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So it's happening this weekend. Ended up hiring three guys instead of four. I took your advice and went for a nicer hotel downtown with two beds. They actually were fine having four people stay in the room so no worries about that. The room has this little couch seating area and a huge walk-in shower too so I think it'll have some fun areas to hang out in. I have me regular staying the night and the other guys coming for three hours each so we should have a nice long, fun session together. 

Going tonight to the adult store to buy a few things. Really looking forward to tomorrow night! No live-blogging or video updates sadly but will let you all know how it went. :) Thanks for your advice!

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This is so incredible!   Life is short....live it!   And sounds like you have planned perfectly, should go smoothly. 

A few things to have on hand:

- a few packs of baby wipes

- plenty of lube, both silicone and water based (ppl have preferences)

- condoms

- bottled water, ideally chilled  (cooler/ice)?

- bring plenty of towels if you don't want to alert hotel staff; and a few sheets if you want to put them on the furniture

- alcohol if you want to serve drinks and some snacks (fruit?); 420 if that's your thing

- massage oil ?

- jar candles or low-wattage light bulbs if you want to set your own mood lighting (hotel lighting sucks)

- bluetooth speaker if you want to stream your own music

- viagra if you have some to share

- Bring your own shower gel if you want to have fun in the shower, spend money here not cheap stuff

- toys - cockrings, dildos, harness, handcuffs, cock sleeve, jockstraps, etc

Bring a sheet or shower curtain (+ scissors) and put it over the closet or bathroom door (use pushpins) if you want to set up a glory hole 😲

Just ask Hazel, she thinks of everything

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This thread has also inspired me to plan a three way with eyes on a four or five....

For the 3 or more scenario.....Don't think I want them all at once....

My favorite (and most caring guy) will be there the entire time watching over me and helping things along... the other tops will likely be two hour sessions overlapped so I have a constant supply of hard dick in both ends....one guy, two guys, three guys, two guys, one guy....Pyramid timing!

Recovering from ankle surgery, moving back to the northeast in August has given me plenty of time to think and plan this!

Thanks for the inspiration.

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28 minutes ago, JEC said:

This is so incredible!   Life is short....live it!   And sounds like you have planned perfectly, should go smoothly. 

A few things to have on hand:

- a few packs of baby wipes

- plenty of lube, both silicone and water based (ppl have preferences)

- condoms

- bottled water, ideally chilled  (cooler/ice)?

- bring plenty of towels if you don't want to alert hotel staff; and a few sheets if you want to put them on the furniture

- alcohol if you want to serve drinks and some snacks (fruit?); 420 if that's your thing

- massage oil ?

- jar candles or low-wattage light bulbs if you want to set your own mood lighting (hotel lighting sucks)

- bluetooth speaker if you want to stream your own music

- viagra if you have some to share

- Bring your own shower gel if you want to have fun in the shower, spend money here not cheap stuff

- toys - cockrings, dildos, harness, handcuffs, cock sleeve, jockstraps, etc

Bring a sheet or shower curtain (+ scissors) and put it over the closet or bathroom door (use pushpins) if you want to set up a glory hole 😲

Just ask Hazel, she thinks of everything

I wanna party with THIS guy!

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7 hours ago, keroscenefire said:

So it's happening this weekend. Ended up hiring three guys instead of four. I took your advice and went for a nicer hotel downtown with two beds. They actually were fine having four people stay in the room so no worries about that. The room has this little couch seating area and a huge walk-in shower too so I think it'll have some fun areas to hang out in. I have me regular staying the night and the other guys coming for three hours each so we should have a nice long, fun session together. 

Going tonight to the adult store to buy a few things. Really looking forward to tomorrow night! No live-blogging or video updates sadly but will let you all know how it went. :) Thanks for your advice!

 

Good luck, congrats and have fun.

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6 hours ago, Milo Farnsworth said:

I want and NEED details.  Video is preferred!  PLEASE!!

 

Haha..I don't think there will be video and probably not even much in the realm of photos...though maybe I could get a few. Part of it is that one of my escorts is Arab and his family would not approve of what he does so one of his stipulations is no video of any kind. He even wants all of us to put our cell phones in the hotel safe during the encounter. 

But he is the one I trust the most and actually helped me set up a lot of this, so I am glad to abide by his rules. 

