Into's You'd Add on Rent Men

[BuffaloKyle]

I wish there was a fingering "into" on rent men. I love to rim and finger a bottom before topping them. But in my experience I'd say the majority don't like to get fingered because of fingernails scraping them inside. I even cut them super short and guys still unfortunately say they feel it. I can ask them of course but it'd be nice to have it as an "into" on an ad so I could easily see what bottoms on there do enjoy it.

Anything else missing that you'd wanna see added?

[+ Pensant]

Why not wear surgical gloves?

[+ Just Chuck]

The existing category S&M covers WAY too many possibilities. It's virtually meaningless.

[BuffaloKyle]

8 hours ago, Pensant said:

Why not wear surgical gloves?

It's not that big of a deal where I'd go that route.

[+ Just Chuck]

9 hours ago, Pensant said:

Why not wear surgical gloves?

You can pick up a package of "Finger Cots" at your local drugstore.  A finger cot is basically just one finger from a surgical glove without the rest of the glove.  They're made specifically for inserting one finger into a body cavity.

[hungry4darkmeat]

I know it’s not what you asked but Id def add a field for host/travel that could clear up a whole lot of confusion ahead of time lol 

[CuriousByNature]

I imagine for those who meet with providers, the 'kiss' category could be more specific.  Is the individual comfortable with just a peck on the cheek, or something more passionate?  If I was to meet with someone, I think that would be important to clarify.  But I guess it could be a YMMV situation for many providers.

[BuffaloKyle]

10 hours ago, CuriousByNature said:

I imagine for those who meet with providers, the 'kiss' category could be more specific.  Is the individual comfortable with just a peck on the cheek, or something more passionate?  If I was to meet with someone, I think that would be important to clarify.  But I guess it could be a YMMV situation for many providers.

Maybe Kissing and a French Kissing? 💋

[marylander1940]

On 7/16/2025 at 9:02 AM, BuffaloKyle said:

I wish there was a fingering "into" on rent men. I love to rim and finger a bottom before topping them. But in my experience I'd say the majority don't like to get fingered because of fingernails scraping them inside. I even cut them super short and guys still unfortunately say they feel it. I can ask them of course but it'd be nice to have it as an "into" on an ad so I could easily see what bottoms on there do enjoy it.

Anything else missing that you'd wanna see added?

It hurts. Do it just briefly with lubricant to open him up makes sense but the motion of finger(s) going in and out it is painful to a large percentage of bottoms.

Considering they're getting paid many of them could just act and pretend they love it.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

I'd like to see if a Rent Man was into church.  This would help me with scheduling overnight appointments if I know he would like to be up early Sunday morning to go to church, for example.  It'll also help  with compatibility.  I would like the escort that I'm going to marry someday to have similar spiritual beliefs and religious compatibility with my own.

[Himposium]

On 7/17/2025 at 10:31 AM, marylander1940 said:

It hurts. Do it just briefly with lubricant to open him up makes sense but the motion of finger(s) going in and out it is painful to a large percentage of bottoms.

Considering they're getting paid many of them could just act and pretend they love it.

Marylander1940, I’d like to offer some insight. If you believe that paying a male escort gives you the right to treat him with disregard, that mindset reflects deeper psychological patterns. The entitlement you’ve expressed often stems from internal struggles with control, self-worth, and the capacity for intimacy.

Using money as a justification to strip someone of respect is a defense mechanism—a way to avoid vulnerability. It creates a false sense of power, but beneath that surface is unresolved shame, fear of closeness, and likely a conflict around your own sexual identity. What you’re doing is projecting your discomfort onto the very person you’re paying to connect with.

Payment doesn’t erase the human element. In fact, it heightens the need for mutual respect and emotional intelligence. A truly balanced mind understands that. You may want to explore this further—because this behavior is a sign that help is needed.

[+ Jamie21]

I’ve a few regular clients who like to finger me. It’s intriguing when I see a client and he starts to explore back there because usually they’re more interested in playing with my cock as I massage them. They’ll touch me and test if it’s ok so I add a bit of lube to my hole and next time he touches he can feel I’m lubed up so it’s a signal for him to go in properly. Clients love to hear me groan with pleasure as I massage them…kind of turning the tables.

I think @marylander1940is correct in saying it can hurt though if for example his nails aren’t short or especially if he just pushes in and out. It’s better to insert and leave it there, applying pressure on and off to the prostate. When withdrawing do it slowly. Just thrusting your finger or fingers in and out is definitely not good! 

[Cbilly17]

I wish you could filter out PNP. I see a delicious guy and then have to pass because of it. Show me the men that don’t do it.

[Rudynate]

On 7/16/2025 at 6:02 AM, BuffaloKyle said:

I wish there was a fingering "into" on rent men. I love to rim and finger a bottom before topping them. But in my experience I'd say the majority don't like to get fingered because of fingernails scraping them inside. I even cut them super short and guys still unfortunately say they feel it. I can ask them of course but it'd be nice to have it as an "into" on an ad so I could easily see what bottoms on there do enjoy it.

Anything else missing that you'd wanna see added?

Isn't that "assplay?" People that are into fisting differentiate ass play and fisting.

[InterestingGuy]

I’d like the ads to clarify what “Oral” means - most guys have ads where “Oral” is checked under the “Into” section - but in person, they will only “receive” it and not “provide” it.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

2 hours ago, InterestingGuy said:

I’d like the ads to clarify what “Oral” means - most guys have ads where “Oral” is checked under the “Into” section - but in person, they will only “receive” it and not “provide” it.

I assume Oral means he likes to engage in conversation.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

2 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

5 hours ago, InterestingGuy said:

I’d like the ads to clarify what “Oral” means - most guys have ads where “Oral” is checked under the “Into” section - but in person, they will only “receive” it and not “provide” it.

I assume Oral means he likes to engage in conversation.

A good conversationalist both gives and receives.

[BuffaloKyle]

9 hours ago, Rudynate said:

Isn't that "assplay?" People that are into fisting differentiate ass play and fisting.

I guess so, ass play isn't an option though to select.

[viewing ownly]

The day will never happen, as too many myths would get busted, but I love the fetish of measuring with measuring tape with hires, having something to build on for a future visit (biceps, chest, cock girth if they're a pumper).