Just a little turn off .. has any other provider felt?

[Alexphilly]

Hi I haven't been posting for a while, but anyway . I've noticed I get turned off from time to time when would ask me do I have a extra friend it makes me think one provider is not enough for the client especially when they ask this during the session. It really takes time to find a extra provider . I have worked other providers in the past but I feel like I can be myself working alone . I've had situations where the client didn't like the other provider  ("friend" )maybe because he wasn't his type or ?? Either way I had to tell the provider that the client isn't interested and you have to go home .. Another instance was when I hooked a client up with a provider which he was a cool guy we would often work together with the client a few times . So I showed up to the clients home and started the session he then asked me to call my friend over .  The provider told me that him and the client had some kinda fallout drama and he's not coming (not sure was it a payment issue.. because every providers rate is different) . Either way I just don't like to be caught between the mess . I just like to work alone  It's less hassle for me .

 

Edited February 20, 2022 by Alexphilly

[xyz48B]

Probably just say “no” to threesomes plus…Save yourself the headache. It’s not something you offer. You don’t have to provide everything; in fact, it’s better to be up front about it for most clients instead of presenting yourself as offering something you’d rather not. I always ask new guys if they’ll enjoy what I’m looking for, and if they seem hesitant I just tell them it isn’t going to work out. I’ve learned it’s bettet to be direct up front that both of us being awkward. 

[+ poolboy48220]

asking in the middle of a session seems a bit odd. Maybe it's just my over-planning tendencies kicking in 🙂

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

The more escorts involved, the harder is it to control the situation.

I book longer term with the guys I see, meaning, it's not just about the sex, but about the overall experience.  When I agree to invite others into the box, it brings a risk into the meet that I'm not always wanting to take.

Bottom line, I know exactly what I offer and why I'm good at what I do.  Bringing in a wildcard can be fun, but it's also something that can ruin an already good thing.

[Jamie21]

Agree it’s too risky / complicated to schedule when other escorts or masseurs are included. I only work with guys I’m familiar with. 

If a client asks me to join a session with an unknown escort or masseur then I say no. 

[Alexphilly]

Yes I've even gotten into a situation where the other escort thought the client was paying me more than him sheesh I think this occured a few times ughhh .

[rvwnsd]

On 2/20/2022 at 1:49 PM, Alexphilly said:

...I've noticed I get turned off from time to time when would ask me do I have a extra friend it makes me think one provider is not enough for the client especially when they ask this during the session...

 

As a client, I've thought about hiring two escorts for a threesome, not because the one escort is inadequate but because threesomes can be a lot of fun. However, I wouldn't mention it during a session for the very reason you mentioned - doing so can make the escort feel inadequate! I also wouldn't expect the escort to coordinate, unless he had other escorts with whom he did threesomes. Even then, I'd still make the arrangements unless the escort wanted to do so.

 

[Teig512]

Sometimes, I like to watch two hot guys getting it on. For those times I feel like being a voyeur. I have had good success finding escorts who are OK with that. I often have someone set this up for me. Sometimes he brings another working escort and sometimes he brings a fuck buddy.  And be prepared to pay well above the standard rate. 

[xyz48B]

37 minutes ago, Teig512 said:

Sometimes, I like to watch two hot guys getting it on. For those times I feel like being a voyeur. I have had good success finding escorts who are OK with that. I often have someone set this up for me. Sometimes he brings another working escort and sometimes he brings a fuck buddy.  And be prepared to pay well above the standard rate. 

For something like that, you can watch it for free at gaymaletube.com

[Luv2play]

2 hours ago, Teig512 said:

Sometimes, I like to watch two hot guys getting it on. For those times I feel like being a voyeur. I have had good success finding escorts who are OK with that. I often have someone set this up for me. Sometimes he brings another working escort and sometimes he brings a fuck buddy.  And be prepared to pay well above the standard rate. 

I've arranged this as a client a number of times over the years and pay each escort their standard rate. If their rates are different by say $50 or so per hour, I put the money in separate envelopes with their names before the encounter. Never had a problem and some of these I have seen again with a different escort partner. Mix and match, I call it. 

[pubic_assistance]

When you aren't that into someone you might have more fun with them if they are with someone else.

Don't take it as an insult. There's no predicting what someone is into.

 

 

[xyz48B]

35 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

When you aren't that into someone you might have more fun with them if they are with someone else.

Don't take it as an insult. There's no predicting what someone is into.

 

 

Another good reason to vet possible providers beforehand. If “you aren’t that into someone” why would you pay them to fuck you? Pay someone you’re into…

[pubic_assistance]

24 minutes ago, xyz48B said:

“If you aren’t that into someone...why would you pay them to fuck you?"

Meth-brain, usually ..

[Greg_blond]

From my own experience, these settings work better if you had 1-1 interaction(s) with the client before. 

[Jamie21]

I’ve been hired to be watched with another guy. It’s great if my client likes to watch before becoming involved himself. It works best though if I’m performing with another sex worker that I know. We can put on a good show because we know what each other likes, it’s more realistic. But if the client engages us separately that’s fine too as long as I know what the arrangements are beforehand. I wouldn’t want such a thing to be a surprise. 

Other times I’m hired by a couple to massage and have sex with one of the couple while the other watches. The voyeur / exhibitionist (and indeed the cuckold) aspect for many couples is a big turn on. I enjoy those sessions because the group dynamic adds extra interest. 

