New Orleans unsafe?

[FrancisCA]

Going to be traveling soon in October but then I got a text saying that New Orleans crime has gone way up over the years and they target tourist! They said to only host and never go to someone elses place.

Is this true?

[marylander1940]

17 hours ago, FrancisCA said:

Going to be traveling soon in October but then I got a text saying that New Orleans crime has gone way up over the years and they target tourist! They said to only host and never go to someone elses place.

Is this true?

As long as you stay in the French Quarter you'll be okay. 

NOPD stands for New Orleans Police department and also: "Not Our Problem Dude". Don't walk with your phone on your face like so many millennials, put it in your pocket occasionally, be aware of your surroundings, know where you're going, and watch your drink when you are at a bar. Common sense!

[Becket]

4 hours ago, arnemgreeves said:

i thought the South was pretty conservative. 

New Orleans is a world away from being a typical southern city. And yes, crime has gotten really bad there. Just use common sense, and be aware of your surroundings. It's a great city to walk in, but one can easily wander into a block or neighborhood where you really don't want to be. Most of the French Quarter remains full of tourists, so there is safety in numbers. The garden district is lovely, but is surrounded by really tough neighborhoods. Regardless, I'll be visiting NOLA until I die. Lordy I love that place!

[+ Mrprofessional]

You can safely walk up and down magazine street in the garden district for miles with tons of amazing shops and restaurants and Galleries. Esp during the day. But it’s hot as hell too right now probably until October 
 

French Quarter is fairly safe itself but if you stray just one block in the wrong direction after dark you could get mugged. Seriously. I know several locals who agree  

so after dark if you want to go to or from the French quarter just be sure to hire a cab. It’s doable. And totally worth visiting …. despite the caution needed. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

15 hours ago, FrancisCA said:

Going to be traveling soon in October but then I got a text saying that New Orleans crime has gone way up over the years and they target tourist! They said to only host and never go to someone elses place.

Is this true?

Best of luck in the Big Easy!  New Orleans needs more escorts, so you should be popular.  As a client, I haven't found any success stories finding outstanding escorts or masseurs on my few trips there.  If you can find an affordable place to stay and host in the French Quarter, that might be the best both for your business and for safety.

[marylander1940]

1 hour ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

Best of luck in the Big Easy!  New Orleans needs more escorts, so you should be popular.  As a client, I haven't found any success stories finding outstanding escorts or masseurs on my few trips there.  If you can find an affordable place to stay and host in the French Quarter, that might be the best both for your business and for safety.

@FrancisCA don't stay in the French Quarter, it's loud, most hotels with a few exceptions are houses converted into hotels with a weird layout, no privacy, noisy, no or little paid parking, at nigh you'll hear folks walk by drunk, cars, etc.! Even the W hotel has a huge courtyard with a pool and if you stay there EVERYONE will see guys walk in and out of your room because most rooms face the patio. 

Stay n Canal Street or no more than a couple of blocks away in the Downtown / Warehouse district right next to the Quarter where large anonymous hotels are.  I would recommend the Sheraton, great views of the river, no key card required except after 10 PM, the Marriott too, except the JW Marriott where you MUST meet folks at the street door. 

Enjoy the food, it's good for a few days but you'll see among the locals the consequences of eating so much fatty food daily. 

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[Jarrod_Uncut]

On 8/12/2023 at 3:10 PM, FrancisCA said:

Going to be traveling soon in October but then I got a text saying that New Orleans crime has gone way up over the years and they target tourist! They said to only host and never go to someone elses place.

Is this true?

I was actually just there couple months ago for about 4-5 days. First time I actually worked the city, since I last visited in 2010 for a day. I was surprised, I had a great time. The first 2 days I had friends present, the other 3 days I was on my own. I stayed in the quarter and parked, even walked to/from different venues. I think the scariest part of the city were the roads (drivers and giant craters covered with nothing but a cone) and a palmetto bug that flew towards us on the balcony on bourbon St. 

Crime has gone up in many major cities. Kansas City has issues , St. Louis has issues, Denver has issues. I was showing some friends around in Kansas City couple weeks ago, sirens were going off everywhere, people fighting in the street. Many of the big cities are having issues. That’s part of why I almost want to just stop working big markets all together, and stick with smaller (not small, but smaller) It’s just the traffic can be much lower. 
 

I think if you just watch your surroundings, don’t get too inebriated, have a 2nd wallet when going “out” (I never go partying with my full wallet, I have spares that usually have nothing but an ID and just enough cash/credit for the night).
 

I also don’t buy in-calls are any safer than outcalls. Hence why I ask for confirmation and screen in the first place because: most people with ill will, are more likely to come to you, versus you being able to track where they live (the Boston Craigslist killer is an example). Just have to get an idea about them ahead of time and anyone acting dodgy, keep it moving.

