or unclothed.

8. **Intercrural sex** - Rubbing one partner’s penis between the other’s thighs.

9. **Erotic massage** - Sensual massage focusing on erogenous zones.

10. **Dry humping** - Grinding against each other while clothed.

11. **Mutual nipple stimulation** - Simultaneously stimulating each other’s nipples.

12. **Testicle play** - Gently caressing, licking, or sucking on a partner’s testicles.

13. **Perineum massage** - Stimulating the area between the scrotum and anus.

14. **Foot fetish play** - Kissing, massaging, or licking a partner’s feet.

15. **Role-playing** - Acting out consensual erotic fantasies or scenarios.

16. **Edging** - Bringing each other close to orgasm and pausing to prolong pleasure.

17. **Shower play** - Mutual touching or washing in the shower or bath.

18. **Body painting** - Using body-safe paint to create art on each other’s skin.

19. **Sensual tickling** - Lightly tickling sensitive areas for arousal.

20. **Erotic wrestling** - Playful, intimate physical grappling.

21. **Clothed stimulation** - Rubbing or touching genitals through clothing.

22. **Ice play** - Using ice cubes on sensitive areas like the neck or inner thighs.

23. **Blindfold play** - One partner blindfolded while the other stimulates them.

24. **Mutual stripping** - Slowly undressing each other as foreplay.

25. **Erotic storytelling** - Sharing or acting out sexual fantasies verbally.

26. **Body-to-body massage** - Rubbing bodies together with oil or lotion.

27. **Mutual spanking** - Light, consensual spanking on the buttocks.

28. **Earlobe play** - Kissing, nibbling, or licking a partner’s earlobes.

29. **Mutual teasing** - Light touching or kissing to build anticipation.

30. **Tantric touch** - Slow, mindful touching for emotional and physical connection.

31. **Sensual feeding** - Feeding each other fruits or sweets erotically.

32. **Mirror play** - Watching each other in a mirror while touching or posing.

33. **Temperature play** - Using warm or cool objects (e.g., warmed oil or chilled toys).

34. **Light bondage** - Using soft restraints like scarves for playful restriction.

35. **Sensory deprivation** - Using earplugs or headphones to heighten touch sensations.

36. **Hair play** - Running fingers through or gently pulling a partner’s hair.

37. **Mutual grooming** - Shaving or trimming each other’s body hair sensually.

38. **Candle wax play** - Dripping body-safe warm wax on skin for stimulation.

39. **Feather play** - Using feathers to tickle or tease sensitive areas.

40. **Mutual body licking** - Licking non-genital areas like the neck, back, or arms.

41. **Erotic dancing** - Dancing closely or performing a striptease for each other.

42. **Scent play** - Using scented oils or cologne to enhance sensory arousal.

43. **Mutual bathing** - Washing each other’s bodies in a bath or hot tub.

44. **Pressure point stimulation** - Applying gentle pressure to erogenous zones like wrists.

45. **Clothed frottage** - Rubbing against each other in tight clothing for friction.

46. **Mutual toy play** - Using non-penetrative sex toys (e.g., vibrators) on each other.

47. **Erotic photography** - Taking consensual, intimate photos of each other.

48. **Body mapping** - Exploring each other’s bodies to find new sensitive spots.

49. **Vocal play** - Moaning, whispering, or talking seductively to enhance arousal.

50. **Mutual stretching** - Helping each other stretch in intimate, close-contact positions.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

10 hours ago, Callas said:

Besides anal fuck, which is off the table, what else can I do with a masseur who is open to everything else? 
 

I’ve been seeing him for ~almost a year, weekly. I think I have done everything I know.
 

Any suggestion would be greatly appreciated. Except anal, nothing is off the table.

thank you!

Stretching

Deep Tissue

Hot Stones

Bamboo

Cupping

[DMonDude]

Do everything you've already done again but add a second provider for all of it 👀

[Boaxxx]

1 hour ago, JamesB said:

List from AI:

 

1. **Mutual masturbation** - Stimulating each other’s genitals by hand.

2. **Oral sex (fellatio)** - One partner performing oral stimulation on the other’s penis.

