Rimming

[Winterangel]

I’m sure this topic has been covered before but asking the question again, as I can’t see any responses!

How do most providers feel about rimming?  It’s my favourite thing to do and have done to me, with the right person of course (clean, hot, whatever that means to you!).  I’ve never asked probably out of fear of rejection though I’ve  had a few providers get busy down there without any prompting.  It’s a pretty small percentage though - should I be more confident and just ask?  Is it usually an “extra cost” thing?

[+ Jamie21]

It’s a very personal thing, extremely intimate. I always include it in my massages (and in escort sessions) unless my client specifically declines it. I love giving it so it’s no problem for me to include it (without charging extra). Mutual rimming is fine too although I think most people prefer to receive it than give. 

I think it fits very nicely into a sensual massage and can be a pleasant surprise if done with some teasing moves…as in “will he / won’t he go down there?”  I can also check my client’s responsiveness to it by briefly testing with a lick before going in deep so to speak.

Not everyone likes it or wants it (usually because of concerns about being clean etc or with guys who are anxious about anything anal) but I’ve found that most people do like it, especially before penetration. 

If it’s something that’s important to you and you definitely want it included in the session then ask your provider when booking, don’t leave it until the start of the session to ask. It can make the session awkward if at that point he has to say no. If he rules it out before you book the session then you can decide not to make a booking. 

If you make sure he knows it’s something you definitely want included then a good provider will ensure you get a rimming to die for 🙂 
 

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

As long as things are clean and, ideally, the provider is up-to-date on his hep vaccines, I say go for it.

Rimming can be a nice way to transition into pounding a hole.

[Ryanwattsxxx]

I’m always disappointed if I don’t get rimmed before other things happen lol

[big-n-tall]

6 hours ago, Ryanwattsxxx said:

I’m always disappointed if I don’t get rimmed before other things happen lol

Duly noted. 😛

[liubit]

On 1/23/2022 at 6:37 PM, Jamie21 said:

Not everyone likes it or wants it (usually because of concerns about being clean etc or with guys who are anxious about anything anal) but I’ve found that most people do like it, especially before penetration. 

Right. In my own experience, very very very few of my hires have refused me to rim them, but not many have returned the favor. It actually works out well for me, because even if I like both giving and receiving, I think I prefer giving, and I can go at it for a long time. 

[maninsoma]

I also prefer to give than receive...assuming the guy is clean and, for me, not very hairy down there.  One of my favorite former providers was a young man who loved getting rimmed as much as I liked rimming him.  I still fondly remember lying on my back with him spreading his cheeks open for me, jerking off as I touched him all over and probed him with my tongue.  At the right moment, he'd pull back and shoot his load in my mouth.  Never failed to get me off at the same time.  We rarely went beyond oral, but I enjoyed that "routine" we had so much that I wasn't dissatisfied. 

[Guest]

9 hours ago, liubit said:

Right. In my own experience, very very very few of my hires have refused me to rim them, but not many have returned the favor. It actually works out well for me, because even if I like both giving and receiving, I think I prefer giving, and I can go at it for a long time. 

Speaking personally, I will nearly always say yes to giving and receiving, and I will nearly always exercise my option for a shower together beforehand. 

[italianboyph]

Rimming is amazing both ways, just as long as both have a clean ass to rim. 😈

[Winterangel]

Great responses thanks. Do providers have a concern giving if a client is on the slightly weightier side? Still able to wash thoroughly and spread of course!!!

[+ Jamie21]

6 hours ago, Winterangel said:

Great responses thanks. Do providers have a concern giving if a client is on the slightly weightier side? Still able to wash thoroughly and spread of course!!!

Not atall. Although if you’re sitting on my face please make sure I’m still breathing every few minutes…

[+ StLouisOct]

On 1/22/2022 at 1:39 PM, Winterangel said:

I’m sure this topic has been covered before but asking the question again, as I can’t see any responses!

How do most providers feel about rimming?  It’s my favourite thing to do and have done to me, with the right person of course (clean, hot, whatever that means to you!).  I’ve never asked probably out of fear of rejection though I’ve  had a few providers get busy down there without any prompting.  It’s a pretty small percentage though - should I be more confident and just ask?  Is it usually an “extra cost” thing?

I’m never disappointed because I include it in my text discussions and my list of ‘likes’ before I meet the escort. I say that I like rimming and being rimmed, but it’s not a deal breaker. Some say they don’t but they like everything else on my list. A great time is had. Others say they do, and a really great time is had. 😋

[jeezifonly]

I love to give and receive, and though never expected in massage service, it’s a nice add-on.

