Kindness can never be overrated - who is the kindest?

[+ glutes]

On 1/21/2023 at 9:24 AM, arnemgreeves said:

They want money. They have little incentive to be hostile or negative, just like in any other business. 

Here's CB profile / name that says it all:

https://chaturbate.com/money_drainer/

(And he's kind)

Edited January 23, 2023 by glutes

[TJMS]

Gentlemen,

We are here for the same reason: to gather intelligence on providers so we can make reasonable decisions on which escorts to choose. We all have our own preferences. Par example, some of us may desire an ardent kisser, others may not really care about that aspect. So let us share what we know without making comments about each other that we may come to regret. I have not always done so  but will strive to do so. Cheers!

 

 

[+ purplekow]

On 1/22/2023 at 8:53 AM, arnemgreeves said:

I’m stating a fact. An escort isn’t a friend. 

Since when does kindness require friendship?   I have hired about 8 of the men listed above.  While kindness is not the first adjective I would use, they all have a gentle demeanor, open heart and a respectful nature.  Others I have hired did not.  

Actually, your demeanor on the board does seem unkind.  As a result, if you were an escort, I would not be tempted.  By the way, while all escorts are not your friend is a fact, the statement an escort is not a friend is an opinion and would only need one exception to not be a fact.  As I had a friend who I later found out was an escort, when I hired him unseen from a agency years ago, I believe your assertion should be reconsidered or at least not quite so dogmatic.   

Edited May 9, 2023 by purplekow

[FunGuyUS]

The absolute kindest for me is 

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[BaronArtz]

I feel the opposite is even more important - the kindness of clients towards escorts.

Escorts, and even more so, cam models, are often viewed as objects and subject to abusive and rude behavior.  

Being kind (and tipping well) goes a long way towards a more satisfying experience.  The guys seem happy to see me and eager to schedule repeat appointments.  It seems like 'the obvious thing to do' but the reality of it all is different.

[Trick]

On 1/18/2023 at 7:13 PM, sincitymix said:

I have never met these 2 escorts, though I dearly want to, but based on various communication via on the message boards and other topics, i have found that Peter Hung and Tristan Baldwin come across as genuinely nice and kind and not in a "I'm only kind because you are paying me" way.

 

 

We’re on the same boat.  I’ve communicated with both of them but never had the chance to meet.  They have been nothing but nice in their communications with me.

[Trick]

On 1/20/2023 at 3:26 PM, keroscenefire said:

Mike Gaite, Gianni Legno, Sir Dion X, Sherman Maus, Kevin Slater, Jean Ali, Lucas Frenchy and Matt Anthony are the few that come to mind.  They are all warm and welcoming and make you feel comfortable and special. 

I agree, Gianni Legno is endowed…with kindness. 😉

[Trick]

Everyday we meet people who are doing their jobs - store associates, waitstaff, baristas, flight attendants, etc. But somehow, with some of them, their innate kindness shines through.  The same goes for the providers we hire, from their first text response to the sweet hug or a peck on the cheek just before you leave their place.

[MmM]

I like this topic. After a while of hiring beautiful men, you appreciate interpersonal connection. A dick is just a dick. The connection is what makes them special and memorable. 

[Jackrabbitslim]

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[30somethingsexybear]

7 hours ago, Jackrabbitslim said:

Jacob Durham, Bobby Biceps, Ryan Thick, DTX Jock, and San Diego Dream Boy

how IS Bobby Biceps doing? I don't see his ad on RM anymore, he too busy with his OF these days?

[kingsley88]

I thought most I've met were kind but the ones that stand out to me are MikeGaite, WillTantra AnthonyChelsea. 

[Go-dev]

I think Joel Someone was very nice and kind

[+ DrownedBoy]

11 hours ago, 30somethingsexybear said:

how IS Bobby Biceps doing? I don't see his ad on RM anymore, he too busy with his OF these days?

Hopefully he's still active. One of the kindest, I agree.

[Whatsupandstuff]

46 minutes ago, DrownedBoy said:

Hopefully he's still active. One of the kindest, I agree.

I have tried to connect. 

[big-n-tall]

13 hours ago, 30somethingsexybear said:

how IS Bobby Biceps doing? I don't see his ad on RM anymore, he too busy with his OF these days?

It's still there.

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[Cliff]

I’d say Kiddo is the kindest. 

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[BodeBrentwood]

I'd love to add @nate_sf to the mix, he was incredibly kind to me as a fellow provider and offered some great personal and business advice as well just be a friendly soul to talk to.

[Guest]

On 1/18/2023 at 7:28 AM, Summerson said:

NateSF

YourHunk (Nate from Long Beach)

Is Nate from Long Bech still advertising as being in his 40s? Amazing if he still looks good, but he's in his mid 60s. 

[CuriousByNature]

5 hours ago, Unicorn said:

Is Nate from Long Bech still advertising as being in his 40s? Amazing if he still looks good, but he's in his mid 60s. 

YourHunk is in his 60s? That is a lot of age shaving... some of the photos are pretty grainy unfortunately.

[Guest]

3 hours ago, CuriousByNature said:

... some of the photos are pretty grainy unfortunately.

That's because they're daguerreotypes. 

[pubic_assistance]

On 5/13/2023 at 5:00 AM, Cliff said:

I’d say Kiddo is the kindest. 

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I have never met Kiddo...but I have observed that the guy has CONSISTENTLY received rave reviews from a wide variety of gentlemen. So there is definitely a big degree of either professionalism or a professionalism borne of kindness. A combination that needs to be noted as a counter argument to the pessimism that was introduced to this conversation thread. NOT everything is about money. Certainly some providers are genuinely good people with a strong conviction of empathy toward lonely gentlemen who are reaching out for companionship, even if its for an hour or two.

[Cliff]

14 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

I have never met Kiddo...but I have observed that the guy has CONSISTENTLY received rave reviews from a wide variety of gentlemen. So there is definitely a big degree of either professionalism or a professionalism borne of kindness. A combination that needs to be noted as a counter argument to the pessimism that was introduced to this conversation thread. NOT everything is about money. Certainly some providers are genuinely good people with a strong conviction of empathy toward lonely gentlemen who are reaching out for companionship, even if its for an hour or two.

Agree. Kiddo is one of those professionals who may not have the biggest biceps but he is genuinely engaged, kind and thoughtful, fun, and provides an overall positive experience that makes your whole day feel good. It never feels transactional; it only feels…fantastical. ha ha Sorry for that silliness. 😉

[NewYorkDIT]

On 5/12/2023 at 9:37 AM, kingsley88 said:

I thought most I've met were kind but the ones that stand out to me are MikeGaite, WillTantra AnthonyChelsea. 

Kingsley88. I recently met AnthonyChelsea and I couldn’t agree more!  Very sexy, very attentive and genuinely nice.  I will be seeing him again!