3. **Deep kissing** - Passionate, prolonged kissing on the lips.

4. **Body worship** - Kissing, licking, or caressing areas like the chest, abs, or thighs.

5. **Nipple play** - Touching, licking, or sucking on each other’s nipples.

6. **Handjobs** - Using hands to stimulate the partner’s penis to orgasm.

7. **Frottage** - Rubbing genitals or bodies together, clothed or unclothed.

8. **Intercrural sex** - Rubbing one partner’s penis between the other’s thighs.

9. **Erotic massage** - Sensual massage focusing on erogenous zones.

10. **Dry humping** - Grinding against each other while clothed.

11. **Mutual nipple stimulation** - Simultaneously stimulating each other’s nipples.

12. **Testicle play** - Gently caressing, licking, or sucking on a partner’s testicles.

13. **Perineum massage** - Stimulating the area between the scrotum and anus.

14. **Foot fetish play** - Kissing, massaging, or licking a partner’s feet.

15. **Role-playing** - Acting out consensual erotic fantasies or scenarios.

16. **Edging** - Bringing each other close to orgasm and pausing to prolong pleasure.

17. **Shower play** - Mutual touching or washing in the shower or bath.

18. **Body painting** - Using body-safe paint to create art on each other’s skin.

19. **Sensual tickling** - Lightly tickling sensitive areas for arousal.

20. **Erotic wrestling** - Playful, intimate physical grappling.

21. **Clothed stimulation** - Rubbing or touching genitals through clothing.

22. **Ice play** - Using ice cubes on sensitive areas like the neck or inner thighs.

23. **Blindfold play** - One partner blindfolded while the other stimulates them.

24. **Mutual stripping** - Slowly undressing each other as foreplay.

25. **Erotic storytelling** - Sharing or acting out sexual fantasies verbally.

26. **Body-to-body massage** - Rubbing bodies together with oil or lotion.

27. **Mutual spanking** - Light, consensual spanking on the buttocks.

28. **Earlobe play** - Kissing, nibbling, or licking a partner’s earlobes.

29. **Mutual teasing** - Light touching or kissing to build anticipation.

30. **Tantric touch** - Slow, mindful touching for emotional and physical connection.

31. **Sensual feeding** - Feeding each other fruits or sweets erotically.

32. **Mirror play** - Watching each other in a mirror while touching or posing.

33. **Temperature play** - Using warm or cool objects (e.g., warmed oil or chilled toys).

34. **Light bondage** - Using soft restraints like scarves for playful restriction.

35. **Sensory deprivation** - Using earplugs or headphones to heighten touch sensations.

36. **Hair play** - Running fingers through or gently pulling a partner’s hair.

37. **Mutual grooming** - Shaving or trimming each other’s body hair sensually.

38. **Candle wax play** - Dripping body-safe warm wax on skin for stimulation.

39. **Feather play** - Using feathers to tickle or tease sensitive areas.

40. **Mutual body licking** - Licking non-genital areas like the neck, back, or arms.

41. **Erotic dancing** - Dancing closely or performing a striptease for each other.

42. **Scent play** - Using scented oils or cologne to enhance sensory arousal.

43. **Mutual bathing** - Washing each other’s bodies in a bath or hot tub.

44. **Pressure point stimulation** - Applying gentle pressure to erogenous zones like wrists.

45. **Clothed frottage** - Rubbing against each other in tight clothing for friction.

46. **Mutual toy play** - Using non-penetrative sex toys (e.g., vibrators) on each other.

47. **Erotic photography** - Taking consensual, intimate photos of each other.

48. **Body mapping** - Exploring each other’s bodies to find new sensitive spots.

49. **Vocal play** - Moaning, whispering, or talking seductively to enhance arousal.

50. **Mutual stretching** - Helping each other stretch in intimate, close-contact positions.

Boy you sure know how to answer a question. 😉

[+ Jamie21]

1 hour ago, JamesB said:

List from AI:

 

1. **Mutual masturbation** - Stimulating each other’s genitals by hand.

2. **Oral sex (fellatio)** - One partner performing oral stimulation on the other’s penis.

3. **Deep kissing** - Passionate, prolonged kissing on the lips.

