Tops with ass photos??🤔

[Sub boy]

Anyone else find it weird when providers list their position as “top” yet they have mostly ass pics and not a single dick pic? Are they sending a subliminal message? Are they really vers? Is it a fake profile? Maybe I’m reading too much into it but it seems so counterintuitive. Take this guy for example, literally the first pic on this “top’s” profile is an ass pic…

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Edited July 6, 2024 by Sub boy

[MikeBiDude]

Those kind of pics give me hope! 🤣

[Shawn Monroe]

I mean you could ask, but when I was on RM, having only nudes or dick pics gave implied permission for people to ask just for more pics or not set up appointments. 
 

Setting his ass as his main pic is like 10% weird, but he’s presenting himself as a full person and not just a dick 

[+ nycman]

I take them at their word, and just assume they’re not very savvy in the world of advertising.

Rule # 23: don’t put any items in the window that aren’t for sale. 

And yes, it’s frustrating. Because some tops have beautiful asses. 

[Sub boy]

16 hours ago, MikeBiDude said:

Those kind of pics give me hope! 🤣

Hahaha! Or false hope 😮‍💨

[+ Jamie21]

Sometimes people don’t want their face and dick in the same pic. Could be that. 

[Monarchy79]

A lot of tops have better butts…. 

[Luv2play]

16 hours ago, Sub boy said:

Anyone else find it weird when providers list their position as “top” yet they have mostly ass pics and not a single dick pic? Are they sending a subliminal message? Are they really vers? Maybe I’m reading too much into it but it seems so counterintuitive. Take this guy for example, literally the first pic on this “top’s” profile is an ass pic…

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You picked a poor example. That escort only has 1 review, calling him a total fraud and watch out. 

[Sub boy]

10 minutes ago, Luv2play said:

You picked a poor example. That escort only has 1 review, calling him a total fraud and watch out. 

I didn’t say I was considering hiring him. I’m very selective and I do careful vetting of the escorts I hire. I’d even agree that he’s probably a fraud, but that wasn’t the point of this topic. 

[Luv2play]

Just now, Sub boy said:

I didn’t say I was considering hiring him. I’m very selective and I do careful vetting of the escorts I hire. I’d even agree that he’s probably a fraud, but that wasn’t the point of this topic. 

The point you were making as I understood you is questioning why tops advertise showing pics of their butts primarily or most prominently. If the example you selected is a fraud then while we don’t know the reason, he may not be a top as advertised or used someone else’s pictures. Other reasons at also be at play. It would have been better to go with a better example. 
 

My experience in looking at the ads is that many tops don’t even show one ass shot and as a bottom, I would like to see it since I like a nice firm butt on the guy topping me. Something nice to hang onto. 😊

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

A 'all top' dude with 70%+ ass shots is doing himself a disservice, even when he's got a nice ass.

You wanna show people you have enough respect for your body proportion to have a regular legs day, but don't poison the water supply.

[The Dude]

1 hour ago, Luv2play said:

You picked a poor example. That escort only has 1 review, calling him a total fraud and watch out. 

He took down his ad 🙄

[Luv2play]

3 minutes ago, The Dude said:

He took down his ad 🙄

Why am I not surprised.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

8 minutes ago, The Dude said:

He took down his ad 🙄

As per usual, I'm sure someone here tipped him off he was being talked about.

[marylander1940]

18 hours ago, MikeBiDude said:

Those kind of pics give me hope! 🤣

For the right amount of Benjamins some might bend over

[marylander1940]

17 hours ago, nycman said:

I take them at their word, and just assume they’re not very savvy in the world of advertising.

Rule # 23: don’t put any items in the window that aren’t for sale. 

And yes, it’s frustrating. Because some tops have beautiful asses. 

I understand why you say that but they're simply showing what a beautiful muscular body they have .

If they have a nice dick I guess they  won the genetic Lottery! 

 

Edited July 6, 2024 by marylander1940

[Sub boy]

2 hours ago, Luv2play said:

The point you were making as I understood you is questioning why tops advertise showing pics of their butts primarily or most prominently. If the example you selected is a fraud then while we don’t know the reason, he may not be a top as advertised or used someone else’s pictures. Other reasons at also be at play. It would have been better to go with a better example. 
 

