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15 minutes ago, SouthOfTheBorder said:

omg - still missing the entire point I see

I can’t spell it out for you doll

 nor, can I walk you back from the limb you’re out on 

as for the mods - I’m sure they tire of your incessant requests to censor.  these venues really aren’t for the thin-skinned 

but we digress, please stay on topic

Can I saw the figurative limb off proximal to trunk and distance from your insane stalking? Pass the chainsaw! 

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6 minutes ago, SouthOfTheBorder said:

insane stalkers get banned 

please stay on topic 

Escort suggestion for hot guy. I’m good.

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50 minutes ago, SouthOfTheBorder said:

these venues really aren’t for the thin-skinned 

This venue is absolutely for the thin-skinned. At least it has been post Hooboy. 

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7 minutes ago, Coolwave35 said:

This venue is absolutely for the thin-skinned

technically true - but they probably shouldn’t be here 

most of them spend way too time begging the mods to censor posts they don’t like  and issue warnings
totally bizarre that so many are wrapped up in their “reputations” and all the laundering & maintenance required  
and then they have multiple aliases that they think is somehow undercover 

nothing short of seriously delusional 

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42 minutes ago, jeezifonly said:

Mind-blowing sex, of any sort, is because of personal chemistry. Even if you’re together anonymously for a short bit, the thrill of finding that common human thread. 

 

And likely not because of one’s personal street-corner chemist, though chems is not implied in the thread, and chems may create levels of consciousness that create an illusion of profound connection. That said, the intensity may be in anonymous brief context for some, but for others the high grade of limerence of being “in love”, of strong attachment, may be the key to the experience often termed ‘mind blowing’.

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33 minutes ago, SirBillybob said:

And likely not because of one’s personal street-corner chemist, though chems is not implied in the thread, and chems may create levels of consciousness that create an illusion of profound connection. That said, the intensity may be in anonymous brief context for some, but for others the high grade of limerence of being “in love”, of strong attachment, may be the key to the experience often termed ‘mind blowing’.

Sorry - not CHEMS

Chemistry as in a “mysterious mutually pulling force” that you find shortly after meeting. 

see also: Guys and Dolls “I’ll Know”

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2 minutes ago, jeezifonly said:

Sorry - not CHEMS

Chemistry as in a “mysterious mutually pulling force” that you find shortly after meeting. 

see also: Guys and Dolls “I’ll Know”

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I'm not sure how anyone could conflate you mentioning personal chemistry with using drugs, unless they themselves were under the influence.

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1 hour ago, DynamicUno said:

I'm not sure how anyone could conflate you mentioning personal chemistry with using drugs, unless they themselves were under the influence.

I read you. If I had conflated the two I wouldn’t have clearly referenced their differential roles. We are now entering the territory of three different influences on subjective sexual experience: immediate limerence (‘personal chemistry’), longer-term attachment, and chemicals that may be used, with different results, as attempts to simulate nonCHEMS affective states.

As these relate differently to everyone, the OP would need to sort out possible relevance and, I would hope, step back from artificially induced affective states if they are prevailed upon. I don’t know the factors impeding satisfaction or the unknowns that would enhance satisfaction for him. My sense is that early limerence is serendipitous and cannot be simply prescribed. 

Not being simplistic or reductionist, If I were interviewing somebody posing the questions as put by the OP, I would explore the confluence of behaviour, affect, physical sensation, imagery (eg, internalized fantasy), interpersonal dynamics, cognition, and drug/medical contextual factors.

That said, this is not the place to resolve the OP’s dilemma. As a few contributors have wisely pointed out, his fix request appears to be in the external locus of control realm, eg, the right partner. How could anybody know an actual provider dovetailing perfectly with a request as abstract as that presented? And perhaps since followed by a substantial array of Grindr hook-ups.

If I had elaborated previously as opposed to currently explaining a possible misinterpretation, this board would be the place where finger-pointing regarding post length and complexity may have occurred. 😉

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On 6/21/2023 at 9:11 AM, DynamicUno said:

I do wish @lseactuary90 would participate more effectively in this disussion.  So far he's provided no information that would allow anyone to help him.  He wants his mind blown but has given no insights to his interests.  This is probably why he is bored and unsatisfied with his hookups, he's basically lying back and expecting someone else to do the work.

This is not true. As a top, the experience can range from anything from an anon hookup (which I don't expect any feeling from), to passionate 'love making'. The issue is, in the moment, its okay, but I'm alos not ever seeing the guy again. Nothing is 'clicking' beyond that time spent together. This is what I'm trying to feel. I want to feel like I want to even call them back. So, if there are small changes I can make on my end, to help trigger such an emotion, this is what I'm trying to learn. 

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On 6/18/2023 at 8:06 AM, lseactuary90 said:

I am "conventially gay hot guy" and am really bored of my Grindr encounters. I can't remember the last time I had a mindblowing sexual encounter. I am a top. 

Looking for escort suggestions (in NY) of someone who can really blow my mind and even teach me a thing or two to have better sexual experiences in general with guy I hookup with. 

I'm not precious on attributes, but I'm a tall muscled guy (6'1, 215lb), so please suggest accordingly. 

I find that the best sex comes from guys older and wiser than myself.

As a hot top looking for new things, try meeting and talking with an older retired gentlemen at a bar, then offer to take him home and fuck his brains out.  Keep trying different positions until you get him to come.  You'll learn more about your own body as well.

And, the best tops are those who have bottomed.  If you haven't bottomed a few times yet, take a few up the ass to learn what feels good/tolerable, and what is just painful.

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8 minutes ago, Michael PhD said:

Shocker… escorts have sex lives outside of their work. Not sure what the point is in this post. No need to kiss and tell. 

It was a recommendation to which I have already tried. Wasn't showing off. 

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2 minutes ago, lseactuary90 said:

It was a recommendation to which I have already tried. Wasn't showing off. 

I didn’t think that. Don’t worry. Don’t think anyone is giving you props for your “conquests”. Would encourage you to shut your loose lips and recognize that these people also have real lives and somethings are better left unsaid. 

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5 hours ago, lseactuary90 said:

I've fucked him via Sniffies before (for free) too.

there’s a thing among some, thinking they’re  getting something for “free” - sometimes it’s a provider and sometimes it’s grindr hookup

 they don’t really seem to grasp that they pay in other ways: time, attention, dinners, etc   Nothing is free

it’s like they have to specifically signal they don’t have to pay - for whatever reason 

isn’t it just easier to skip the self-inflicted mindfuck and come to terms w paid sex ?
it’s relevant because the “free” comment is ALWAYS in relation to paid 

 

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