Hugely into kissing

[joegr2000]

Love having a hot guy's tongue in my mouth.  How should I make it clear that I am not interested in dainty kisses?  I don't want to waste my time or his.

[Guest]

I am on a personal mission to let people know that there are many different ways of kissing, the forcefulness of which is not necessarily related to how much they are enjoyed by the parties involved. Maybe you're more accurately "into hugely kissing".

 

In all seriousness, "deep french kissing" is one term I've heard that seems pretty clear. Or, "lots of tongue". Or, like you said yourself, "your (hot guy's) tongue in my mouth, repeatedly and consistently".

Whatever you do, don't say "passionate", that's an awful, corny euphemism.

[BuffaloKyle]

If kissing is very important to you, as it is with me so I understand, I'd try to hire someone that you can first get some feedback about from the forum. 

[Rod Hagen]

I've always wondered, if you hire porn stars, does it help to watch their movies to get a sense of how they like to kiss (fuck, suck, etc.), or are those caught-on-film bits more performances than preferences?

 

[+ nycman]

4 hours ago, Rod Hagen said:

I've always wondered, if you hire porn stars, does it help to watch their movies to get a sense of how they like to kiss (fuck, suck, etc.), or are those caught-on-film bits more performances than preferences?

 

It’s funny but I don’t like watching my sexual partners in porno movies. 
Maybe it some weirdo jealousy. Maybe it ruins the fantasy. 
Who knows, but I seriously go out of my way to avoid seeing my 
regulars on film with other guys. 

Same goes with potential hires. I like surprises. 

[+ Tygerscent]

I’m wondering if the distinction you are looking for might be explained this way: 

 energetic, forceful, aggressive… as opposed to sensual, methodical, gentle…

 Consider sticking to action based adjectives and verbs as opposed to those like “loving”, “connected”, “sexual”, “hot”, “passionate”, that can go either way~ 

 Perhaps the action adjectives/verbs that are used to describe the type of kissing you enjoy the most or want at that particular time would give your potential partner the more accurate idea of what you’re looking for in a kiss. It might also be beneficial to clarify whether or not you want that same type of energy to continue elsewhere on your body… Sometimes people enjoy that forceful/aggressive initial kiss but, like different parts of their body tended to differently. That could be for a number of different reasons: recent surgeries, injuries, various health conditions, sometimes people have what is known as “constant glucose monitors” that sit on the surface of the skin. Other people may have minor melodies of eczema or psoriasis. Sun burns even…

 Interaction in one area doesn’t necessarily indicate that is how a person wants the entire session to go. Additionally, sometimes people like things to start off with an aggressive intensity but, taper down into a more gentle, sensual finish…

 The entire interaction could be likened to how one might describe a particular wine… It’s opening notes, its body and it’s finish.

 If you went into a wine shop asking for a bottle of wine they would ask what are you looking for… If you simply said “I’m looking for something strong or robust”… That would follow generally with a multitude of questions to better refine the search.

 If put into these terms… How would you describe your kissed somebody?

[lonely_john]

Say it in your message even if the guy lists kissing. Some guys will check all activities because they don't know any better.

[BuffaloKyle]

On 11/2/2021 at 2:20 PM, Rod Hagen said:

I've always wondered, if you hire porn stars, does it help to watch their movies to get a sense of how they like to kiss (fuck, suck, etc.), or are those caught-on-film bits more performances than preferences?

 

That can definitely help! Although I was gonna hire a guy who kisses all the time in his movies pretty intensely but did not have kissing listed as his intos on his ad.

[crushme99]

A muscular provider I have unfortunately only been with once covered the bases when it came to kissing.  He was great at shifting between gentle, romantic kissing and forceful, hungry kissing.  Sometimes he would follow my lead on that, being very responsive as I moved between styles.  Other times he initiated the alternating.  He could "read" me well and did an excellent job.  A big thumbs up on that.

Edited November 12, 2021 by crushme99
slight addition

[+ Axiom2001]

On 11/1/2021 at 12:22 PM, joegr2000 said:

Love having a hot guy's tongue in my mouth.  How should I make it clear that I am not interested in dainty kisses?  I don't want to waste my time or his.

When you make arrangements to see him, relay that you're into deep, deep kissing and lots of tongue play.  That's what I've done over these many, many years and have only been let down twice.

The same when I want to be heavily fucked.  I usually state that I prefer to be on the bottom bunk and to be drilled into oblivion.  Since I haven't seen any new men in a great while or my former go-to man who definitely knew how to play and highly satisfy, I don't have to worry.

Edited November 12, 2021 by Axiom2001

[Jamie21]

On 11/1/2021 at 7:22 PM, joegr2000 said:

Love having a hot guy's tongue in my mouth.  How should I make it clear that I am not interested in dainty kisses?  I don't want to waste my time or his.

Difficult to do dainty kisses. You’re not kissing your grandmother!…. I love kissing and am slightly disappointed if my client doesn’t want to be kissed (although I don’t show it…I hope!). Kiss with abandon, kiss with eyes open, hold his head, explore his neck, ears, chest, all over his body, that’s how I like to kiss. 

[kaboom35]

On 11/12/2021 at 5:56 PM, Jamie21 said:

Difficult to do dainty kisses. You’re not kissing your grandmother!…. I love kissing and am slightly disappointed if my client doesn’t want to be kissed (although I don’t show it…I hope!). Kiss with abandon, kiss with eyes open, hold his head, explore his neck, ears, chest, all over his body, that’s how I like to kiss. 

