Do people regret escorting?

[marylander1940]

On 7/21/2023 at 9:30 AM, arnemgreeves said:

Yes, it's 1723 not 2023. OK. 

One can be sex positive and still note a stigma. Not everybody has to agree with a societal norm or trend, do they?

Unfortunately the stigma many times is associated with hypocrisy as we've seen in so many recent scandals.

Edited August 1, 2023 by marylander1940

[+ DrownedBoy]

12 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Any job where you are so exposed to the general public can be traumatizing. I don't even know how people work at McDonalds, when you are exposed to every psycho who walks in the door.

Yup. And don't forget abusive bosses - I'm sure we all had one of them.

[socurious]

On 8/1/2023 at 3:09 AM, Unicorn said:

 

This is disturbing. 

[+ Tygerscent]

On 7/10/2023 at 10:12 PM, socurious said:

It's the business traumatizing? I feel like it's not really for everyone...

I will agree: Escorting is definitely is suited for some better than others~ it’s a rigorous profession. You really have to be OK with having a very flexible schedule, potentially traveling, extensively, and dealing with all kinds of people on not only daily life terms but, the most intimate points of being. Most occupations have built-in boundaries when it comes to intimacy. Intimacy is so multifaceted and isn’t simply a physical consideration. So, it’s the stress of any demanding job, but in addition has the intimacy boundaries removed. Even more challenging in some ways because it’s an income earning position. you have to be very skilled at balancing intimacy in a way that’s healthy for Clients and oneself as a provider~   
  Becoming an Escort has been fulfilling for me~ I give all kinds of things back in meaningful ways to my clients and I’m continually challenged, learning, fascinated by the experiences shared~   
 I worked for a period of time with a corporation… That was traumatizing~  I will never subject myself to that type of abuse or self abasement again~   
 I also worked in the medical field, and that was not traumatizing~   
 i’ve been able to take all of my skills, education, knowledge, curiosities and put them into a single career, whereas prior to Escorting, I was utilizing only a small percentage of my skills~   
 I love my profession and career….  
 No regrets~ 

 

Edited August 4, 2023 by Tygerscent

[MscleLovr]

48 minutes ago, Tygerscent said:

You really have to be OK with having a very flexible schedule, potentially traveling, extensively, and dealing with all kinds of people on not only daily life terms but, the most intimate points of being.

This is very well put. Just my observation but I wonder if this is why some airline cabin crew can escort successfully - they have developed and, over time refined, the necessary set of skills. I’ve known 3 men who combined these jobs and were well regarded escorts. 

[+ Tygerscent]

34 minutes ago, MscleLovr said:

This is very well put. Just my observation but I wonder if this is why some airline cabin crew can escort successfully - they have developed and, over time refined, the necessary set of skills. I’ve known 3 men who combined these jobs and were well regarded escorts. 

There are both male and female courtesans with dynamic professional career backgrounds that include medicine, law, education, religion, corporate positions, newscasting, professional sports and more… 

[+ Tygerscent]

On 7/21/2023 at 6:50 AM, edinbrooklyn said:

I know many people who regret bartending and waiting tables. You encounter many more assholes for far less reward.

 

Is there any profession where there exists no individuals who regret having taken a position there~? 

[ICTJOCK]

I've been an escort on the side for almost 5 years.   I don't regret it in the least.   Originally got into it as a dare by friends and it keeps me very busy.   Most of the experiences have been positive,  although there are always surprises.   Definitely a part of life I wouldn't know and appreciate if I hadn't done it!

[manforme]

I have always shown respect to those I have been with. They are people, not just objects.