[italianboyph]

On 2/22/2022 at 6:01 AM, Alexphilly said:

Yes I've even gotten into a situation where the other escort thought the client was paying me more than him sheesh I think this occured a few times ughhh .

Yeah sometimes more than one person can be too much, especially when it’s really unorganized. 

[Jarrod_Uncut]

On 2/21/2022 at 12:10 PM, Benjamin_Nicholas said:

The more escorts involved, the harder is it to control the situation.

I book longer term with the guys I see, meaning, it's not just about the sex, but about the overall experience.  When I agree to invite others into the box, it brings a risk into the meet that I'm not always wanting to take.

Bottom line, I know exactly what I offer and why I'm good at what I do.  Bringing in a wildcard can be fun, but it's also something that can ruin an already good thing.

 

On 2/21/2022 at 5:33 PM, Jamie21 said:

Agree it’s too risky / complicated to schedule when other escorts or masseurs are included. I only work with guys I’m familiar with. 

If a client asks me to join a session with an unknown escort or masseur then I say no. 

It’s a challenging scenario, but I’ve done it a few times. Many, in fact. I am really into 3, 4, even 5 ways. I’ve done it with clients and escorts I’ve never met the 1st time. It’s pretty much like a live porn (without the film crew) and I find it sexy and adventurous.

The only time I wouldn’t appreciate it, is if we were at a public setting and the escort happened to show up. I had that occur couple times before, but 1 didn’t go well. After being at a restaurant for nearly half hour or longer, he chose the other provider over me. Not even a 3 way. Then had the gall to say, “you can join but I’m only paying him “. I seriously wanted to kill that client. (I was a bit younger and not in tune with my emotions or the concept of blacklisting/cancellation fees at the time) 😆 Fortunately, another (local) client contacted me on my way home…he became a regular and turned out we shared a mutual friend. So it was really a blessing in disguise. The other escort died off the market after a few months.

To disparage a provider in front of another provider in a public setting, is the lowest form of integrity. Most escorts don’t sign up for an in person “audition”. We are quite aware of that in our postings already. Once we have a client, we want to feel we have the client. Not go thru an additional challenge with another provider.

That said, if a provider agrees to do a session with another…by all means. No harm no foul! 

Edited February 25, 2022 by Jarrod_Uncut

[DapperGent]

On 2/20/2022 at 3:49 PM, Alexphilly said:

Hi I haven't been posting for a while, but anyway . I've noticed I get turned off from time to time when would ask me do I have a extra friend it makes me think one provider is not enough for the client especially when they ask this during the session. It really takes time to find a extra provider . I have worked other providers in the past but I feel like I can be myself working alone . I've had situations where the client didn't like the other provider  ("friend" )maybe because he wasn't his type or ?? Either way I had to tell the provider that the client isn't interested and you have to go home .. Another instance was when I hooked a client up with a provider which he was a cool guy we would often work together with the client a few times . So I showed up to the clients home and started the session he then asked me to call my friend over .  The provider told me that him and the client had some kinda fallout drama and he's not coming (not sure was it a payment issue.. because every providers rate is different) . Either way I just don't like to be caught between the mess . I just like to work alone  It's less hassle for me .

 

When one wants another escort to join a session it has nothing to do with him not being engaging but because the excitement it’s so great that you just want two cocks, cocks in both ends. Also, it is not unreasonable to ask a service provider beforehand or during, if they have escort buddies who can join because it is NOT uncommon to find escort or masseurs couples or colleagues that work together or play together without money involved.  Personally, besides reading the profile content I would ask pertinent questions.

Edited March 4, 2022 by DapperGent

[marylander1940]

On 2/21/2022 at 6:33 PM, Jamie21 said:

Agree it’s too risky / complicated to schedule when other escorts or masseurs are included. I only work with guys I’m familiar with. 

If a client asks me to join a session with an unknown escort or masseur then I say no. 

as long as there's time involved and the client doesn't want you do it ASAP, you can always meet the escort on your know to get a feeling. 

On 2/22/2022 at 9:01 AM, Alexphilly said:

Yes I've even gotten into a situation where the other escort thought the client was paying me more than him sheesh I think this occured a few times ughhh .

Whether a client is paying you more or less is between the client and you. As long as the client pays him HIS fee that's all he should care. 

The Legendary Dave used to charge a fee to set up a 3some or 4some with a client. 

Back to your question, many clients have the fantasy of a 3some and providing it or not is your choice. You can always ask him to make a few suggestions but even if he picks a guy you don't like... it's sex for $ anyways and even if he's not your type he might look waaaay better than most clients. 

 

[Jamie21]

3 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

as long as there's time involved and the client doesn't want you do it ASAP, you can always meet the escort on your know to get a feeling. 

You can, although that adds time. I’d probably look the other sex worker up and see what kind of stuff they did but I wouldn’t go so far as meeting them unless the client was paying for that time too, which seems extremely unlikely. Consider that I could be doing alternative paid work instead of meeting another provider to see if we’re compatible for a client’s group session…. The other thing is that whilst I love group sex and attend parties ‘off the clock’ I prefer seeing clients on my own or just with sex workers that I’ve worked with previously. I guess it’s because at the parties I can decide whether or not to do anything but if it’s a paid gig then I’m feeling obliged to engage with anyone and everyone. Plus I’m not ‘at work’ so I can relax more.