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Looking for providers who can achieve this with clients.  Seems to be somewhat elusive.  Previous threads on this were closed to comments.  Although  this seems somewhat elusive, I know it's possible.  

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27 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said:

As someone who has experienced these, it's more about you than the provider. I learned how to have them via Zoom during the COVID-19 pandemic. It mostly has to do with your ability to relax into the pleasure, so it just waves over you again and again. Have you ever had one? You can probably teach yourself with a toy. 

I’ve had plenty of things happen on Zoom—technical difficulties, awkward silences, existential dread—but anal orgasms? That’s a first. Bravo!

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Yes, it’s a thing, and oh so pleasurable. I guide clients into the orgasmic states you’re looking for. True, you can learn it on your own with some access to information online and in books, but it’s way more fun with a provider.

It takes practice, patience, an interest, belief that it’s possible, an open mind, and a willingness to learn. Most men lack one or all of these. Also, sometimes it takes multiple sessions depending on the person, their experience level, their body, and individual circumstances. It’s a heavy investment in terms of time and to some extent money, but moreso time and patience. Men prefer instant gratification.

Providers offering what you are looking for are exceedingly rare because of all the above limiting the market demand for the services you’re seeking. We’re out there, but not in every city or neighborhood. You might have to travel or hire a traveler to find a good fit. 

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6 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

As someone who has experienced these, it's more about you than the provider. I learned how to have them via Zoom during the COVID-19 pandemic. It mostly has to do with your ability to relax into the pleasure, so it just waves over you again and again. Have you ever had one? You can probably teach yourself with a toy. 

Hi-  I have had one, and it was with a provider who used vibrating toys.  I've tried at home with toys myself.  Both vibrating and non-vibrating. I've gotten myself close but not quite there.  I think I'm "overthinking" about it.  

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5 hours ago, Simon Suraci said:

Yes, it’s a thing, and oh so pleasurable. I guide clients into the orgasmic states you’re looking for. True, you can learn it on your own with some access to information online and in books, but it’s way more fun with a provider.

It takes practice, patience, an interest, belief that it’s possible, an open mind, and a willingness to learn. Most men lack one or all of these. Also, sometimes it takes multiple sessions depending on the person, their experience level, their body, and individual circumstances. It’s a heavy investment in terms of time and to some extent money, but moreso time and patience. Men prefer instant gratification.

Providers offering what you are looking for are exceedingly rare because of all the above limiting the market demand for the services you’re seeking. We’re out there, but not in every city or neighborhood. You might have to travel or hire a traveler to find a good fit. 

Your words of wisdom are much appreciated.  I don't think it's possible for "instant gratification"  It seems like something that does take time to accomplish. 

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The first time I experienced an anal full-body orgasm was through prostate massage with a gloved finger.  The single finger was slender enough that I was able to easily take that in without any physical discomfort and then it's just a matter of the person massaging knowing the anatomy and what motion is going to feel good.  

I didn't experience it the first several times I got fucked.  I don't think I was relaxed enough for it to happen then no matter who I had been with. 

I had to work to get comfortable receiving and then they started happening for me (but still not every time) when I get fucked.

Toys were the way to learn my own anatomy and to get used to penetration enough that I could experience that during anal sex.

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I’ve experienced it with a partner once. Many times solo.

One thing - the nature of the AO sensation is more an extended hum than a bang - highly individual, factoring in all sorts of variables physical, mental and situational. It takes time to find your best method and positioning. 

It’s called elusive, but mostly the full body AO is a victim of distractions and a sense of urgency that rushes past the clues your body sends when you’re on the right track. Too much direct pressure on the prostate can spoil the trajectory. 

For me what makes it feel “full body” is the sensory overload of synced rhythms - breath, stimulation, and core. A standard O with ejaculation may or may not sync with the rest. Mine often come slightly delayed - an exclamation point of sorts. 
 

 

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If you use 10 mg of an edible it also helps you to relax. Guided meditation and playing at home with an Aneros or Njoy toy get you ready for that HFO orgasm

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On 7/11/2025 at 9:12 PM, Nightowl said:

Still waiting for my first one.  So far all my providers seem interested in is getting themselves off, not me.

You're hiring the wrong providers.... YOU are the client YOU set the tems.

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57 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

You're hiring the wrong providers.... YOU are the client YOU set the tems.

You’re right.  I should be laying out my requirements more forcefully.  

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On 7/8/2025 at 5:43 PM, Simon Suraci said:

Yes, it’s a thing, and oh so pleasurable. I guide clients into the orgasmic states you’re looking for. True, you can learn it on your own with some access to information online and in books, but it’s way more fun with a provider.

It takes practice, patience, an interest, belief that it’s possible, an open mind, and a willingness to learn. Most men lack one or all of these. Also, sometimes it takes multiple sessions depending on the person, their experience level, their body, and individual circumstances. It’s a heavy investment in terms of time and to some extent money, but moreso time and patience. Men prefer instant gratification.

Providers offering what you are looking for are exceedingly rare because of all the above limiting the market demand for the services you’re seeking. We’re out there, but not in every city or neighborhood. You might have to travel or hire a traveler to find a good fit. 

OMG Simon--I think I had one just reading that!

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