Alex93108

Curious if people can address the following 
1) Provider wanted to leave before elapsed booked time, but demanded full payment.  This particular person came recommended btw - but my experience was less than stellar . ( London UK)
2) Provider couldn't perform and asked me to leave. I was asked to pay  ( New York) 
3) Provider came to my hotel room, used microwave to cook his drugs (there was no microwave)  - then proceeded to snort something. He then could not perform, and left but demanded payment for the time allowed.   ( Sao Paolo , BR) 
 

Curious if people can address the following 
1) Provider wanted to leave before elapsed booked time, but demanded full payment.  This particular person came recommended btw - but my experience was less than stellar . ( London UK)
2) Provider couldn't perform and asked me to leave. I was asked to pay  ( New York) 
3) Provider came to my hotel room, used microwave to cook his drugs (there was no microwave)  - then proceeded to snort something. He then could not perform, and left but demanded payment for the time allowed.   ( Sao Paolo , BR) 
 

Absolutely. I can usually tell if someone is on something ( often coke ) but I'm too much of a gentleman to send them back.
In my mind, you can send back a steak, ( if its undercooked etc) but not a human being.  
I don't think that's proper, especially  if the dude is already there. I have later come to regret it though.
I wish there was a nice way to do this.  I would say respectfully decline, but offer the guy 50% of the agreed donation amount

The flexibility goes both ways - I have done this to an escort too, largely because I was at dinner and the dinner went over. He's human too. 

I sadly recognize him and have met him personally. He was very lovely and would dine at that Chicken place ( Gaitos Grill) in Ipanema on certain nights, with let's just say friends and boys from the favellas.  The chicken place being on the same street parallel to the gay barakas 
Sad to see this. 
My MO in Rio is basically one card and ID, one cheap watch, and just a little bit of cash.  I only bring my phone if I have a friend to watch it. I once left my flip flops on the beach one of those sellers stole it. I had to get on a cab to Shopping Leblon ( barefoot) to buy something to walk on.
The rest of my valuables in the managers safe at my hotel. 
I know there are folks that love boys from the favellas  . Think with your mind not your cock. 

I sadly recognize him and have met him personally. He was very lovely and would dine at that Chicken place ( Gaitos Grill) in Ipanema on certain nights, with let's just say friends and boys from the favellas.  The chicken place being on the same street parallel to the gay barakas 
Sad to see this. 
My MO in Rio is basically one card and ID, one cheap watch, and just a little bit of cash.  I only bring my phone if I have a friend to watch it. I once left my flip flops on the beach one of those sellers stole it. I had to get on a cab to Shopping Leblon ( barefoot) to buy something to walk on.
The rest of my valuables in the managers safe at my hotel. 
I know there are folks that love boys from the favellas  . Think with your mind not your cock. 

Digital relationships are virtual.
They seem real, but in fact, are not.
Always feel free to move on. It’s never Real. 

Picked up a guy in business class on a flight from Europe. We both were flying to the east coast US, with connections beyond. Flirted with him on the plane. Flirt was mutual.  Midway thought the Atlantic  action under thick blankets, he jerked me off. This was before flat bed seats, in the age of recliners that starched 3-4 windows nearly fully flat  and his seat was next to mine. In the dim cabin with large blankets, its easy to play.. I actually miss those seats, I slept well in them, maybe because I got used to them.  The flat bed seats today tend to be narrow, but flat, unless its one of those luxury middle eastern airlines.  
After we came, we both asked for a glass of champagne and refills, delivered by this gay flight attendant. I wonder if he knew. 
We arrived back in the US. Both of us had connections, so we went to the lounge, I reserved a shower where he proceeded to fuck me.  Afterward, I went on my connecting flight, he went on his. Getting into the shower without being noticed was a challenge , but we figured it out. 
I wish I had taken his contact info. He was older than me, and I was a young thing. 

I highly suspect he is on the spectrum - which made him even more endearing to me personally ( for reasons I won't discuss here) 
He does look like his pictures and he does perform. He's a top but you may need to take charge and direct in a certain way which some people who bottom do not.
-I would say go into it with an idea of what you want - and tell him. Be very direct
-Being that I suspect he's on the spectrum, don't overload him with too much  information, concentrate on the appointment, and your enjoyment 
I can't see Dean being a muscle sub to be honest, you can ask him

I highly suspect he is on the spectrum - which made him even more endearing to me personally ( for reasons I won't discuss here) 
He does look like his pictures and he does perform. He's a top but you may need to take charge and direct in a certain way which some people who bottom do not.
-I would say go into it with an idea of what you want - and tell him. Be very direct
-Being that I suspect he's on the spectrum, don't overload him with too much  information, concentrate on the appointment, and your enjoyment 
I can't see Dean being a muscle sub to be honest, you can ask him

350 is my limit.  And it needs to be special. Anything more I can hire elsewhere.
One of my favorites is 400 for an overnight, but it requires a fairly reasonable flight to Central America. 
For reference, London is still very much £200 / $250 USD.  Providers in New York need to realize you are competing in the international market, Montreal is not that far away.
New York is not a small town with no options.

