Budgeting for an Orgy

[+ keroscenefire]

7 minutes ago, EastCoastBtm said:

I don't know about a rom-com, but I wish there were providers that would set up a great vacation getaway spot/private home where I could bring another provider / friend with benefits / fuck buddy / boyfriend / whatever and have a wild sex weekend without worrying that the owners are going to freak out that I spilled silicone lube on the mattress (which you can get out with baby shampoo by the way!).  I've used two Airbnbs and the owners definitely 'telegraphed' that I should NOT be getting pounded while visiting.

I started another thread about this in The Lounge I think.  Someone recommended Misterbnb.  I did check that out, but I wasn't sure if I should send an email to the listing owner - "Hi, can I rent your place so I can smoke weed and get fucked by a bunch of guys?".  If I was comfortable with the listing owner, I don't care if they are in the next room....getting assumptive on whether they try to join.... let's keep those lines clearly drawn for now......

Sexbnb needs to be launched.....  

There's actually a guy I met who has an AirBnB in Provincetown that is down for sex weekends. Met him at Palm Springs this year and actually thought about going down to P-Town for that purpose. You can even hire the guy who owns it (he's an escort and Masseur) and then get some other guys. Could be a good way to do it honestly. 

[EastCoastBtm]

Just now, keroscenefire said:

There's actually a guy I met who has an AirBnB in Provincetown that is down for sex weekends. Met him at Palm Springs this year and actually thought about going down to P-Town for that purpose. You can even hire the guy who owns it (he's an escort and Masseur) and then get some other guys. Could be a good way to do it honestly. 

I will be PMing you for that RM ad.

[+ Coolwave35]

How much did it cost you all in kerosene and how close to the budget did you stick? 

[+ keroscenefire]

8 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

How much did it cost you all in kerosene and how close to the budget did you stick? 

Ended up much, much cheaper. Haha. I was definitely prepared to do $5000 for multiple guys, plus hotel, incidentals, etc. It ended up not even being $2000. I did end up getting a nicer hotel than I originally planned (About $250 for the night). I did an overnight with my regular for $1200 and then spent $400 for the second gentleman for two hours. I threw in another I think $50 each for tip and spent a little on some incidentals (lube, etc.) My regular actually insisted on treating me to dinner as part of my birthday (there is a nice restaurant at the hotel we went to). I think adding it all up it was pretty close to 2k, but I don't think I quite reached it. 

So way underbudget, but also not really an orgy as much as a three-way. Still fun though!

[+ 5280Dane]

Sounds like a great time.  A few ideas - perhaps have a gift bag for each with bath products or something to remember you by.  Also consider an Airbnb that you can rent the entire place.  Maybe something in Evergreen or even Vail.

[MmM]

7 hours ago, keroscenefire said:

Ended up much, much cheaper. Haha. I was definitely prepared to do $5000 for multiple guys, plus hotel, incidentals, etc. It ended up not even being $2000. I did end up getting a nicer hotel than I originally planned (About $250 for the night). I did an overnight with my regular for $1200 and then spent $400 for the second gentleman for two hours. I threw in another I think $50 each for tip and spent a little on some incidentals (lube, etc.) My regular actually insisted on treating me to dinner as part of my birthday (there is a nice restaurant at the hotel we went to). I think adding it all up it was pretty close to 2k, but I don't think I quite reached it. 

So way underbudget, but also not really an orgy as much as a three-way. Still fun though!

Who did you end up hiring? Links?

[cany10011]

17 hours ago, EastCoastBtm said:

I don't know about a rom-com, but I wish there were providers that would set up a great vacation getaway spot/private home where I could bring another provider / friend with benefits / fuck buddy / boyfriend / whatever and have a wild sex weekend without worrying that the owners are going to freak out that I spilled silicone lube on the mattress (which you can get out with baby shampoo by the way!).  I've used two Airbnbs and the owners definitely 'telegraphed' that I should NOT be getting pounded while visiting.

I started another thread about this in The Lounge I think.  Someone recommended Misterbnb.  I did check that out, but I wasn't sure if I should send an email to the listing owner - "Hi, can I rent your place so I can smoke weed and get fucked by a bunch of guys?".  If I was comfortable with the listing owner, I don't care if they are in the next room....getting assumptive on whether they try to join.... let's keep those lines clearly drawn for now......

Sexbnb needs to be launched.....  

I'm too scared of using Air B&Bs for that reason... not knowing if they have hidden cameras or not would freak me out too. 

[+ keroscenefire]

2 hours ago, manmed said:

Who did you end up hiring? Links?

Jake  and Ali are wonderful, sexy guys and it was fun being double-teamed by these two. 

[MmM]

4 hours ago, keroscenefire said:

Jake  and Ali are wonderful, sexy guys and it was fun being double-teamed by these two. 

Handsome dudes!! Must have been so energizing to be with these 2 hot guys. 

[+ Yellowrod]

Denver has some smoking hot men!  

