too forward escorts

[pubic_assistance]

5 hours ago, Massageguy99 said:

Sometimes there is no way out except to get up and leave or grin and bear it. 

Have you tried tolerating other people's opinions ? I find this works well.

 

[DznNYC]

On 7/8/2024 at 10:04 AM, carolus said:

How do you deal with escorts who are too forward in conversations and come up with BS in the midst? I recall getting up and leaving one time when one of them started talking about religion and faith. Not the time and place, and I don't believe in any religion. I find it's cringe. I even left a bad review on a site, as a warning. 

This is so odd all around.  

As an escort, I try to bring my authentic self front and center whenever possible.  But even with that, why bring up potentially trigging topics?

Even odder…. Why not just politely shut the topic down and move on?  Hitting the eject button and leaving a bad review seems excessive. 

[+ DynamicUno]

2 hours ago, DamizzonNYC said:

This is so odd all around.  

As an escort, I try to bring my authentic self front and center whenever possible.  But even with that, why bring up potentially trigging topics?

Even odder…. Why not just politely shut the topic down and move on?  Hitting the eject button and leaving a bad review seems excessive. 

I'll take "Things that never really happened to the OP" for $500, Alex.

[DWnyc]

Anyone else get a whiff of deja vu with this post?

[marylander1940]

On 7/8/2024 at 10:04 AM, carolus said:

How do you deal with escorts who are too forward in conversations and come up with BS in the midst? I recall getting up and leaving one time when one of them started talking about religion and faith. Not the time and place, and I don't believe in any religion. I find it's cringe. I even left a bad review on a site, as a warning. 

Huge turn off when they turn "judgy". 

[Becket]

On 7/9/2024 at 2:40 AM, SouthOfTheBorder said:

a professional provider initiating any sort of controversial subject conversation isn’t the sharpest tack.  they don’t know how the client will react, so why do it ?  there’s really no upside and lots of potential downside.  a smart providers objective is to build a book of dependable clients that will hire & pay on a regular basis.  why risk alienating someone with those type conversations?

this has never happened to me in many years hiring.  My experience is vast majority of successful providers are skilled at reading the client and acting accordingly.  

if that happened to me, I’d tell the person immediately that I didn’t hire them for a political or religion conversation.  And if it persisted, that would end the appointment without the full fee or tip.  If it happened at the end, I’d just not contact that person again and show them the door asap.

if the client brings up those topics - well, then they asked for it. 

my general feeling is it’s my paid time & my rules. not complicated 

 

Yea, if a guy has his hand half way up my ass, that's NOT the time for him to say, "I'd like to tell you about my relationship with my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ."  IMHO

[BuffaloKyle]

1 hour ago, Becket said:

Yea, if a guy has his hand half way up my ass, that's NOT the time for him to say, "I'd like to tell you about my relationship with my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ."  IMHO

Amen to that brother! Oops! 🙃

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

2 hours ago, Becket said:

Yea, if a guy has his hand half way up my ass, that's NOT the time for him to say, "I'd like to tell you about my relationship with my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ."  IMHO

My experience has been that the guy waits until after he's cum at least at least once before talking religion and politics. 

I don't mind if he stops and talks about Jesus Christ, so long as he exemplifies Christ's promise and cums again!  Praise! 🙌 

[wanderlust307]

I find stupidity a big turn off.

[+ DrownedBoy]

20 hours ago, Becket said:

Yea, if a guy has his hand half way up my ass, that's NOT the time for him to say, "I'd like to tell you about my relationship with my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ."  IMHO

That happened on Rentboy and made the news.

I love how the guy claimed this about the escort. "I shared the Gospel of Jesus Christ with him in great detail." 😄

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/george-rekers-christian-right-leader-denies-gay-prostitution-allegation/

[Chien Andalou]

On 7/8/2024 at 1:13 PM, pubic_assistance said:

I think what you need to do is learn to accept that many people have different viewpoints than yourself.

Just because religion is "cringe" to you...plenty of others value it greatly.

The fact that you left a "bad review" because of YOUR narrow mindedness speaks to a need to re-evaluate your relationships with others.

