Is being a short provider in height a bad thing?

[Smurof]

I see many people defend the age of providers and the penis size of providers, but many forum folks who contribute make negative comments of "height challenged" providers. I'm interested in the next couple of years of being a provider myself in a small market (no pun intended there), but is being 5 foot 5 really that much of a turn-off? It sort of makes sense to me if I lie about my lack of vertical-ness and indicate I'm 5" 8" when I'm not, yet I read about guys who do this to gain more one-time business.

[big-n-tall]

I see many people defend the age of providers and the penis size of providers, but many forum folks who contribute make negative comments of "height challenged" providers. I'm interested in the next couple of years of being a provider myself in a small market (no pun intended there), but is being 5 foot 5 really that much of a turn-off? It sort of makes sense to me if I lie about my lack of vertical-ness and indicate I'm 5" 8" when I'm not, yet I read about guys who do this to gain more one-time business.

 

Short answer... no.

 

Most providers are at least shorter than buy a few inches. The shortest I ever met by almost a foot. So I have never discriminated by height. Honestly, if a guy is shorter and in the 5’ to 5’7” range I love picking them up as they wrap their legs around me. As I carry them to the bedroom kissing them along the way.

 

There are always going to be people who want some specific trait whether someone is short, tall, skinny, fat, or muscular. I wouldn’t worry about your height. If you’re good at being a provider... they will come. No pun intended. Lol!

Edited April 29, 2020 by big-n-tall

[+ purplekow]

I have a fantasy about very muscular men who are shorter than I am. It is a completely different fantasy than the one I have for muscular men who are taller than me. So, while some may not find necessarily look for short men as a preference, I can work with what they bring to the bedroom. Because I am a heavy man, I do need a man with some bulk to his body, no matter the height.

[jjkrkwood]

Not for me.... I have always LOVED me some "Pocket Gay", especially IF they are carrying a "big stick".... And if they are muscular, its the cherry on the cake.... In fact in the olden days, I always gravitated (and cruised)) the shortys, but somehow ALWAYS ended up with a TALL partner. My 2 long-time partners were over 6 ft, but in our open relationships I often had liasons with "short" boys.... And in fact my hottest memory and biggest turnon was my playtime with a "little person" at a sex club, who had an 8" cock but on his 4ft+, it frame made him look like some fantasy superhero.... Quite the sexy mouthful.

Edited April 29, 2020 by jjkrkwood

[+ Pensant]

I have a little 5’5 twink who’s a ton of fun, especially when wearing size 9 women’s boots! Certainly miss our playtime.

[MikeBiDude]

Not an issue for me...often it’s even an attractive preference for me.

[Stormy]

Some guys like tall guys. Some guys like short guys. Your height can’t be changed. Don’t worry about it.

[realeasymoney]

Short built guys are my favorite. Throw in a baby face and I'm hooked.

[Rodrigo Suarez]

"Based on an online survey of a large sample of non-heterosexual men (N = 541), we found that the majority of men prefer a partner slightly taller than themselves."

 

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3899263/

[+ Charlie]

Many, many years ago I used to be a regular visitor at the Everard Baths (don't judge me!). Another regular was a hunky guy who was about 5'3". He was an inflexible top, and he got more attention than anyone else. Your height can be used as a positive attention- getter in a crowd of average height providers.

[wklukas]

I don’t look down at anybody !!!......

& that’s not an “all men are created equal” kind of sentiment on my part....

but rather, i only hire / date TALL guys

[jjkrkwood]

You know many have lusted over that little nugget Armand Rizzo, who has been discussed and displayed many times here in the forum. He is the epitome of a "short, hot provider" and his ass is insatiable, and his uncut wiener a treat.

[marylander1940]

Plenty of guys like short(er) guys.

 

Where are the shorties?

 

Short built guys are my favorite. Throw in a baby face and I'm hooked.

 

They're more likely to have a nice round bubble butt!

[Guy Fawkes]

I actually prefer the flexible tops...

 

 

Many, many years ago I used to be a regular visitor at the Everard Baths (don't judge me!). Another regular was a hunky guy who was about 5'3". He was an inflexible top, and he got more attention than anyone else. Your height can be used as a positive attention- getter in a crowd of average height providers.

[JayCeeKy]

I don't think he's a provider, but I personally find Ricky Vegas so freaking sexy, esp when he's beating up on a taller guy like Jaxton Wheeler:

 

[RomanticRick]

There's something to be said of handsome, young short tops with monster cocks. A Guatemalan guy called Ricardo / Carlos in Southern California, does anybody else know? He used to make short family visits up north. His profile name used to be UltraThickDick and boy was it! Was the fattest 9 incher anyone would have had the privilege to be fucked.

For a taller bottom, with nipples wired to manpussy, Ricardo was exactly the right height to orally minister the nipples while in missionary. And then, voila, "Open Sesame" it was and the ultra thick dick was in sans lube

There's something to be said for the joys of manpussy being stretched for an extended period of time by a very, very thick cock with staying power of an ox, while nipples being sucked hard. H E A V E N L Y !!!

Edited April 29, 2020 by RomanticRick

[down_to_business]

It may be a preference for potential customers like many other things. On RentMen, for example, height can be set between 5'5" and 6"7" in the search criteria.

 

Just taking myself, I do have a height preference (of exactly 6'0"), but it is far from an important/absolute requirement. For example, I have hired and had a good time with Brian Strowkes. Position, body type, even hair, tattoos & piercings would all be examples of personal preferences I would count 100X more important.

 

But no, it should not be disqualifying to escorting. It may be a turn-off to somebody, but there is noting you can or should do about that. I would recommend you not lie about your height (although I guess fudging within reason wouldn't be that terrible... i.e. an inch).

[+ Charlie]

I know it is a crude stereotype, but I think many gay men think of tops as taller and bottoms as shorter, ergo bottoms look for escorts who are taller they they are, and tops look for escorts who are shorter than they are. Obviously, there are tops who are really turned on by topping big guys and bottoms who are turned on by being topped by small guys, but I think they are a minority. And there are lots of clients who don't care one way or the other, and plenty of clients and escorts who are of average male height.

 

So, if you are notably less than average male height and want to work as an escort, your ad should probably specify which position you prefer, or accentuate that you are versatile if that is your case.

[+ aeikaryoko]

Short, tall, come one, come all.

[realeasymoney]

"I know it is a crude stereotype, but I think many gay men think of tops as taller and bottoms as shorter, ergo bottoms look for escorts who are taller they they are, and tops look for escorts who are shorter than they are. "

 

I don't consider myself either top or bottom, but I definitely feel more aggressive with short guys.

[+ Keith30309]

I enjoy time with a short, cute twink bottom. Perfect to big spoon.

[+ WilliamM]

No it is not a bad things. Asses are nicer. Trust me.

 

(Smile)

[rocky]

give me a smaller height guy anytime, with a nice butt of course

[Mo Mason]

It's up to you, Smurof, to change their minds! I will admit that I used to be heightist - I would rarely even consider hiring anyone under 6' tall. Then I did meet a couple of guys in the 5'6" - 5'8" range, and they both ended up being in my top 3 hires EVER. Now I barely pay attention to a provider's height, and "very tall" is no longer my strict preference. In fact, I will agree with @WilliamM here... the shorter guys' asses were amazing.

[jjkrkwood]

He's short, and certainly looks like he would be a good "provider"...….