CuriousByNature Posted January 17, 2023 Share Posted January 17, 2023 Hi everyone, There seems to be an understandable focus on which providers are the handsomest, sexiest, have the biggest endowment, are the best kissers, etc., but I am wondering who you would list as having the kindest character? I don't mean just politeness and professionalism, but true kindness - a warm and giving heart and a genuine interest in those around them. Maybe even self-effacing and unaware of how incredible they may happen to be? Perhaps it is too difficult to accurately gauge true kindness given the transactional nature of provider/client interactions, but if there are providers who stand out for you as being particularly kind, which ones are they? I have never met with anyone, but I know that nothing is more attractive to me than someone who puts others first and and does not consider themselves better than anyone else - regardless of how hot they may be. novaman, CastaDiva and raife 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ bashful Posted January 18, 2023 Share Posted January 18, 2023 Those with whom I've felt genuine kindness (in order of hires): Erik (Budapest), Alec Andrews, Lucas Young, Max (masseur, fka Maximus), Tristan Baldwin, Victor Powers. jbsjbs99, mike carey and CuriousByNature 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted January 18, 2023 Share Posted January 18, 2023 Beware of asking this question. I had a regular that I considered one of the "kindest" people I knew. Then he started on drugs. Remember - it's all an act. Both providers and client are just acting. raife, DWnyc, GeoMitch and 8 others 8 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeezifonly Posted January 18, 2023 Share Posted January 18, 2023 (edited) Edited January 18, 2023 by jeezifonly + m_writer, + KensingtonHomo, + augustus and 6 others 5 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ robear Posted January 18, 2023 Share Posted January 18, 2023 Allen Silver CuriousByNature 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Summerson Posted January 18, 2023 Share Posted January 18, 2023 NateSF YourHunk (Nate from Long Beach) CuriousByNature, + m_writer and nate_sf 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jbsjbs99 Posted January 18, 2023 Share Posted January 18, 2023 7 hours ago, bashful said: Those with whom I've felt genuine kindness (in order of hires): Erik (Budapest), Alec Andrews, Lucas Young, Max (masseur, fka Maximus), Tristan Baldwin, Victor Powers. I second the vote for Tristan Baldwin as being kind. + keroscenefire, Brock O, + bashful and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GLEE Posted January 18, 2023 Share Posted January 18, 2023 Peter Hung jgoo and CuriousByNature 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChasingGirth Posted January 18, 2023 Share Posted January 18, 2023 Such a great thread. I have been lucky and most guys were very kind, between few jerks 😂 dbar123, peter831, CuriousByNature and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChasingGirth Posted January 18, 2023 Share Posted January 18, 2023 10 hours ago, DrownedBoy said: Beware of asking this question. I had a regular that I considered one of the "kindest" people I knew. Then he started on drugs. Remember - it's all an act. Both providers and client are just acting. Sad to hear, him being addicted or on drugs doesn’t take back the time he was kind to you. I think we are not stupid here, guys are nice because we pay them. But not all are nice and kind. And you can feel when a guy is giving you more than his time. Are they kind because they want to get hired again? Maybe but who cares because what matter is the time we spend with them and if they are kind, we’re having a good time. Walt, traveling, CuriousByNature and 4 others 4 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sincitymix Posted January 19, 2023 Share Posted January 19, 2023 I have never met these 2 escorts, though I dearly want to, but based on various communication via on the message boards and other topics, i have found that Peter Hung and Tristan Baldwin come across as genuinely nice and kind and not in a "I'm only kind because you are paying me" way. raife, GLEE, + bashful and 1 other 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
InterestingGuy Posted January 19, 2023 Share Posted January 19, 2023 My votes for kindest go to: Tristan Baldwin Victor Powers Mike Gaite Rhet Butler TorontoDrew, + bashful and + Summerson 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Summerson Posted January 19, 2023 Share Posted January 19, 2023 Oh yes, Mike Gaite would definitely be on my list too! Walt, + keroscenefire and TorontoDrew 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Coolwave35 Posted January 19, 2023 Share Posted January 19, 2023 Verslildevil + keroscenefire and + Summerson 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andy2 Posted January 19, 2023 Share Posted January 19, 2023 I came late to this thread so I am not the first to give a kindness prize to Tristan Baldwin Peter Hung Mike Gaite But I'd also give a shout-out to A.J. Irons, Dave of SF, Ryan Chambers, Brian Strowkes, Kiddo (NYC) + bashful, cruiserdude1234 and + Summerson 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CuriousByNature Posted January 20, 2023 Author Share Posted January 20, 2023 28 minutes ago, arnemgreeves said: It’s escorting and not a charity Nobody said anything about charity. I'm not sure how you read that into the posts. JourneysEnd, coriolis888, + keroscenefire