Using G or other drugs to increase arousal

[whatdoidowiththisagain]

I was talking to a favorite provider the other day and the topic of anxiety during our encounters came up. I have low self confidence because i'm not in the best shape and soemtimes that gets into my head and prevents me from staying hard and enjoying myself. And yes i've tried 100mg of generic viagra with no success. I don't think I have ED - i'm in my 30s. He offered providing me with G or GHB because it is supposed to lower your inhibitions and  in many people, increases their sex drive. Has anyone tried this? What other drugs (preferably ones that don't show up on drug screens) do people take to help with arousal?

[MikeBiDude]

5 minutes ago, whatdoidowiththisagain said:

I was talking to a favorite provider the other day and the topic of anxiety during our encounters came up. I have low self confidence because i'm not in the best shape and soemtimes that gets into my head and prevents me from staying hard and enjoying myself. And yes i've tried 100mg of generic viagra with no success. I don't think I have ED - i'm in my 30s. He offered providing me with G or GHB because it is supposed to lower your inhibitions and  in many people, increases their sex drive. Has anyone tried this? What other drugs (preferably ones that don't show up on drug screens) do people take to help with arousal?

Have you consulted with a urologist?

[Archangel]

Wow. I guess I’m out of touch. I don’t know what G is…

[pubic_assistance]

1 hour ago, whatdoidowiththisagain said:

He offered providing me with G or GHB because it is supposed to lower your inhibitions and  in many people, increases their sex drive. Has anyone tried this?

Yes.

I had a (hot) friend 20 years ago who was a doctor and made his own GHB for parties. We would spend hours having sex with his guests. Normally I'm pretty selective about bottoming..but I was so aroused I was letting everybody fuck me.

The concerns about GHB is that your inhibitions are SO low that you might do irresponsible things (in direct relationship to how otherwise uptight you are). The worst of them being that if you mix GHB with other drugs or alcohol you could die.

My friend wouldn't allow anyone to leave his place for hours until they GHB wore off. If you were tired you were forced to sleep in the other room until it was safe to be on your own. This was the only place I would ever do GHB because the parameters were so strict with an actual medical doctor running the show.

Not sure I would accept it from a stranger and I don't know that I'd trust myself wandering around still high on GHB.

 

 

 

[marylander1940]

1 hour ago, whatdoidowiththisagain said:

I was talking to a favorite provider the other day and the topic of anxiety during our encounters came up. I have low self confidence because i'm not in the best shape and soemtimes that gets into my head and prevents me from staying hard and enjoying myself. And yes i've tried 100mg of generic viagra with no success. I don't think I have ED - i'm in my 30s. He offered providing me with G or GHB because it is supposed to lower your inhibitions and  in many people, increases their sex drive. Has anyone tried this? What other drugs (preferably ones that don't show up on drug screens) do people take to help with arousal?

First of all, thank you for sharing!

Have you thought about eating healthier, exercising, and asking your Dr. for a prescription of Ozempic or a similar drug? 

Plenty of posters have shed a lot of weight using this new "miracle drugs" to fight obesity. 

One more thing: If you're by yourself watching porno and take 50mg of Viagra, are you able to get hard and cum? If that's the case, it might be psychological, and you're just shy about being seen naked and you need to work on your body to regain your trust. 

[marylander1940]

20 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Yes.

I had a (hot) friend 20 years ago who was a doctor and made his own GHB for parties. We would spend hours having sex with his guests. Normally I'm pretty selective about bottoming..but I was so aroused I was letting everybody fuck me.

The concerns about GHB is that your inhibitions are SO low that you might do irresponsible things (in direct relationship to how otherwise uptight you are). The worst of them being that if you mix GHB with other drugs or alcohol you could die.

My friend wouldn't allow anyone to leave his place for hours until they GHB wore off. If you were tired you were forced to sleep in the other room until it was safe to be on your own. This was the only place I would ever do GHB because the parameters were so strict with an actual medical doctor running the show.

Not sure I would accept it from a stranger and I don't know that I'd trust myself wandering around still high on GHB.

 

 

 

It's official.... you need to write a book about all of your adventures, a movie might be better! 

One more thing, I'm glad you survived all your "youthful indiscretions".