4. **Body worship** - Kissing, licking, or caressing areas like the chest, abs, or thighs.

5. **Nipple play** - Touching, licking, or sucking on each other’s nipples.

6. **Handjobs** - Using hands to stimulate the partner’s penis to orgasm.

7. **Frottage** - Rubbing genitals or bodies together, clothed or unclothed.

8. **Intercrural sex** - Rubbing one partner’s penis between the other’s thighs.

9. **Erotic massage** - Sensual massage focusing on erogenous zones.

10. **Dry humping** - Grinding against each other while clothed.

11. **Mutual nipple stimulation** - Simultaneously stimulating each other’s nipples.

12. **Testicle play** - Gently caressing, licking, or sucking on a partner’s testicles.

13. **Perineum massage** - Stimulating the area between the scrotum and anus.

14. **Foot fetish play** - Kissing, massaging, or licking a partner’s feet.

15. **Role-playing** - Acting out consensual erotic fantasies or scenarios.

16. **Edging** - Bringing each other close to orgasm and pausing to prolong pleasure.

17. **Shower play** - Mutual touching or washing in the shower or bath.

18. **Body painting** - Using body-safe paint to create art on each other’s skin.

19. **Sensual tickling** - Lightly tickling sensitive areas for arousal.

20. **Erotic wrestling** - Playful, intimate physical grappling.

21. **Clothed stimulation** - Rubbing or touching genitals through clothing.

22. **Ice play** - Using ice cubes on sensitive areas like the neck or inner thighs.

23. **Blindfold play** - One partner blindfolded while the other stimulates them.

24. **Mutual stripping** - Slowly undressing each other as foreplay.

25. **Erotic storytelling** - Sharing or acting out sexual fantasies verbally.

26. **Body-to-body massage** - Rubbing bodies together with oil or lotion.

27. **Mutual spanking** - Light, consensual spanking on the buttocks.

28. **Earlobe play** - Kissing, nibbling, or licking a partner’s earlobes.

29. **Mutual teasing** - Light touching or kissing to build anticipation.

30. **Tantric touch** - Slow, mindful touching for emotional and physical connection.

31. **Sensual feeding** - Feeding each other fruits or sweets erotically.

32. **Mirror play** - Watching each other in a mirror while touching or posing.

33. **Temperature play** - Using warm or cool objects (e.g., warmed oil or chilled toys).

34. **Light bondage** - Using soft restraints like scarves for playful restriction.

35. **Sensory deprivation** - Using earplugs or headphones to heighten touch sensations.

36. **Hair play** - Running fingers through or gently pulling a partner’s hair.

37. **Mutual grooming** - Shaving or trimming each other’s body hair sensually.

38. **Candle wax play** - Dripping body-safe warm wax on skin for stimulation.

39. **Feather play** - Using feathers to tickle or tease sensitive areas.

40. **Mutual body licking** - Licking non-genital areas like the neck, back, or arms.

41. **Erotic dancing** - Dancing closely or performing a striptease for each other.

42. **Scent play** - Using scented oils or cologne to enhance sensory arousal.

43. **Mutual bathing** - Washing each other’s bodies in a bath or hot tub.

44. **Pressure point stimulation** - Applying gentle pressure to erogenous zones like wrists.

45. **Clothed frottage** - Rubbing against each other in tight clothing for friction.

46. **Mutual toy play** - Using non-penetrative sex toys (e.g., vibrators) on each other.

47. **Erotic photography** - Taking consensual, intimate photos of each other.

48. **Body mapping** - Exploring each other’s bodies to find new sensitive spots.

49. **Vocal play** - Moaning, whispering, or talking seductively to enhance arousal.

50. **Mutual stretching** - Helping each other stretch in intimate, close-contact positions.

I’ve done all those for clients except 18, 22 and 38 😂. 
 

[jeezifonly]

Ooh! I know!!

While you're with him, look together at an Escort Site and have him choose one for you.

[+ Alabastrine]

On 9/10/2025 at 2:25 PM, JamesB said:

List from AI:

 

1. **Mutual masturbation** - Stimulating each other’s genitals by hand.