In escort hiring, he must agree to be clean and to allow me to eat…  deal breaker territory.

[marylander1940]

Yes, it's been talked before many times...

Considering we live in a bidet less society I don't recommend an escort to rim 10-15 clients a week, is just too risky and let's face it water and soap sometimes can't reach certain areas of some large bodies. 

Ripe ain't right! 

 

[+ WilliamM]

40 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

Yes, it's been talked before many times..

Ripe ain't right! 

 

Ha ha

[+ Pensant]

8 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

Yes, it's been talked before many times...

Considering we live in a bidet less society I don't recommend an escort to rim 10-15 clients a week, is just too risky and let's face it water and soap sometimes can't reach certain areas of some large bodies. 

Ripe ain't right! 

 

Fortunately I have a Toto Washlet! Nothing like plopping down on that heated seat and turning the warm water jet to high.

[polydoron1977]

I learned from years of living in Europe and have installed bidets in each of my bathrooms. 

[marylander1940]

1 hour ago, Pensant said:

Fortunately I have a Toto Washlet! Nothing like plopping down on that heated seat and turning the warm water jet to high.

It should be the rule and not the exception for both men and women. 

"The French wash from the waist down, the English from the waist up"

 

[polydoron1977]

Italians think we’re gross since we don’t wash “down there” between showers.  

[marylander1940]

On 1/28/2022 at 10:12 AM, polydoron1977 said:

Italians think we’re gross since we don’t wash “down there” between showers.  

not even during showers some folks properly wash down there...

"I just took shower" ain't a proper excuse always do the finger test. 

Edited January 31, 2022 by marylander1940

[marylander1940]

On 1/23/2022 at 5:37 AM, Jamie21 said:

It’s a very personal thing, extremely intimate. I always include it in my massages (and in escort sessions) unless my client specifically declines it. I love giving it so it’s no problem for me to include it (without charging extra). 
 

I guess this is your phone blowing up now:

Edited January 31, 2022 by marylander1940

[+ Lucky]

10 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

not even during showers some folks properly wash down there...

 

 

And how do you know this?

[pubic_assistance]

On 1/28/2022 at 10:12 AM, polydoron1977 said:

Italians think we’re gross since we don’t wash “down there” between showers.  

Because it is a disgusting habit to rely on nothing but a piece of dry tissue. That's NOT gonna get you clean.

Countries like Turkey have washlets on every toilet while much of the US doesn't even know what one is.

We flush unbelievable amounts of toilet paper every day to accomplish nothing in terms of cleanliness.

 

[Rand]

2 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Because it is a disgusting habit to rely on nothing but a piece of dry tissue. That's NOT gonna get you clean.

Countries like Turkey have washlets on every toilet while much of the US doesn't even know what one is.

We flush unbelievable amounts of toilet paper every day to accomplish nothing in terms of cleanliness.

 

Since the day I moved to USA, I still can’t get used to those horrible fixed shower heads poking out of the wall with no way to adjust them. First thing I did is bought my own proper big flexible shower head with douche attachment. And yes after a lifetime of bidet or washlets, I had troubles to adjust to wet wipes etc. to maintain cleanliness. 
However, it takes only couple of minutes to clean yourself after using the restroom even in standard American bathroom. All it takes is to make it a habit. 
All that being said, I’d never let that stop me from enjoying rimming. Just take some time to get ready. It’s one of the hottest and intimate things out there for me. And yes it’s art and talent. Not everyone can rimm good but if you can, you’re god in the bed. At least for me. 

[+ Tygerscent]

On 1/22/2022 at 1:39 PM, Winterangel said:

I’m sure this topic has been covered before but asking the question again, as I can’t see any responses!

How do most providers feel about rimming?  It’s my favourite thing to do and have done to me, with the right person of course (clean, hot, whatever that means to you!).  I’ve never asked probably out of fear of rejection though I’ve  had a few providers get busy down there without any prompting.  It’s a pretty small percentage though - should I be more confident and just ask?  Is it usually an “extra cost” thing?

Bonafide assaholic here… Rimming~? YES PLEASE~!  It’s like opening a birthday present~ unwrapping it is half the fun… indulging in it is more fun… sharing it is what makes the party~ 

Edited February 3, 2022 by Tygerscent