[pubic_assistance]

1 hour ago, marylander1940 said:

It's official.... you need to write a book about all of your adventures, a movie might be better! 

One more thing, I'm glad you survived all your "youthful indiscretions".

NYC was just coming out of the dark years of the AIDS epidemic when I moved here. So the sex scene was pretty wild again by 1995. I had a LOT of fun weekends in my youth. I have never been inclined toward addiction. When I was at Syracuse University we experimented with everything (except crack and heroin). The rule with any recreational drug is to NEVER do it on back to back weekends or even back to back months. Once in a while / once a year keeps your brain away from addictions (With the exception of Crack which i am told is so immediately addictive that we all constantly shamed each other into never trying it). Those who ignored our pact, are now gone and one friend is mostly a vegetable for many years now.

From the wisdom of Julia Child: "Enjoy to the fullest.... but enjoy everything in moderation."

[whatdoidowiththisagain]

2 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

First of all, thank you for sharing!

Have you thought about eating healthier, exercising, and asking your Dr. for a prescription of Ozempic or a similar drug? 

Plenty of posters have shed a lot of weight using this new "miracle drugs" to fight obesity. 

One more thing: If you're by yourself watching porno and take 50mg of Viagra, are you able to get hard and cum? If that's the case, it might be psychological, and you're just shy about being seen naked and you need to work on your body to regain your trust. 

Yes i am starting. but at the same time i am horny and cant wait lol

[whatdoidowiththisagain]

2 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Yes.

I had a (hot) friend 20 years ago who was a doctor and made his own GHB for parties. We would spend hours having sex with his guests. Normally I'm pretty selective about bottoming..but I was so aroused I was letting everybody fuck me.

The concerns about GHB is that your inhibitions are SO low that you might do irresponsible things (in direct relationship to how otherwise uptight you are). The worst of them being that if you mix GHB with other drugs or alcohol you could die.

My friend wouldn't allow anyone to leave his place for hours until they GHB wore off. If you were tired you were forced to sleep in the other room until it was safe to be on your own. This was the only place I would ever do GHB because the parameters were so strict with an actual medical doctor running the show.

Not sure I would accept it from a stranger and I don't know that I'd trust myself wandering around still high on GHB.

 

 

 

I didnt know it would affect your inhibitions THAT much. that's really helpful to consider

[marylander1940]

5 minutes ago, whatdoidowiththisagain said:

Yes i am starting. but at the same time i am horny and cant wait lol

Being horny is a great way to get some motivation!

[pubic_assistance]

27 minutes ago, whatdoidowiththisagain said:

I didnt know it would affect your inhibitions THAT much. that's really helpful to consider

To be clear...I have been fairly uninhibited about sex for a log time. So it's not like it was a big stretch for me..but I did notice that I was particularly unconcerned about who fucked me/how many fucked me or how long I got fucked, while on GHB.

Normally I am a bit more selective about anal...but the GHB definitely lowers inhibitions and increases sex drive.

I would make the same observation about small amounts of crystal meth.

BOTH of these drugs,however should NOT be used with any regularity. I am talking about using it once or twice a YEAR for a couple years. Maybe total 6 or 7 times in my life. If you have any inclination toward addictions...I wouldn't suggest trying, as you may have trouble stopping if you experience a significant positive effect.

The sexual benefits of both drugs dwindle with frequency...and there is a BIG community of people who get addicted to meth. So I am not condoning these as any long range  solution to your problem.

 

Edited February 19 by pubic_assistance
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[Nightowl]

6 hours ago, whatdoidowiththisagain said:

I was talking to a favorite provider the other day and the topic of anxiety during our encounters came up. I have low self confidence because i'm not in the best shape and soemtimes that gets into my head and prevents me from staying hard and enjoying myself. And yes i've tried 100mg of generic viagra with no success. I don't think I have ED - i'm in my 30s. He offered providing me with G or GHB because it is supposed to lower your inhibitions and  in many people, increases their sex drive. Has anyone tried this? What other drugs (preferably ones that don't show up on drug screens) do people take to help with arousal?