2. **Oral sex (fellatio)** - One partner performing oral stimulation on the other’s penis.

3. **Deep kissing** - Passionate, prolonged kissing on the lips.

4. **Body worship** - Kissing, licking, or caressing areas like the chest, abs, or thighs.

5. **Nipple play** - Touching, licking, or sucking on each other’s nipples.

6. **Handjobs** - Using hands to stimulate the partner’s penis to orgasm.

7. **Frottage** - Rubbing genitals or bodies together, clothed or unclothed.

8. **Intercrural sex** - Rubbing one partner’s penis between the other’s thighs.

9. **Erotic massage** - Sensual massage focusing on erogenous zones.

10. **Dry humping** - Grinding against each other while clothed.

11. **Mutual nipple stimulation** - Simultaneously stimulating each other’s nipples.

12. **Testicle play** - Gently caressing, licking, or sucking on a partner’s testicles.

13. **Perineum massage** - Stimulating the area between the scrotum and anus.

14. **Foot fetish play** - Kissing, massaging, or licking a partner’s feet.

15. **Role-playing** - Acting out consensual erotic fantasies or scenarios.

16. **Edging** - Bringing each other close to orgasm and pausing to prolong pleasure.

17. **Shower play** - Mutual touching or washing in the shower or bath.

18. **Body painting** - Using body-safe paint to create art on each other’s skin.

19. **Sensual tickling** - Lightly tickling sensitive areas for arousal.

20. **Erotic wrestling** - Playful, intimate physical grappling.

21. **Clothed stimulation** - Rubbing or touching genitals through clothing.

22. **Ice play** - Using ice cubes on sensitive areas like the neck or inner thighs.

23. **Blindfold play** - One partner blindfolded while the other stimulates them.

24. **Mutual stripping** - Slowly undressing each other as foreplay.

25. **Erotic storytelling** - Sharing or acting out sexual fantasies verbally.

26. **Body-to-body massage** - Rubbing bodies together with oil or lotion.

27. **Mutual spanking** - Light, consensual spanking on the buttocks.

28. **Earlobe play** - Kissing, nibbling, or licking a partner’s earlobes.

29. **Mutual teasing** - Light touching or kissing to build anticipation.

30. **Tantric touch** - Slow, mindful touching for emotional and physical connection.

31. **Sensual feeding** - Feeding each other fruits or sweets erotically.

32. **Mirror play** - Watching each other in a mirror while touching or posing.

33. **Temperature play** - Using warm or cool objects (e.g., warmed oil or chilled toys).

34. **Light bondage** - Using soft restraints like scarves for playful restriction.

35. **Sensory deprivation** - Using earplugs or headphones to heighten touch sensations.

36. **Hair play** - Running fingers through or gently pulling a partner’s hair.

37. **Mutual grooming** - Shaving or trimming each other’s body hair sensually.

38. **Candle wax play** - Dripping body-safe warm wax on skin for stimulation.

39. **Feather play** - Using feathers to tickle or tease sensitive areas.

40. **Mutual body licking** - Licking non-genital areas like the neck, back, or arms.

41. **Erotic dancing** - Dancing closely or performing a striptease for each other.

42. **Scent play** - Using scented oils or cologne to enhance sensory arousal.

43. **Mutual bathing** - Washing each other’s bodies in a bath or hot tub.

44. **Pressure point stimulation** - Applying gentle pressure to erogenous zones like wrists.

45. **Clothed frottage** - Rubbing against each other in tight clothing for friction.

46. **Mutual toy play** - Using non-penetrative sex toys (e.g., vibrators) on each other.

47. **Erotic photography** - Taking consensual, intimate photos of each other.

48. **Body mapping** - Exploring each other’s bodies to find new sensitive spots.

49. **Vocal play** - Moaning, whispering, or talking seductively to enhance arousal.

50. **Mutual stretching** - Helping each other stretch in intimate, close-contact positions.

Iiinnnteresting.... Makes me wonder what the AI's training material was.... Or does the AI have some explaining to do? Has it been naughty? (joke, I know it's probably just better and web searching than me)... On a side note this has given me a lot of ideas for what to ask for from providers at future bookings. 