My experience in looking at the ads is that many tops don’t even show one ass shot and as a bottom, I would like to see it since I like a nice firm butt on the guy topping me. Something nice to hang onto. 😊

I guess these would be better examples

https://rent.men/Nick_TopMaster

https://rent.men/ChocolateHands

https://rent.men/Maykul

https://rent.men/BabyBearLA

https://rent.men/CuCa

And I get it, maybe one ass shot to show the total person or that they’ve got something to hang onto, but my point is I find it weird when they have multiple ass pics or only ass pics and advertising as “top”

[Sub boy]

1 hour ago, The Dude said:

He took down his ad 🙄

Aaaaaaand my suspicions were confirmed 😂

[BenjaminNYC]

I agree with you Sub boy.  The more ass pics featured the less I believe a guy is a total top....and for those of us looking for tops, it's very confusing. 

[Andy768]

15 minutes ago, Sub boy said:

I guess these would be better examples

https://rent.men/Nick_TopMaster

https://rent.men/ChocolateHands

https://rent.men/Maykul

https://rent.men/BabyBearLA

https://rent.men/CuCa

And I get it, maybe one ass shot to show the total person or that they’ve got something to hang onto, but my point is I find it weird when they have multiple ass pics or only ass pics and advertising as “top”

I don't think I ever would've thought there was an unusual number of ass pics in those profiles - maybe 2 or 3 of 20+? But interesting to know this perspective is out there for those who are into total tops.

[Sub boy]

18 hours ago, Shawn Monroe said:

I mean you could ask, but when I was on RM, having only nudes or dick pics gave implied permission for people to ask just for more pics or not set up appointments. 
 

Setting his ass as his main pic is like 10% weird, but he’s presenting himself as a full person and not just a dick 

Valid. But just as I have learned to be able to quickly sniff out fake providers, I’m sure you learned to quickly sniff out pic collectors and time wasters.

But regardless, I feel like a provider can present himself as a full person without any nudes at all. My point is the mixed messaging if a provider who lists “top” chooses to post nudes but they include mainly ass pics

[Sub boy]

4 minutes ago, Andy768 said:

I don't think I ever would've thought there was an unusual number of ass pics in those profiles - maybe 2 or 3 of 20+? But interesting to know this perspective is out there for those who are into total tops.

Well take the first profile Nick for example: Total top, 0 dick pics, 8 ass pics. The math just isn’t mathing.

And I’m not into total tops btw, I’m into guys who are good at topping (which often doesn’t include total tops in my experience, but that’s another discussion for a different topic). I’m just pointing out things that make me say “Hmm” 🤔 

[soloyo215]

Sorry, what were you saying?

 

Edited July 7, 2024 by soloyo215

[Sub boy]

21 hours ago, soloyo215 said:

Sorry, what were you saying?

 

Hahaha! Very captivating I know, but unfortunately it appeared to be a fraud

[Simon Suraci]

I’m top/versatile. I have only a few pics featuring my ass and I don’t post them to every profile, or they are in a private album. Those usually aren’t the first pics I send when a client inquires for more pics. It’s been a challenge at times getting something together for a top client to peruse when he asks. I probably lose a few top clients by not featuring my ass more prominently, but I often wonder how many more bottom clients I would lose by featuring more of my ass.

It’s a challenge appealing to tops and bottoms. Bottoms often want you to be a “total top”, and sometimes the opposite for tops, but it varies. The idea of topping a top can be exciting for some. Remember: sex is about power exchange.

This tension between appealing to a wide audience vs appeasing a narrow slice is one of the many reasons why sex workers sometimes list “ask me” in the position category. It’s why we display photos of one aspect of our bodies and not the other. Some of us are truly top only or bottom only, but most of us fall somewhere between those two, even if it’s a small percentage of one vs the other.

I can’t tell you how many clients identify as total tops but after seeing me they enjoy bottoming (at least for me). Labels are just labels. Sometimes life experience happens and what you thought was fixed isn’t anymore, and you’re better off because of it. Plenty of members here disagree with me on that point, and they will die on a hill over being only ever a top til death, amen. Fine. Agree to disagree. My experience tells me that the key to a fulfilling sex life is openness and a willingness to try different things with different people. 

This week in Dallas I did a photo shoot with my favorite photographer. Should be at least a few weeks away, but y’all can look forward to some more juicy pics on my ads soon, including more cock and more ass. Plus all the regular shots that play into my “brand” (if you want to call it that). Some say I’m a guy next door. Or guy next floor (in cities). Others say I’m a wholesome hooker. Hopefully we captured it. 🤞