Question on "ask me" or "anything goes" bottoms on RM

[Simon Suraci]

On 12/16/2023 at 8:26 AM, Roger Smith said:

With the general prevalence of breeding in gay culture these days, it didn’t occur to me it would be so hard to find in an escort!

Really? I’m surprised. Some top clients seek out providers specifically for that fantasy, and who better to fulfill it?

I’m down to get bred, never been a problem, as long as I have notice so I can prep. My strength is topping but I never shy away tops wanting to breed me. As long as they’re respectful and paying my escort rate, all good. It’s hot fulfilling client fantasies.

My best long term clients have been flip fuckers. They usually want to breed or get bred after several rounds of back and forth. Sometimes they want me to cum somewhere else (or for me to cum somewhere else on them). Most often they want to end the main part of their session by getting bred.

Any flip fuckers looking for this fantasy, see me. I’m good at it.

[Walt]

On 9/8/2023 at 7:10 PM, DWnyc said:

What does “ask me” even mean? Is it “I’m too embarrassed to say it here” or “if you don’t ask no one needs to know” or what? Just adds an extra layer of ambiguity - which some may find exciting - and some may do to maximize clients - but I think makes things more awkward. 

I totally agree that layer upon layer of "embarrassment," "ambiguity." and "awkwardness," reside for both the provider and client within the area of "ask me" -- but you simply MUST, MUST, MUST grit you teeth, push through it, and ask EXPLICIT questions to be sure the situation will be what you want it to be. It may be hard, but you can do it.

[DamizzonNYC]

On 9/11/2023 at 5:09 PM, dbar123 said:

If the bottom provider is doing outcall, they may not want to be dripping cum afterwards. I think the courteous thing to do is ask.

Are you kidding?  This is a badge of honor!  This is how you know it was a job well done.  💦🏆💦