100mg of Viagra didn’t work?  Just got my first Rx and the doctor gave me 25mg.  I was expecting rock-hard erections.  Now I’m worried 😬

[whatdoidowiththisagain]

Just now, Nightowl said:

100mg of Viagra didn’t work?  Just got my first Rx and the doctor gave me 25mg.  I was expecting rock-hard erections.  Now I’m worried 😬

yeah i got mine from hims.com they come in 50mg pills and it says take 1-2 

[Nightowl]

4 minutes ago, whatdoidowiththisagain said:

yeah i got mine from hims.com they come in 50mg pills and it says take 1-2 

If the 25s don’t work I’ll have to double or triple up.  Might be time for a solo session to see whether the 25s do anything.

[Thelatin]

I mean this in the nicest possible way.  Both solutions revolve revolve around taking drugs, G and Ozempic.

The gym is so much healthier with so many positive side affects from looking good naked to reducing anxiety etc.  

The 4-5 hours a week I spend lifting has completely changed my life.

[big-n-tall]

29 minutes ago, Nightowl said:

100mg of Viagra didn’t work?  Just got my first Rx and the doctor gave me 25mg.  I was expecting rock-hard erections.  Now I’m worried 😬

From my understanding ed drugs just don't make you hard after you take them. You have to be aroused. So if you take them and are nervous... they still won't make you hard. The anxiety will still kill your erection no matter how many mgs you take. Also maybe viagra doesn't work for you. Maybe try one of the other ed pills and see if they work. But again if you're nervous/anxious ed pills will fail you still.

Something like trimix (injection into the penis) will make you hard without arousal. However, it has potentially dangerous side effects. Well I guess ed drugs do to.

Edited February 20 by big-n-tall

[Nightowl]

13 minutes ago, big-n-tall said:

From my understanding ed drugs just don't make you hard after you take them. You have to be aroused. So if you take them and are nervous... they still won't make you hard. The anxiety will still kill your erection no matter how many mgs you take. Also maybe viagra doesn't work for you. Maybe try one of the other ed pills and see if they work. But again if you're nervous/anxious ed pills will fail you still.

Something like trimix (injection into the penis) will make you hard without arousal. However, it has potentially dangerous side effects. Well I guess ed drugs do to.

The need for arousal is my understanding too.  In my case arousal is never the problem,   it’s the hardness that can be problematic.  If Viagra doesn’t work I’ll look into trimix.  Thanks for the advice (and the warning).

[+ WstVlgChris]

In terms of causing sexual arousal, a variety of recreational drugs certainly enhance the sex drive, and may make it easier to get/stay hard.

At least that's what I've found with weed (in various forms/amounts/delivery systems), sass, and 2cb, among others. 

[Oakman]

You are in your 30s - the prime of your life. And you’re already looking at viagra, ozempic, and GHB as a means to overcome not feeling sexy. Yes, pharmaceuticals will have various results for you. But you are only going to be a young man once. Prioritize your body and you will feel sexier. Are you active? Do you exercise? Do you stretch? Are you in a community where others also exercise? 

[DGHou]

17 hours ago, Nightowl said:

100mg of Viagra didn’t work?  Just got my first Rx and the doctor gave me 25mg.  I was expecting rock-hard erections.  Now I’m worried 😬

I have found with Viagra as well as Cialis, if you aren't interested in the other party it does not work. About 6 or 7 years ago I met a guy who I really liked, but wasn't super attracted to. However a lot of my friends told me, and I told myself, that the sexual attraction will come if the emotional and intellectual connection is there. After we had gone out for a few weeks I spent the night with him. He tried to initiate sex but I was anxious and uncomfortable.  (I had lost the love of my life a few years prior).  So the next time I spent the night I took a Viagra about a couple of hours beforehand.  Nothing.  No erection.  Nothing.  I got up during the night to pee and took another figuring it would work for morning sex.  Nope.  It was then I realized while I really liked the guy I was simply not sexually attracted in any way.  It can't be forced with me I guess.  We are still friends and he is in love with me for sure.  I just can't give him what he wants in a relationship.

In the meantime I am enjoying the company of several younger guys.  No Viagra needed

[+ Jamie21]

The advice on here to avoid drugs (including Viagra etc) is sound I think. You do have to be attracted to your sexual partner to get hard, regardless of Viagra. All that does is help make you harder for longer. The drugs will just mask the underlying issue and aren’t good for your health. I think the best sex is when you’re completely and totally present in the moment and you can’t be that if you’re high on something, including drink. 