Edited Sunday at 07:01 AM by Alabastrine

[+ sync]

On 9/10/2025 at 3:25 PM, JamesB said:

List from AI:

 

1. **Mutual masturbation** - Stimulating each other’s genitals by hand.

2. **Oral sex (fellatio)** - One partner performing oral stimulation on the other’s penis.

3. **Deep kissing** - Passionate, prolonged kissing on the lips.

4. **Body worship** - Kissing, licking, or caressing areas like the chest, abs, or thighs.

5. **Nipple play** - Touching, licking, or sucking on each other’s nipples.

6. **Handjobs** - Using hands to stimulate the partner’s penis to orgasm.

7. **Frottage** - Rubbing genitals or bodies together, clothed or unclothed.

8. **Intercrural sex** - Rubbing one partner’s penis between the other’s thighs.

9. **Erotic massage** - Sensual massage focusing on erogenous zones.

10. **Dry humping** - Grinding against each other while clothed.

11. **Mutual nipple stimulation** - Simultaneously stimulating each other’s nipples.

12. **Testicle play** - Gently caressing, licking, or sucking on a partner’s testicles.

13. **Perineum massage** - Stimulating the area between the scrotum and anus.

14. **Foot fetish play** - Kissing, massaging, or licking a partner’s feet.

15. **Role-playing** - Acting out consensual erotic fantasies or scenarios.

16. **Edging** - Bringing each other close to orgasm and pausing to prolong pleasure.

17. **Shower play** - Mutual touching or washing in the shower or bath.

18. **Body painting** - Using body-safe paint to create art on each other’s skin.

19. **Sensual tickling** - Lightly tickling sensitive areas for arousal.

20. **Erotic wrestling** - Playful, intimate physical grappling.

21. **Clothed stimulation** - Rubbing or touching genitals through clothing.

22. **Ice play** - Using ice cubes on sensitive areas like the neck or inner thighs.

23. **Blindfold play** - One partner blindfolded while the other stimulates them.

24. **Mutual stripping** - Slowly undressing each other as foreplay.

25. **Erotic storytelling** - Sharing or acting out sexual fantasies verbally.

26. **Body-to-body massage** - Rubbing bodies together with oil or lotion.

27. **Mutual spanking** - Light, consensual spanking on the buttocks.

28. **Earlobe play** - Kissing, nibbling, or licking a partner’s earlobes.

29. **Mutual teasing** - Light touching or kissing to build anticipation.

30. **Tantric touch** - Slow, mindful touching for emotional and physical connection.

31. **Sensual feeding** - Feeding each other fruits or sweets erotically.

32. **Mirror play** - Watching each other in a mirror while touching or posing.

33. **Temperature play** - Using warm or cool objects (e.g., warmed oil or chilled toys).

34. **Light bondage** - Using soft restraints like scarves for playful restriction.

35. **Sensory deprivation** - Using earplugs or headphones to heighten touch sensations.

36. **Hair play** - Running fingers through or gently pulling a partner’s hair.

37. **Mutual grooming** - Shaving or trimming each other’s body hair sensually.

38. **Candle wax play** - Dripping body-safe warm wax on skin for stimulation.

39. **Feather play** - Using feathers to tickle or tease sensitive areas.

40. **Mutual body licking** - Licking non-genital areas like the neck, back, or arms.

41. **Erotic dancing** - Dancing closely or performing a striptease for each other.

42. **Scent play** - Using scented oils or cologne to enhance sensory arousal.

43. **Mutual bathing** - Washing each other’s bodies in a bath or hot tub.

44. **Pressure point stimulation** - Applying gentle pressure to erogenous zones like wrists.

45. **Clothed frottage** - Rubbing against each other in tight clothing for friction.

46. **Mutual toy play** - Using non-penetrative sex toys (e.g., vibrators) on each other.

47. **Erotic photography** - Taking consensual, intimate photos of each other.

48. **Body mapping** - Exploring each other’s bodies to find new sensitive spots.

49. **Vocal play** - Moaning, whispering, or talking seductively to enhance arousal.

50. **Mutual stretching** - Helping each other stretch in intimate, close-contact positions.