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Yeah 2020 sucks in many ways. Sorry things aren't going well for you.

 

While it is true that some escorts just want sex and no intimacy... there are a lot that will just cuddle and hug. You are paying for their time. As long as the request isn't something they find outrageous, I'm sure they'll agree to just hold you for whatever time you desire. You just have to communicate with them beforehand.

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Pre-pandemic, there were professional cuddlers offering platonic cuddling for much less than an escort’s rate. That might be another option to explore if just want cuddling without any eroticism.

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Yes absolutely. But as @big-n-tall mentions, it's not for everyone so you'll need to look around a bit. I'd think an escort offering Boyfriend Experience (BFE) would be a good candidate.

 

Intimacy is important to a lot of guys, and I think sometimes that's the attraction to overnights. People will ask why pay someone to sleep, but the point is you're sleeping with them in your bed and that's intimate and feels good. You don't need to book an overnight to have a cuddle session though, I'm just mentioning that as something to relate to. Find a guy you're interested in, and ask him!

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Do you think escorts would be open to just one long cuddle session.

 

It's not that I'm not a fan of sex; but it's been a really crappy year.

 

Lost a parent. Lost...a lot.

 

Sometimes a dude just wants to be held.

 

Sincerity is a bonus.

Absolutely.

 

Sorry for your loss, hope 2021 treats you better!

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You can always ask. I once hired someone for a 2-3 hour session (don't recall which). I was in a "spider needs some hugging" mood, and in the middle we spooned for about half and hour - it was great! He was behind me and I first felt him holding me closer and then I felt a certain hard object in my crack - i wiggled around to let the stars align and we were off to the races. Best session ever.

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Yes absolutely. But as @big-n-tall mentions, it's not for everyone so you'll need to look around a bit. I'd think an escort offering Boyfriend Experience (BFE) would be a good candidate.

 

Intimacy is important to a lot of guys, and I think sometimes that's the attraction to overnights. People will ask why pay someone to sleep, but the point is you're sleeping with them in your bed and that's intimate and feels good. You don't need to book an overnight to have a cuddle session though, I'm just mentioning that as something to relate to. Find a guy you're interested in, and ask him!

That’s why during this pandemic I am really only doing overnights. Beyond the sex, getting to hold someone all night is really terrific to reconnecting with humanity.

 

Much as I love my dog, and he will cuddle with me, he wanders away in the middle of the night. ;(

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Do you think escorts would be open to just one long cuddle session.

 

It's not that I'm not a fan of sex; but it's been a really crappy year.

 

Lost a parent. Lost...a lot.

 

Sometimes a dude just wants to be held.

 

Sincerity is a bonus.

I'm truly sorry for your loss and for the hard year you've had. I don't have any advice to offer, but find the thread interesting to follow because I too would like try a session like the one you imagine....but for different reasons.

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Much as I love my dog, and he will cuddle with me, he wanders away in the middle of the night. ;(

 

What a heinous little asshole!!! Can you give him back and get a new one?

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You might stop looking in the mirror.

 

I guess my attempt at humor fell flat. I was kidding. I have a dog that thinks he’s a parrot. He literally sits on my shoulder and nestles in any crevice he can fit in at bedtime no matter how uncomfortable.

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I guess my attempt at humor fell flat. I was kidding. I have a dog that thinks he’s a parrot. He literally sits on my shoulder and nestles in any crevice he can fit in at bedtime no matter how uncomfortable.

I guess my attempt at humor fell flat. I was kidding. I have a dog that thinks he’s a parrot. He literally sits on my shoulder and nestles in any crevice he can fit in at bedtime no matter how uncomfortable.

I accept your explanation. It was the sad sign at the end that made me think you were serious.

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I accept your explanation. It was the sad sign at the end that made me think you were serious.

Never go for a man’s dog! I’d sooner insult a man’s wife than a puppy.

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Do you think escorts would be open to just one long cuddle session.

 

It's not that I'm not a fan of sex; but it's been a really crappy year.

 

Lost a parent. Lost...a lot.

 

Sometimes a dude just wants to be held.

 

Sincerity is a bonus.

I am sorry for your loss. 2020 has been a bad year for everybody. I had friends and coworkers that came down with the virus. This year has been a bad financial year for everybody. A much people I know are surviving month to month and business has been bad for many. Here is hoping 2021 is better.

Like the other people said be up front with the escort, if you are I bet they will cuddle you and hold you in your arms.

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Do you think escorts would be open to just one long cuddle session.

 

It's not that I'm not a fan of sex; but it's been a really crappy year.

 

Lost a parent. Lost...a lot.

 

Sometimes a dude just wants to be held.

 

Sincerity is a bonus.

 

I don’t think it’s a strange request. Sometimes I just want to be held. Cuddling relieves stress

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Do you think escorts would be open to just one long cuddle session.

 

It's not that I'm not a fan of sex; but it's been a really crappy year.

 

Lost a parent. Lost...a lot.

 

Sometimes a dude just wants to be held.

 

Sincerity is a bonus.

 

Absolulely. Just being held is highly underrated and undervalued.

Please send me a message - if we are in the same area and you're interested, I'd be delighted to hold you.

Peter

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Yeah just be upfront about what you want so you find a match. Shouldn't be a problem at all.

I will bet you needed some cuddling when they did not call that ball a fumble. All worked out for you in the end.

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Hypothetical: In the midst of holding you, my dick accidently slips into you... Repeatedly.

Well, if it were accidental, how could I possibly hold that against you.

 

Still, I think it would be unlikely. When would you like to have an experiment so I can confirm that sort of thing doesn't happen?

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I will bet you needed some cuddling when they did not call that ball a fumble. All worked out for you in the end.

 

I was ready for espn to talk all the next day about how we got screwed but worked out.

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I guess my attempt at humor fell flat. I was kidding. I have a dog that thinks he’s a parrot. He literally sits on my shoulder and nestles in any crevice he can fit in at bedtime no matter how uncomfortable.

I knew you were kidding @Coolwave35 cause you are cool.

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Absolulely. Just being held is highly underrated and undervalued.

Please send me a message - if we are in the same area and you're interested, I'd be delighted to hold you.

Peter

. . . And if that is you in your avatar, I'd classify you as a Hot Daddy!

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