GovernorD Posted January 22 Posted January 22 I was looking into Kai. Read this entire thread and left a bad taste in my mouth. And I’m done. He is a pass for me. Thank goodness for this forum! marylander1940 1
Cretus Posted January 22 Posted January 22 (edited) 15 hours ago, GovernorD said: I was looking into Kai. Read this entire thread and left a bad taste in my mouth. And I’m done. He is a pass for me. Thank goodness for this forum! Thanks for this contribution and welcome to the forum, GovernorD 😊. Others in the thread say the site is great too, and I agree ❤️. Edited January 23 by Cretus GovernorD 1
LookingAround Posted January 23 Posted January 23 (edited) As I've said I have met Kai and found him generally fine. One point in general I'd like to make. I've hired "board darlings" who seemed to be extolled here who I had terrible experiences with and I've hired others who weren't liked by some posters who I had a terrific time with. So I encourage you not to "blacklist" someone just by some posts here. Keep an open mind. Edited January 23 by LookingAround Walt, r_curious, bobsboy51 and 7 others 1 8 1
Andy2 Posted January 23 Posted January 23 FWIW, I had looked at Kai's RM ad, and he contacted me. I thought he was attractive, and his RM reviews are excellent. We had a brief and completely normal and civil exchange on RM messages. I felt Kai was honest but that our preferences were not a match. He respectfully accepted the verdict, and we both moved on. I have no opinion (informed or otherwise) whether Kai is on the spectrum. I certainly have friends who are and, frankly, would not consider that per se disqualifying. Also, FWIW, I consider Pubic Assistance one of the most informative, intelligent, and (brutally) honest posters on this website. BaronArtz, marylander1940, pubic_assistance and 2 others 1 1 2 1
Guest Posted January 23 Posted January 23 37 minutes ago, Andy2 said: Also, FWIW, I consider Pubic Assistance one of the most informative, intelligent, and (brutally) honest posters on this website. Don’t forget mysteriously handsome and sexy.
Thelatin Posted January 23 Posted January 23 You should be afraid of Kai - only if you’re afraid of a good time. I spent time with him a year back. I would repeat the experience. If we were all the same - wouldn’t life be boring. pleasureseeker and r_curious 1 1
Dicastri Posted January 23 Posted January 23 I did travel to NY for NYE sometime ago and wanted to meet up with him but ended up not being able due to something on my part. Still, I had a good conversation with him and he seemed pretty chill and inviting. Maybe I’ll get to meet him on my next trip and give a perspective.
GovernorD Posted January 24 Posted January 24 14 hours ago, DavidNY said: I absolutely trust this website, although I think all reviews should be run through your own judgement. TBH, I think it’s usually pretty obvious when someone has an agenda other than sharing an actual review (both providers and clients). Based on the reviews here (even the good experiences) I can tell Kai would not be a good provider for me. Might be perfect, or at least acceptable, for someone else though. Thank you everyone for your contributions that are actually helpful. And for the record, I have exactly 3 x as many positive reviews than negative ones (just counted them up). The provider whose name I supposedly “dragged through the mud” admittedly stole money and threatened me. Exposing him on here got me an apology and compensation, as well as protected future victims and I think made him more honest going forward. I’ve learned to check out every provider in advance on here having either been scammed or had a less than worthwhile experience a few times. I’ve also figured out about a dozen contributors whose opinion I really trust, and a few I absolutely don’t. Good luck, Kai! (If you’re reading this). Just be honest about yourself and take the clients who want the service that you offer, personality and all, and you will do fine. That’s right! Good for you! That’s how you put them in their place. Yes, it’s unethical to put blanket statements on all RMs. But we all know that it is a matter of fact that not all RMs are professionals. There are too many hoodlums on the RM site who disguise as professional providers and as a result they not only destroy their own reputation but also sabotage everyone else in the space. Those who are poisoning this field should be identified and held accountable for their hoodlum acts. And yes, it should be up to each individual to make their own judgement because all of our standards are NOT monotonous. Either way, accountability is key here.