[Merboy]

I'd have a whole football team fuck the shit out of me if I could.  I wonder how much that would cost lol

[MscleLovr]

27 minutes ago, Merboy said:

I'd have a whole football team fuck the shit out of me if I could.  I wonder how much that would cost lol

My guess @Merboy is $5000, a case of beer…and having your ass feel wrecked for a week 😎

Edited August 4, 2021 by MscleLovr
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[Merboy]

1 hour ago, MscleLovr said:

My guess @Merboy is $5000, a case of beer…and having your ass feel wrecked for a week 😎

Where do I sign up?

[sjmuktop]

On 7/9/2021 at 9:49 PM, Coolwave35 said:

I play this scene out monthly. Your welcome to join if you’re ever in New York. It’s a lot of fun. Next weekend I have 12 providers spending the night at my house. I enjoy the scene and recommend every single one of them. Also, I got consent from all 12 to film so I’ll share that with you as well. 
 

it takes A LOT of work to find the right mix of guys comfortable with groups. Some of my favorite one on one guys are terrible in the group setting. 
 

if you’re going to do it, take your time planning. 
 

below are the boys participating next weekend. 

The third one down in the first line with the tattoos all over his back and on his shoulders is absolutely gorgeous. Very sexy tats and a lovely handsome face. 

[ncc1701d]

On 7/9/2021 at 4:49 PM, Coolwave35 said:

I play this scene out monthly. Your welcome to join if you’re ever in New York. It’s a lot of fun. Next weekend I have 12 providers spending the night at my house. I enjoy the scene and recommend every single one of them. Also, I got consent from all 12 to film so I’ll share that with you as well. 
 

it takes A LOT of work to find the right mix of guys comfortable with groups. Some of my favorite one on one guys are terrible in the group setting. 
 

if you’re going to do it, take your time planning. 
 

below are the boys participating next weekend. 

Mr Coolwave...cumming to this thready late but would love to know who these hot ones are.....my my you have excellent taste!
 

[+ glycine]

On 7/25/2021 at 1:12 PM, keroscenefire said:

So alas, it ended up being a three-way. One of the guys cancelled on me last minute, but the three of us ended up having some good fun so all in all not a bad night.

Jake  and Ali are wonderful, sexy guys and it was fun being double-teamed by these two. 

good taste in guys !

[+ glycine]

On 7/27/2021 at 1:07 AM, keroscenefire said:

Ended up much, much cheaper. Haha. I was definitely prepared to do $5000 for multiple guys, plus hotel, incidentals, etc. It ended up not even being $2000. I did end up getting a nicer hotel than I originally planned (About $250 for the night). I did an overnight with my regular for $1200 and then spent $400 for the second gentleman for two hours. I threw in another I think $50 each for tip and spent a little on some incidentals (lube, etc.) My regular actually insisted on treating me to dinner as part of my birthday (there is a nice restaurant at the hotel we went to). I think adding it all up it was pretty close to 2k, but I don't think I quite reached it. 

So way underbudget, but also not really an orgy as much as a three-way. Still fun though!

omg what a nice guy ! 

[+ glycine]

awh this made me so nostalgic - i haven't had a proper "orgy" in over a year now ! A bunch of 3somes which are great also, but I do love that rush and chaos of like 4-6 guys going to town on you 😜

This was very inspirational ahahaha now i want to organize an orgy for my trip to Vegas next month.

[Rod Hagen]

This thread put me in mind of Okliehomo and all the remarkable teams he put together.  He invited me many times and I was way too insecure to work with such GodMen, in groups no less, so I always hid behind the "I can't do overnights anymore", which was true, but still.  Dumb.  

[+ Coolwave35]

2 hours ago, Rod Hagen said:

This thread put me in mind of Okliehomo and all the remarkable teams he put together.  He invited me many times and I was way too insecure to work with such GodMen, in groups no less, so I always hid behind the "I can't do overnights anymore", which was true, but still.  Dumb.  

It’s so interesting that you say that. For the first number of these groups I put together, even though I was paying and inviting, I was way too insecure to participate so I orchestrated other guys to do stuff while I watched, and convinced myself that’s all I wanted. Many sweet sweet men insisted I play, get involved, try to push me into being comfortable but it was a real challenge for me. Only recently have I begun to really get in the thick of it and it’s made these scenarios even more fun and fulfilling.  I admire all the roles sex workers find themselves having to fill for so many of us. 

[Rod Hagen]

29 minutes ago, Coolwave35 said:

It’s so interesting that you say that. For the first number of these groups I put together, even though I was paying and inviting, I was way too insecure to participate so I orchestrated other guys to do stuff while I watched, and convinced myself that’s all I wanted. Many sweet sweet men insisted I play, get involved, try to push me into being comfortable but it was a real challenge for me. Only recently have I begun to really get in the thick of it and it’s made these scenarios even more fun and fulfilling.  I admire all the roles sex workers find themselves having to fill for so many of us. 

My memory is that Okliehomo didn't participate himself, at least not usually or not much.  He just enjoyed the shows.