Connection?

[Bubble Buck]

Hey guys, 

As been a while - too darn busy to have much fun but I just met up with two guys and the session was decent.  
 

No real complaints but as I reflected the experience it wasn’t the best either.  
 

May be it’s just me, but I prefer just a bit of human connection so it doesn’t feel so transactional.  A few moments of chill and conversation at the end makes it feel a bit more human and real.

in this case the guys jumped out of bed immediately after I came and went straight into their phones.  They don’t attempt to converse at all.  This really detracted from what could have been a positive experience.

may be I am expecting too much or old school.  I walked away feeling a bit empty and unsatisfied.  
 

is it just me or do others feel the same? 
 

ciao,

Buck

 

[Nightowl]

IMO, if there was time left in your session that you had paid for, their attention should have remained on you.  I can’t blame you for feeling disappointment.  The best experiences I’ve had have been chatting with the provider as I got dressed or lying side by side after the fireworks were over.  I probably wouldn’t go back if I had the experience you did.

[Gilfson]

Yeah I get you. Me and my clients end up chatting too much sometimes that I just add time to there session not expecting more pay as I’m a chatty Kathy and enjoy good conversation 

[+ Jamie21]

I agree! It doesn’t finish as soon as you cum. I like to cuddle, do some head massage and or foot massage (honestly foot massage after you’ve climaxed is amazing). 
A couple of weeks ago I saw a client (out call to his hotel) and after the sexual activity lol we just chatted for half an hour about all sorts of things (politics, the royals, history). It’s all part of doing the work in my view. You’re providing company, entertainment and relaxation. Yes mostly it’s physical activity but it’s important to engage with the client as a person rather than just a ‘body’. 

[pubic_assistance]

3 hours ago, Bubble Buck said:

may be I am expecting too much or old school.  I walked away feeling a bit empty and unsatisfied.  

Nah.

I agree.

I expect a provider to treat me like any friendly regular business relationship.

If they cant manage five minutes of chummy banter while I get dressed, its weird and uncomfortable and they shouldn't be in the business.

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[marylander1940]

3 hours ago, Bubble Buck said:

Hey guys, 

As been a while - too darn busy to have much fun but I just met up with two guys and the session was decent.  
 

No real complaints but as I reflected the experience it wasn’t the best either.  
 

May be it’s just me, but I prefer just a bit of human connection so it doesn’t feel so transactional.  A few moments of chill and conversation at the end makes it feel a bit more human and real.

in this case the guys jumped out of bed immediately after I came and went straight into their phones.  They don’t attempt to converse at all.  This really detracted from what could have been a positive experience.

may be I am expecting too much or old school.  I walked away feeling a bit empty and unsatisfied.  
 

is it just me or do others feel the same? 
 

ciao,

Buck

 

How old was he?

He needs to know cuddling is part of having sex and you're paying for his time with you and not on his phone. 

[Bubble Buck]

These guys were in there 20s, but had several favorable reviews so figured they would be a good bet.

[Simon Suraci]

I agree with much of the above. A pro will give you the time of day. At least the time of the session to be fully engaged with you.

[+ cougar]

The last escort I hired had the personality of a glass of water, but his looks made up for it. Regardless, he did deliver for what I hired him for.

When we were all done, I was a little slower than him in putting everything back together and he ran out of here so fast, I paused for a second thinking he had stolen something, but he didn't. If he only understood that if he would slow down and try to be friendlier he probably would have gotten another appointment from me in the future. 

[+ azdr0710]

developing repeat clientele is the key to providers' success......racing out at the stroke of the hour is not going to help toward that goal

[marylander1940]

3 hours ago, Bubble Buck said:

These guys were in there 20s, but had several favorable reviews so figured they would be a good bet.

Unfortunately, some of them have:

[+ PhileasFogg]

8 hours ago, Bubble Buck said:

Hey guys, 

As been a while - too darn busy to have much fun but I just met up with two guys and the session was decent.  
 

No real complaints but as I reflected the experience it wasn’t the best either.  
 

May be it’s just me, but I prefer just a bit of human connection so it doesn’t feel so transactional.  A few moments of chill and conversation at the end makes it feel a bit more human and real.

in this case the guys jumped out of bed immediately after I came and went straight into their phones.  They don’t attempt to converse at all.  This really detracted from what could have been a positive experience.

may be I am expecting too much or old school.  I walked away feeling a bit empty and unsatisfied.  
 

is it just me or do others feel the same? 
 

ciao,

Buck

 

I stick to connection.  Usually judge by initial correspondence and what follows.  Can you share who your experience was with so we don’t make a mistake?

[marylander1940]

23 hours ago, Bubble Buck said:

These guys were in there 20s, but had several favorable reviews so figured they would be a good bet.

Now it makes sense! 

Gen Z!

[Bubble Buck]

On 5/24/2025 at 6:02 PM, cougar said:

The last escort I hired had the personality of a glass of water, but his looks made up for it. Regardless, he did deliver for what I hired him for.

When we were all done, I was a little slower than him in putting everything back together and he ran out of here so fast, I paused for a second thinking he had stolen something, but he didn't. If he only understood that if he would slow down and try to be friendlier he probably would have gotten another appointment from me in the future. 

This is what I am talking about.  Feels like some guys do not get the fundamentals:  people buy from people.  

[Rudynate]

On 5/24/2025 at 6:02 PM, cougar said:

The last escort I hired had the personality of a glass of water, but his looks made up for it. Regardless, he did deliver for what I hired him for.

When we were all done, I was a little slower than him in putting everything back together and he ran out of here so fast, I paused for a second thinking he had stolen something, but he didn't. If he only understood that if he would slow down and try to be friendlier he probably would have gotten another appointment from me in the future. 

That's important too.  I used to see a guy who wasn't great at soft skills (although he was a great kisser) but he was a complete sex machine.  I used to think that he could be more touchy - feely, but then I would think, "who does what he does the way he does it?."  Not many.