Picked up a guy in business class on a flight from Europe. We both were flying to the east coast US, with connections beyond. Flirted with him on the plane. Flirt was mutual.  Midway thought the Atlantic  action under thick blankets, he jerked me off. This was before flat bed seats, in the age of recliners that starched 3-4 windows nearly fully flat  and his seat was next to mine. In the dim cabin with large blankets, its easy to play.. I actually miss those seats, I slept well in them, maybe because I got used to them.  The flat bed seats today tend to be narrow, but flat, unless its one of those luxury middle eastern airlines.  
After we came, we both asked for a glass of champagne and refills, delivered by this gay flight attendant. I wonder if he knew. 
We arrived back in the US. Both of us had connections, so we went to the lounge, I reserved a shower where he proceeded to fuck me.  Afterward, I went on my connecting flight, he went on his. Getting into the shower without being noticed was a challenge , but we figured it out. 
I wish I had taken his contact info. He was older than me, and I was a young thing. 

dix huit 
Though with a provider i would use less formal speak ( french speaker here also ) 

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Someone I met recently said this about members of this forum. He's a guy from the South
"y'all  are out to make a hookers life hell….."  his words not mine

I highly suspect he is on the spectrum - which made him even more endearing to me personally ( for reasons I won't discuss here) 
He does look like his pictures and he does perform. He's a top but you may need to take charge and direct in a certain way which some people who bottom do not.
-I would say go into it with an idea of what you want - and tell him. Be very direct
-Being that I suspect he's on the spectrum, don't overload him with too much  information, concentrate on the appointment, and your enjoyment 
I can't see Dean being a muscle sub to be honest, you can ask him

I hire when I travel.  I can't be the only one that does this. So if you get a message from me - if you respond, and it goes somewhere. if it doesn't then it doesn't.
I messaged a Brazilian provider that took two days to respond, by which point I was sitting in the lounge at Heathrow about to board a flight to somewhere else. 
However there was another provider who responded right away, and happen to be available, so I was able to see him.
You could counter this by saying you would prefer not to see visitors which would limit your market, thats your choice
 

I hire when I travel.  I can't be the only one that does this. So if you get a message from me - if you respond, and it goes somewhere. if it doesn't then it doesn't.
I messaged a Brazilian provider that took two days to respond, by which point I was sitting in the lounge at Heathrow about to board a flight to somewhere else. 
However there was another provider who responded right away, and happen to be available, so I was able to see him.
You could counter this by saying you would prefer not to see visitors which would limit your market, thats your choice
 

I did see someone recently that i liked - he's in London for a limited time and relatively new so he hasn't yet been ruined by the local scene.. He's top only. Brazilian - by way of Sao Paolo and Salvador, Bahia - both places I have had to good fortune of being able to visit - and to me exemplifies the perfect example of a good Brazilian provider, Paulista sensibility with warmth from Bahia. 
https://rentmen.eu/Cosca_XL
He looks just like his pictures btw - and is very handsome and a nice man. It was an hour I look back with fondness and gratitude, esp considering I very much needed some warmth when I saw him 
 

This has been discussed ad nauseam. It's closer to £200.   £300 if there is something special - i.e giant endowment, very high end / porn star . Outside London , this drops to £150.
The escorts are entrepreneurs - if you are a foreigner from a rich country / place, you can sometimes  be changed more than someone local from the UK, and your experience may differ.  . 

This has been discussed ad nauseam. It's closer to £200.   £300 if there is something special - i.e giant endowment, very high end / porn star . Outside London , this drops to £150.
The escorts are entrepreneurs - if you are a foreigner from a rich country / place, you can sometimes  be changed more than someone local from the UK, and your experience may differ.  . 

People of Color have to work harder and for less money than their White brothers and sisters in most professions, not only in escorting. 

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Yes.
Don’t get wound up over this. You’ll waste time and energy if you overthink why a provider has reacted this way to you.
If, in the future, there's a point when you’d like to meet the guy again, send him a short message with your date/time. If he responds, you’ll know you’re no longer ghosted; you will become a client. If he doesn’t respond, move on.

Because you have your head on screwed on tight and don’t live in a fantasy world. You seem to me very reasonable and sensible – in touch with reality.