Edited August 15, 2023 by Jarrod_Uncut

[mike carey]

1 hour ago, arnemgreeves said:

Considering how religious and GOP-like the South is, and how they're being more openly anti-LGBT, it's surprising New Orleans has a more open scene. 

The South is not homogenous.

[CuriousByNature]

1 minute ago, arnemgreeves said:

yes, there are some more liberal pockets. but as an outsider, it seems pretty backward, religious and conservative overall. I'm sorry if this appears ignorant, but all humans are ignorant of something. we can't all pretend to be all-knowing and it's healthy to admit ignorance.

It seems to be almost the opposite here in Canada.  Up here I have found that much of the country is relatively liberal, but almost everywhere you can find small pockets of conservative and even ultra-conservative.  Except in my experience, Alberta is quite a bit more conservative generally speaking, and the liberal population there is much the way you have described the southern US - pockets here and there.   Though the city of Calgary is more of a liberal oasis.  I haven't travelled extensively through the southern US, but I have enjoyed New Orleans each time I have been.  And I never really felt unsafe, but then again, I don't go wandering about at night and I often stick to the more touristy areas.

[MikeBiDude]

On 8/12/2023 at 2:42 PM, marylander1940 said:

As long as you stay in the French Quarter you'll be okay. 

 

On 8/13/2023 at 5:44 AM, marylander1940 said:

FrancisCA don't stay in the French Quarter

I'm confused, which is it? 🤷🏻‍♂️

[marylander1940]

43 minutes ago, MikeBiDude said:

 

I'm confused, which is it? 🤷🏻‍♂️

I recommend escorts not to stay in the French quarter. Not to host clients there! 

It was a message to 

@FrancisCA

Edited August 16, 2023 by marylander1940

[marylander1940]

On 8/12/2023 at 5:42 PM, marylander1940 said:

As long as you stay in the French Quarter you'll be okay. 

NOPD stands for New Orleans Police department and also: "Not Our Problem Dude". Don't walk with your phone on your face like so many millennials, put it in your pocket occasionally, be aware of your surroundings, know where you're going, and watch your drink when you are at a bar. Common sense!

That was directed to tourists that as long as they stay as in remain/walk/tour  within the limits of the quarter they'll be okay.

[MikeBiDude]

35 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

I recommend escorts not to stay in the French quarter. Not to host clients there! 

It was a message to 

@FrancisCA

Got it👍🏻

There are a couple nicer hotels in the French Quarter...the Monteleone and Royal Sonesta come to mind. Your recommendation of the Sheraton on Canal Street is a good one...I've stayed there twice.

[robberbaron4u]

On 8/13/2023 at 4:11 AM, Mrprofessional said:

You can safely walk up and down magazine street in the garden district for miles with tons of amazing shops and restaurants and Galleries. Esp during the day. But it’s hot as hell too right now probably until October 
 

French Quarter is fairly safe itself but if you stray just one block in the wrong direction after dark you could get mugged. Seriously. I know several locals who agree  

so after dark if you want to go to or from the French quarter just be sure to hire a cab. It’s doable. And totally worth visiting …. despite the caution needed. 

Prudent advices. One block off the beaten path can end in "disaster". Sadly, there have been "incidents", that is murder and robbery, of tourists in or near well-known hotels, in the Quarter and Uptown, in recent years. Of course, the "French Quarter" is a prime tourist destination, but, oh, for the glory days of the "old" Pontchartrain Hotel on St. Charles when it was a "destination".. The escort "scene" is dismal in its offerings; you might want to consider an "import". 

[marylander1940]

20 minutes ago, MikeBiDude said:

Got it👍🏻

There are a couple nicer hotels in the French Quarter...the Monteleone and Royal Sonesta come to mind. Your recommendation of the Sheraton on Canal Street is a good one...I've stayed there twice.

Yes, the Monteleone is half a block from Canal Street and is possibly the biggest one in the quarter properly properly. The Marriott also is technically in the quarter itself but facing Canal Street.

Amazing food in the club lounge of the Sheraton! 

[+ The Big Guy]

3 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

Yes, the Monteleone is half a block from Canal Street and is possibly the biggest one in the quarter properly properly. The Marriott also is technically in the quarter itself but facing Canal Street.

Amazing food in the club lounge of the Sheraton! 

Yes a few more blocks on canal is the Windsor Court which to be is the nicest hotel with a traditional southern ambience. 

[NJF]

7 hours ago, arnemgreeves said:

Considering how religious and GOP-like the South is, and how they're being more openly anti-LGBT, it's surprising New Orleans has a more open scene. 