and 9 others 3 2 3 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mike carey Posted January 20, 2023 Share Posted January 20, 2023 59 minutes ago, arnemgreeves said: It’s escorting and not a charity That's beside the point. Valuing an escort's kindness is reasonable and could be a criterion for choosing one. Whether it's an innate trait or something they have mastered to further their business, and you can never be sure which it is, there are some, several of whom have been named here, who from my experience are more likely than not to be genuinely kind. TorontoDrew, + DrownedBoy, GeoMitch and 10 others 4 2 2 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Cash4Trash Posted January 20, 2023 Share Posted January 20, 2023 (edited) Mick, now retired, here in NY was exceedingly kind to me. Helped me explore my troubled past and brought things to the surface I had repressed for years. My life is much happier today than it would have been otherwise. Literally was the first person I have ever trusted. Oh, and I did call him for help furnishing my new apartment but that's a different thread...😀 Edited January 20, 2023 by Cash4Trash GeoMitch, spidir and CuriousByNature 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CuriousByNature Posted January 20, 2023 Author Share Posted January 20, 2023 1 hour ago, arnemgreeves said: Charity is a form of kindness, isn't it? or a manifestation of such. I suggest you put your verboseness as you boast to the actual test. tbh, this question is a bit baseless and off. An escort is doing his job - to give sexual services for money. He doesn't need to be overly kind. Kindness is just basic civility and respect and attention, and that's it. I'm not sure why it matters if they are overly kind or not. An escort is just a loose acquaintance, and not a friend or family member. "I suggest you put your verboseness as you boast to the actual test." I don't really understand what you are saying here. "Kindness is just basic civility and respect and attention, and that's it." I would say that this more accurately describes 'politeness', and I have found there is a significant difference between being polite and being kind - though the two are not mutually exclusive. "An escort is just a loose acquaintance, and not a friend or family member." To me, kindness is something we should try to show everyone we encounter, whether or not that person is a friend or family member. And it is nice when that same kindness is also returned - though it is never guaranteed even from friends and family members - lol. Our conversation here seems to reinforce the fact that everyone has their own priorities when it comes to relationships - even those relationships that may be more transactional in nature. It's always good to hear others' points of view, in my opinion. Jamie21, jgoo, Walt and 5 others 1 1 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Trebor Posted January 20, 2023 Share Posted January 20, 2023 In a world where you can be anything, BE KIND🙂 + Summerson, traveling, raife and 9 others 5 2 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ keroscenefire Posted January 20, 2023 Share Posted January 20, 2023 Mike Gaite, Gianni Legno, Sir Dion X, Sherman Maus, Kevin Slater, Jean Ali, Lucas Frenchy and Matt Anthony are the few that come to mind. They are all warm and welcoming and make you feel comfortable and special. Wanderoz, Marc in Calif, + Summerson and 3 others 3 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ KensingtonHomo Posted January 21, 2023 Share Posted January 21, 2023 In my experience, these are among the kindest guys. I would also say that this feels correlated to whether or not the providers seem to enjoy their work. E.g. they really like people, they really enjoy sex, and they tend to have a lot of varied interests. For me, those include: Jonah Wheeler Dominus Mike Gaite NY Wolfman MrSensual on RentMasseur CuriousByNature 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FreeRhythm Posted January 21, 2023 Share Posted January 21, 2023 I would say that the three I would rank at the top of my experiences, with respect to kindness: Sean Xavier Dominus Marklbrt I've definitely had some sexy hires who were perfectly pleasant, but these are three that really showed kindness (especially Sean Xavier). We all know that escorts are being paid for their services, just like any other person in a service, hospitality, restaurant, etc. industry. Still, just like with waiters or hotel clerks, you know when someone is being as polite as is absolutely required vs. bringing actual kindness to their work. Kindness (even professional) makes a difference. Cruiser7, CuriousByNature, + KensingtonHomo and 2 others 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LostUpstate Posted January 21, 2023 Share Posted January 21, 2023 I don’t hire a lot, but I’ve had my share. I think the nicest one I hired was Guy Mitchells, very personable among his other attributes. Sadly retired and I think he moved out of New York, I think he started a new life in Florida. CuriousByNature 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TorontoDrew Posted January 21, 2023 Share Posted January 21, 2023 My favorite, Trev, the much much discussed Canadian body builder is a teddy bear. He's so sweet and kind. I also agree on Mike Gaite. I only met him once but he's a great guy. CuriousByNature and + Summerson 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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