Dicastri Posted March 12 Posted March 12 On 1/23/2025 at 12:57 PM, Dicastri said: I did travel to NY for NYE sometime ago and wanted to meet up with him but ended up not being able due to something on my part. Still, I had a good conversation with him and he seemed pretty chill and inviting. Maybe I’ll get to meet him on my next trip and give a perspective. Finally got to meet him. Very sexy in person. Like folks said on here, definitely a bit awkward at times lol 😂 , but has some sense of humor and is generally chill. Forgot to test his mastery of Italian, but he is into languages generally. Was verse and gave me a hands-free orgasm using his dick. Great kisser too. Body is muscular, and getting fucked by him and staring into his eyes in missionary was dreamy. Pretty good experience overall. + WstVlgChris, Saabster, CADreamer and 6 others 4 2 1 2
untapupkeepdraw Posted April 13 Posted April 13 I met Kai recently, and it was an incredible experience. He is my fourth provider and by-far the best. He is an empath. And in my eyes, that is partly why he is special. Originally I hired him for an hour. I was having a dreadful day, and I immediately opened up emotionally to him. It was a bit embarrassing, but it was also something I needed; and I must say - he was emotionally equipped to handle it. I extended the session for an “overnight” and all we did was chat - and it was amazing. And honestly, during the conversation I realized much about myself that I never even considered. The session was so important to me, that 48 hrs later I hired him to join me in another city for a weekend. It was a very special time, and I will always remember it. I spent a lot of money. But the conversations alone are worth it. I deal with bright and rich people, but they do not have souls. Kai is pretty special. CADreamer, pubic_assistance, r_curious and 3 others 1 5
MJB Posted June 26 Posted June 26 I just spent an hour with Kai - and he was fantastic. Sexy as hell - just like his pictures. He was a direct communicator - and quite caring. I read the reviews and almost did not hire him - and boy I am glad I did not take heed. I am looking forward to seeing him again - hopefully soon.(Note - I just signed into the forum as I wanted to provide my experience with one of the best escorts I have ever been with.) pubic_assistance and Walt 1 1
pubic_assistance Posted June 27 Posted June 27 19 hours ago, MJB said: I just signed into the forum as I wanted to provide my experience with one of the best escorts I have ever been with. What a coincidence. 🤣 It's always the people who "just signed up" who are quick to refute significant amounts of information surrounding the providers with bad reputations. Walt, + azdr0710, BuzzLiteQueer and 3 others 1 4 1
Dicastri Posted June 27 Posted June 27 (edited) 22 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said: What a coincidence. 🤣 It's always the people who "just signed up" who are quick to refute significant amounts of information surrounding the providers with bad reputations. I wouldn’t say Kai has a “bad reputation”, as his reviews here seem mostly good + RM reviews are stellar. Critical points here seem to be regarding his possible neurodivergence, which isn’t a bad thing. However, when an unknown individual seems to sign up and under 10 minutes later, posts a laudatory review of someone, it does raise eyebrows. I honestly think that if @MJBis not Kai, he’s doing Kai a disservice unfortunately. The novelty of your account will naturally arouse suspicion about whether you are Kai and trying to inflate your public image. The best way to engage in good PR (if you choose to engage at all, which may not necessarily be good) is to sign up as yourself and interact publicly with the members on here as Kai. Many providers have done that before/ dispelled negative rumors about themselves/etc. Edited June 27 by Dicastri Walt, Hen, BuzzLiteQueer and 1 other 3 1
LookingAround Posted June 27 Posted June 27 2 hours ago, pubic_assistance said: What a coincidence. 🤣 It's always the people who "just signed up" who are quick to refute significant amounts of information surrounding the providers with bad reputations. I echo that I wouldn't say Kai has a "bad reputation" but maybe mixed opinions. I had a good session which I commented on in this thread. pubic_assistance and Dicastri 1 1
pubic_assistance Posted June 27 Posted June 27 27 minutes ago, LookingAround said: I echo that I wouldn't say Kai has a "bad reputation" but maybe mixed opinions. I had a good session which I commented on in this thread. I concur with that analysis about Kai. My "bad reputation" comment was more geared toward the issue in general where people suddenly pop in to comment on a thread where SOME (& sometimes all) the contributors had a negative experience. In this case the mood swings, bad temper, and awkward communications style are definitely red flags for some people to be cautious when considering taking the plunge. He's an attractive fellow. I personally wish the comments supported a more consistently pleasant experience. BuzzLiteQueer, marylander1940 and Walt 3
MJB Posted June 28 Posted June 28 Take it for what it is worth - Kia is great . Note - you need to start as a new commentator some time - and responding to a negative review is a good motivator. pubic_assistance 1
Venite Posted June 28 Posted June 28 (edited) 7 minutes ago, MJB said: Take it for what it is worth - Kia is great . Note - you need to start as a new commentator some time - and responding to a negative review is a good motivator. Lol with this particular language I’m going to guess with high confidence that you’re Kai 😂. There’s nothing wrong with that either lol thank you for joining. Indeed, responding to a negative review is good motivation to come here. You may also want to tell us more about you, your interests, etc. You have a very hot ad, good reviews generally, and I’ve seen the private pics before 🔥. Edited June 28 by Venite Walt 1
pubic_assistance Posted June 28 Posted June 28 7 hours ago, MJB said: Kia is great "Kia"...good misdirect, Kai. Pretend you cant spell your own name. Our respect for you would be higher if you'd come here honestly instead of pretending to be someone else and failing miserably at the deception. BuzzLiteQueer and Walt 1 1
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