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2 hours ago, Luv2play said:

If he did, and this is purely discretionary, it would be better to do so after the event and with the providers' permission. They may welcome the promotion, particularly if they advertise groups in their ads.

We post ad links on these boards all the time. I don’t think the providers would mind as long as we don’t assume that they are willing to have an orgy with just anybody.

I was more interested in meeting them individually.

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5 hours ago, Trick said:

@Coolwave35, since the topic of this thread is about the budget for an orgy, have you come up with the grand total for the whole thing?  I’m sure it’s a pretty “grand” total.

Whatever figure you have in your head, triple it and you’ll probably be close LOL. It was well worth it though. 

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5 hours ago, Trick said:

@keroscenefire are you going to be posting the guys’ ad links, if any?

 

I'll post on Sunday. Mostly because I only want to promote them if they follow through. I have confidence in my regular but the other two I've never met before and am a little nervous that they'll pull something last minute on me. Another guy I contacted for this already kinda did so trying to avoid that.

But I will recap generally and share links after this happens. 

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On 7/24/2021 at 1:40 AM, keroscenefire said:

 

I'll post on Sunday. Mostly because I only want to promote them if they follow through. I have confidence in my regular but the other two I've never met before and am a little nervous that they'll pull something last minute on me. Another guy I contacted for this already kinda did so trying to avoid that.

But I will recap generally and share links after this happens. 

I hope it was all you wanted and more! 

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4 hours ago, Luv2play said:

They look like hot playmates. I'm sure you had a great time. 3 somes can be awesome.

 

They definitely are sexy, fun guys. It was a lot of fun. I'll definitely get an orgy someday. I think maybe Denver is just a challenging city to do that in. I'll have to look at other options down the road. 

And honestly, a hot threesome with nice, sexy, chill dudes was a great birthday weekend.

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A perfect concept for a gay Breaking Glass Pictures rom-com: The Orgy Planner               A smart 40 yr old gay man, fried from brides and being single too long, uses his charm and planning skills to manage logistics and facilities for private elaborate sex parties attended by handsome wealthy horn-dogs and their hot boytoys.

Can he finally mix work and pleasure…?  
😁

 

 

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13 hours ago, jeezifonly said:

A perfect concept for a gay Breaking Glass Pictures rom-com: The Orgy Planner               A smart 40 yr old gay man, fried from brides and being single too long, uses his charm and planning skills to manage logistics and facilities for private elaborate sex parties attended by handsome wealthy horn-dogs and their hot boytoys.

Can he finally mix work and pleasure…?  
😁

 

 

I don't know about a rom-com, but I wish there were providers that would set up a great vacation getaway spot/private home where I could bring another provider / friend with benefits / fuck buddy / boyfriend / whatever and have a wild sex weekend without worrying that the owners are going to freak out that I spilled silicone lube on the mattress (which you can get out with baby shampoo by the way!).  I've used two Airbnbs and the owners definitely 'telegraphed' that I should NOT be getting pounded while visiting.

I started another thread about this in The Lounge I think.  Someone recommended Misterbnb.  I did check that out, but I wasn't sure if I should send an email to the listing owner - "Hi, can I rent your place so I can smoke weed and get fucked by a bunch of guys?".  If I was comfortable with the listing owner, I don't care if they are in the next room....getting assumptive on whether they try to join.... let's keep those lines clearly drawn for now......

Sexbnb needs to be launched.....  

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1 minute ago, EastCoastBtm said:

I don't know about a rom-com, but I wish there were providers that would set up a great vacation getaway spot/private home where I could bring another provider / friend with benefits / fuck buddy / boyfriend / whatever and have a wild sex weekend without worrying that the owners are going to freak out that I spilled silicone lube on the mattress (which you can get out with baby shampoo by the way!).  I've used two Airbnbs and the owners definitely 'telegraphed' that I should NOT be getting pounded while visiting.

I started another thread about this in The Lounge I think.  Someone recommended Misterbnb.  I did check that out, but I wasn't sure if I should send an email to the listing owner - "Hi, can I rent your place so I can smoke weed and get fucked by a bunch of guys?".  If I was comfortable with the listing owner, I don't care if they are in the next room....getting assumptive on whether they try to join.... let's keep those lines clearly drawn for now......

Sexbnb needs to be launched.....  

AirH&B (Head and Breakfast)

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