And what city are you in?  Haha. No I’m serious.  

[Islesguy]

On 11/12/2021 at 5:56 PM, Jamie21 said:

Difficult to do dainty kisses. You’re not kissing your grandmother!…. I love kissing and am slightly disappointed if my client doesn’t want to be kissed (although I don’t show it…I hope!). Kiss with abandon, kiss with eyes open, hold his head, explore his neck, ears, chest, all over his body, that’s how I like to kiss. 

I love kissing with my eyes open. I am very visual. Too bad so many people seem to not like it.

[Jamie21]

2 hours ago, kaboom35 said:

And what city are you in?  Haha. No I’m serious.  

I’m in London. Big kiss to you! 

[Jamie21]

59 minutes ago, Islesguy said:

I love kissing with my eyes open. I am very visual. Too bad so many people seem to not like it.

Everyone is different, some of my clients hardly open their eyes the whole massage (probably so they can imagine I’m someone much sexier lol) and maybe the lack of sight heightens the other senses. Some like me to use a blindfold on them which is great for undressing and exploring their body at the start. However when it comes to kissing I do love to look into his eyes. Shakespeare wrote that ‘the eyes are the window to the soul’. Having the window open makes for a more intimate moment. 

[Islesguy]

5 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

Everyone is different, some of my clients hardly open their eyes the whole massage (probably so they can imagine I’m someone much sexier lol) and maybe the lack of sight heightens the other senses. Some like me to use a blindfold on them which is great for undressing and exploring their body at the start. However when it comes to kissing I do love to look into his eyes. Shakespeare wrote that ‘the eyes are the window to the soul’. Having the window open makes for a more intimate moment. 

I couldn't agree with the bold more if I tried.

[Rudynate]

On 11/1/2021 at 12:22 PM, joegr2000 said:

Love having a hot guy's tongue in my mouth.  How should I make it clear that I am not interested in dainty kisses?  I don't want to waste my time or his.

It seems hard to find guys that are into that deep French kissing - it has fallen out of popularity. Time was when almost everyone liked it - probing each other's mouths with the tongue, contacting the back of the throat with the tip the tongue.  I have had to learn to like gentle soft kissing with just a little tongue because it seems to be what most people like.  

[liubit]

Sorry it has been difficult for you to find deep kissers, @Rudynate, I haven’t had that problem. To me, really deep kissing with plenty of tongue is a total must, and I have met many of my matches, especially in Europe.

[Rudynate]

That makes sense ,European men tend to know their way around in bed

[jeezifonly]

For some, deep kissing crosses into an act of intimacy that gets saved for their off-the-clock boyfriends. It’s a click-or-not moment, and sometimes your kissing styles (and how you pair it with touch) just make it catch fire.
I also hear that kissing has inspired a song or two, which may count for something. 

[Rand]

Kissing is the most turn on ever for me. Without it sex feel very mechanical and strange. Not everyone is good at kissing but if he is that it’s absolutely awesome 🤩 

Edited November 17, 2021 by Rand

[Luv2play]

On 11/2/2021 at 6:41 PM, nycman said:

It’s funny but I don’t like watching my sexual partners in porno movies. 
Maybe it some weirdo jealousy. Maybe it ruins the fantasy. 
Who knows, but I seriously go out of my way to avoid seeing my 
regulars on film with other guys. 

Same goes with potential hires. I like surprises. 

I actually don't mind it in the relatively few providers I have been with who are also in porn clicks. I enjoy seeing them in action, recalling how it felt when their dicks were pumping me and not the guy on film.

[italianboyph]

I think with the first approach make it clear that you’re into passionate deep kissing, and that they should be as well. Cause we all know kissing is one thing, but deep making out is what people love. 

[TruHart1]

On 11/14/2021 at 10:27 AM, Rudynate said:

It seems hard to find guys that are into that deep French kissing - it has fallen out of popularity. Time was when almost everyone liked it - probing each other's mouths with the tongue, contacting the back of the throat with the tip the tongue.  I have had to learn to like gentle soft kissing with just a little tongue because it seems to be what most people like.  

I have actually found the opposite true lately for me. In the last 6 months three young escorts (in their twenties) have traveled through my area (multiple times) and they have become regulars, all BECAUSE they are so superb at deep French kissing, along with many other bedroom techniques in which they excel! Since I began hiring nearly 12 years ago, I have met many excellent providers with amazing kissing talent, many of whom became regular hires for me over the years.

Not to downplay my other regular hires, but these three recent escort finds, from my very first meeting with each, almost took deep French kissing to a whole new level in my experience because of their total commitment to, intensity of, and  obvious personal enjoyment of said French kissing! Post pandemic hiring is looking up, especially in my area!!!

TruHart1 😎

[jtwalker]

13 hours ago, TruHart1 said:

I have actually found the opposite true lately for me. In the last 6 months three young escorts (in their twenties) have traveled through my area (multiple times) and they have become regulars, all BECAUSE they are so superb at deep French kissing, along with many other bedroom techniques in which they excel! Since I began hiring nearly 12 years ago, I have met many excellent providers with amazing kissing talent, many of whom became regular hires for me over the years.

Not to downplay my other regular hires, but these three recent escort finds, from my very first meeting with each, almost took deep French kissing to a whole new level in my experience because of their total commitment to, intensity of, and  obvious personal enjoyment of said French kissing! Post pandemic hiring is looking up, especially in my area!!!

TruHart1 😎

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