Houston is a large liberal city. Austin has a more small town feel and is more liberal. San Antonio and Dallas may be a little more conservative than Austin but are still not GOP leaning. So the conservative south is really the rural areas 

[+ The Big Guy]

Just now, NJF said:

Houston is a large liberal city. Austin has a more small town feel and is more liberal. San Antonio and Dallas may be a little more conservative than Austin but are still not GOP leaning. So the conservative south is really the rural areas 

Yes this is true of virtually every large us city.  

[pubic_assistance]

2 hours ago, The Big Guy said:

this is true of virtually every large us city.  

Avoiding politics....LARGE CITIES have more educated people. Educated people embrace new ideas.

Rural areas are generally populated by people who's educational needs are limited to trade school and the basics of math/science and social studies. TRADITION rules in rural America. There is absolutely nothing "wrong" with these people as long as your choices in life parallel the normative social structures that have existed for a couple centuries. If you want to branch out and be different. Stick to the big cities. There is no good/ bad here. It's just a matter of how you choose to live your life. It's actually nice you have choices.

[CuriousByNature]

5 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Avoiding politics....LARGE CITIES have more educated people. Educated people embrace new ideas.

Rural areas are generally populated by people who's educational needs are limited to trade school and the basics of math/science and social studies. TRADITION rules in rural America. There is absolutely nothing "wrong" with these people as long as your choices in life parallel the normative social structures that have existed for a couple centuries. If you want to branch out and be different. Stick to the big cities. There is no good/ bad here. It's just a matter of how you choose to live your life. It's actually nice you have choices.

I wonder if it also has to do with a lack of exposure to different cultures, identities and perspectives when living in rural places?  Cities are generally cosmopolitan and diverse, and even those folk who may not be as educated as others will still meet people every day from many walks of life if they are living in a city environment.   While there are certainly bigots and ignorant people in every city who may never change their views, becoming more familiar with those who are different than ourselves can facilitate greater respect for others.

[pubic_assistance]

7 hours ago, CuriousByNature said:

I wonder if it also has to do with a lack of exposure to different cultures, identities and perspectives when living in rural places.

I don't think that component is necessary  (although certainly helpful). Proper education is everything..

[Jarrod_Uncut]

On 8/16/2023 at 9:25 AM, mike carey said:

The South is not homogenous.

Right, similar to Miami/Wilton Manors in Florida. I won’t mention his name (politics) but RDS is making Florida look extremely conservative when in reality, there’s tons of liberal fluid people. If anything, Florida is one of the most liberal states in the country as a whole. But you have people living and moving there who see all that, and throw the 📖 at them. Even Miami and Fort Lauderdale area can be super conservative in pockets 🫤 

On 8/16/2023 at 7:47 AM, arnemgreeves said:

Considering how religious and GOP-like the South is, and how they're being more openly anti-LGBT, it's surprising New Orleans has a more open scene. 

New Orleans is an example of an enclave in a middle of conservatism

On 8/16/2023 at 9:35 AM, CuriousByNature said:

It seems to be almost the opposite here in Canada.  Up here I have found that much of the country is relatively liberal, but almost everywhere you can find small pockets of conservative and even ultra-conservative.  Except in my experience, Alberta is quite a bit more conservative generally speaking, and the liberal population there is much the way you have described the southern US - pockets here and there.   Though the city of Calgary is more of a liberal oasis.  I haven't travelled extensively through the southern US, but I have enjoyed New Orleans each time I have been.  And I never really felt unsafe, but then again, I don't go wandering about at night and I often stick to the more touristy areas.

I experienced that myself. Considering Alberta borders Montana which is a very conservative and repressed state…it’s not exactly surprising. 

On 8/16/2023 at 10:37 AM, marylander1940 said:

I recommend escorts not to stay in the French quarter. Not to host clients there! 

It was a message to 

@FrancisCA

Hmm, idk about that. I stayed in that area and seemed to be convenient for most. However, I did week nights. I think the issue would come if someone tried to go during the most busiest and rowdy nights of the year. I never been to decadence or Mardi Gras, however I can imagine local clients not wanting to go down there during those days. 

On 8/16/2023 at 5:40 PM, pubic_assistance said:

Avoiding politics....LARGE CITIES have more educated people. Educated people embrace new ideas.

Rural areas are generally populated by people who's educational needs are limited to trade school and the basics of math/science and social studies. TRADITION rules in rural America. There is absolutely nothing "wrong" with these people as long as your choices in life parallel the normative social structures that have existed for a couple centuries. If you want to branch out and be different. Stick to the big cities. There is no good/ bad here. It's just a matter of how you choose to live your life. It's actually nice you have choices.

Basically. On top of that: small towns are full of churches. My relatives live in rural area and I see it all the time. It’s all about church, work, and family values. So much so, that it rubs off on the gay community. No matter how much some tout equality and such.

Edited August 18, 2023 by Jarrod_Uncut

[MikeBiDude]

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