There are plenty of ways to re-direct a conversation away from things you don't want to discuss.

 

Religion is not what I want shoved down my throat in an escort session. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

28 minutes ago, Chien Andalou said:

Religion is not what I want shoved down my throat in an escort session. 

But... Do you ever exclaim "Oh God!" when with an escort?   I do!

[+ SidewaysDM]

How could you enjoy a session where you are doing varied sexual activities with your provider and have them bring  up their Christian faith or conservative political views!  Not the time or the place! I would respectfully and firmly let them know to please change the subject, or I am leaving! Although my circle of family and friends is filled with evangelical, conservative Christians, I find that behavior rude, insensitive and disrespectful! Tell your provider to save their closed minded opinions for the next church potluck supper! 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

27 minutes ago, SidewaysDM said:

How could you enjoy a session where you are doing varied sexual activities with your provider and have them bring  up their Christian faith or conservative political views!

Quite easily! 

Sometimes we also discuss music, art, or science.

I mean, sometimes we gotta talk about something other than dick and ass, especially on a date.

Plus, it's refreshing to meet with a hot guy who's not spewing out the party nonsense and actually has a viewpoint of his own. 💕 

Edited 20 hours ago by Vegas_Millennial
Removed reference to liberal party, to not trigger the men who can dish criticism out but can't take it themselves

[jmichaeliii]

I make it a personal policy to avoid any controversial topics with an escort or masseur.  I have never run into an issue with a regular but it came close once when I hired a porn star.  Change the subject and move on.  Im not there to argue, I am there to have a great time.

[+ SidewaysDM]

This way of dealing with any controversial subject is certainly wiser and smarter, than mine. My anger and bitterness would only escalate an already uncomfortable situation. Thank you your reasonable and healthy response. 

22 minutes ago, jmichaeliii said:

I make it a personal policy to avoid any controversial topics with an escort or masseur.  I have never run into an issue with a regular but it came close once when I hired a porn star.  Change the subject and move on.  Im not there to argue, I am there to have a great time.

 

[pubic_assistance]

12 hours ago, SidewaysDM said:

My anger and bitterness would only escalate an already uncomfortable situation.

No one should ever be angry and bitter over the fact that people have different viewpoints from our own. Thats like getting angry because it rained today, and you expected sun.

As was stated above...if the conversation is not to one's liking, let them say their due and politely change the subject. Everyone doesnt NEED to agree with you! THAT distorted expectation is more of a problem, than the fact that people will & do have other opinions. Its not them, its YOU with the problem. Maybe get angry with yourself instead ?

Edited 8 hours ago by pubic_assistance
grammar

[Chien Andalou]

It’s not that their viewpoint is different–that’s what makes the world go round; it’s that they insist on spouting views that are morally repugnant. They don’t even have the decency to keep it to themselves. I do not support those businesses. I will never buy a Tesla, I have never eaten Chik-Fil-A, I cheered when Costco canceled its contract with The Pillow Guy. By that token, I don’t want my hard earned proudly libtard money going into some right wing nut job’s pocket, and I don’t want him using it to buy maga crap or tithe it to Joel fucking Osteen. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

1 hour ago, Chien Andalou said:

It’s not that their viewpoint is different–that’s what makes the world go round; it’s that they insist on spouting views that are morally repugnant. They don’t even have the decency to keep it to themselves. I do not support those businesses. I will never buy a Tesla, I have never eaten Chik-Fil-A, I cheered when Costco canceled its contract with The Pillow Guy. By that token, I don’t want my hard earned proudly libtard money going into some right wing nut job’s pocket, and I don’t want him using it to buy maga crap or tithe it to Joel fucking Osteen. 

Even though the subject is "too forward escorts", this is a great example of a "too forward client"

Edited 4 hours ago by Vegas_Millennial

[Chien Andalou]

3 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

Even though the subject is "too forward escorts", this is a great example of a "too forward client"

And THAT, sir, is a difference of opinion. 

[pubic_assistance]

5 hours ago, Chien Andalou said:

they insist on spouting views that are morally repugnant.

Which is what you just did.

Nothing more tiresome than someone who thinks HE has ownership of morality.