My experience is that if you’re anxious about getting hard then you’ll find it difficult to get hard and therefore you get more anxious…which is kind of a circular problem. The way to break it is through breathing and practice in being in the moment so that when you’re with the guy you’re focused on the activity and him rather than thinking ‘I’m not getting hard’. You do that by removing any expectations from the session except that it will be intimate - kiss, cuddle etc… no plans to fuck, no need to cum etc. and simply slowing everything down and thinking about how you’re breathing. That’s best done with an understanding provider. You’ll get into the session and should find, perhaps to your surprise, that you’re hard. Once you break that anxiety circle then it’s easier next time and you find that you’re over the anxiety. 

[Nightowl]

4 hours ago, DGHou said:

I have found with Viagra as well as Cialis, if you aren't interested in the other party it does not work. About 6 or 7 years ago I met a guy who I really liked, but wasn't super attracted to. However a lot of my friends told me, and I told myself, that the sexual attraction will come if the emotional and intellectual connection is there. After we had gone out for a few weeks I spent the night with him. He tried to initiate sex but I was anxious and uncomfortable.  (I had lost the love of my life a few years prior).  So the next time I spent the night I took a Viagra about a couple of hours beforehand.  Nothing.  No erection.  Nothing.  I got up during the night to pee and took another figuring it would work for morning sex.  Nope.  It was then I realized while I really liked the guy I was simply not sexually attracted in any way.  It can't be forced with me I guess.  We are still friends and he is in love with me for sure.  I just can't give him what he wants in a relationship.

In the meantime I am enjoying the company of several younger guys.  No Viagra needed

I’m sorry for your loss and that you were in the situation you found yourself in with the new guy.  I guess arousal is different for all of us.  Glad you have found a way to get some gratification in the meantime. 

[marylander1940]

22 hours ago, Thelatin said:

I mean this in the nicest possible way.  Both solutions revolve revolve around taking drugs, G and Ozempic.

The gym is so much healthier with so many positive side affects from looking good naked to reducing anxiety etc.  

The 4-5 hours a week I spend lifting has completely changed my life.

Brilliant, and for the record I've always considered providers who advertise PNP as a huge red flag.... 

but I think the OP @whatdoidowiththisagain after trying different things, needs a way to reset his body and mind into being sexually active again.

 

Edited February 20 by marylander1940

[maninsoma]

On 2/19/2025 at 10:12 AM, whatdoidowiththisagain said:

I was talking to a favorite provider the other day and the topic of anxiety during our encounters came up. I have low self confidence because i'm not in the best shape and soemtimes that gets into my head and prevents me from staying hard and enjoying myself. And yes i've tried 100mg of generic viagra with no success. I don't think I have ED - i'm in my 30s. He offered providing me with G or GHB because it is supposed to lower your inhibitions and  in many people, increases their sex drive. Has anyone tried this? What other drugs (preferably ones that don't show up on drug screens) do people take to help with arousal?

You describe having erectile dysfunction but then state you don't think you have it because you are in your 30s.  Age has nothing to do with it.  If you aren't getting and maintaining an erection under appropriate circumstances, by definition you have ED.  ED can be caused by physical factors as well as emotional ones.  It can result as a side effect of some medications, be an indication of some underlying disease, or simply may be due to your anxiety.  If the Viagra didn't help, it still doesn't mean you don't have ED because Viagra is only going to do so much for you if you have factors causing your erectile dysfunction that are greater than the effects of Viagra.  Without derailing this thread too much, I'll say that I noticed Viagra had a significantly diminished effect for me once I started taking a medication for a chronic medical condition.  My ED was so distressing for me that I tried virtually all alternative treatments for my medical condition and they all had side effects worse than the ED caused by what I still take.

At any rate, since we don't know what you mean by "in the best shape" it's difficult to know whether health factors are involved in your ED.  Are you a hundred pounds overweight, or 10?  Obesity definitely can cause ED, but being a tiny bit overweight won't.  Negatively judging yourself in sexual situations will definitely get in the way of getting and staying hard.  As usual, I like Jamie21's response above and will add that if you can find someone to do this with who is not a provider then it will be even better (assuming you don't have unlimited funds for hiring).