The Big Guy

You dodged a bad experience.   

It saddened me to read of your experience.  I agree with @Unicorn, personal preference is one thing but expressing it the way he did it was inappropriate.  Please don’t let one asshole spoil what is usually a great experience.  

I shoot for 8 hours but it seems as I get older I tend to wake up earlier than planned. 

Well….most of my meetings involved the masseur greeting me in unprovocative clothing except a couple years ago I developed a good relationship with my regular and while setting up an appointment I suggested he answer the door naked and erect.   Well he did and I will only say I left a very good tip!

I’m not sure there is an unmanageable downside and it does help the charity to be able to use a prominent name to help with their fundraising.  The only impact I can think of is your name will get picked up by other organizations and you will be solicited more often.  For one who is philanthropically minded that is not usually a big problem.  

This concept does work.  Several years ago I hired college aged window washers who did the work wearing Scottish kilts.  No I never looked to see what was on underneath 😉they were very popular 

Your good looking 

I love the look of the guys in smaller towns with a large university.  For example, I like the preppie look of the guys in Oxford Mississippi.  

A fine man.   Politics aside he became president at a time when our country needed an honest man.  

The only time it happened to me was during the happy ending.  I happened very naturally and yes I liked it.  

10 hours ago, Stormy said:

I hired him 10 years ago and asked him about his butt.  It’s naturally uplifting and real 

I asked as well.  He told me he does lots of squats.  

I had one from him about 7 years ago.   Very nice man and the massage was good.   He did this tantric like move at the end where he used his full body on you.   If memory serves that was what he called the “Wally massage”

I enjoy a great conversationalist.  

I wonder what is in that brown bag Joe is holding?   And yes very sexy. 

I had a massage from him several years ago in Dallas and did not have a good experience.  He was very late and made a point of telling me he was straight.  Seemed more into himself than in giving a good massage.  

I prefer to deal with the same person i.e. become a regular so I tend to hire locals.  

I am always happy to add a tip for good service and don’t mind getting the suggestion when paying at a counter. However, I do not add a donation to a stores favorite/designated charity as I prefer to make those decisions on my own.  

There is a great deal of good advice here.  I would only add that the sex is different after treatment  and if your Doctor agrees that time is on your side i.e. low Gleason score and watchful waiting is an option, I would buy as much time as medically advisable before taking next steps.   I regret not having done so. 

It provides little comfort but the gay Houston District Attorney does not seem to show much interest in enforcing prostitution laws.  

I sure seem to have more problems when I have to change planes in Chicago.  I realize that may not be practical but I avoid Chicago when I can. 

I prefer to be cremated

I think you were a gentleman to give him another chance. At this point, even if ye says he won’t be meditating the next appointment would be uncomfortable.  You have now learned he was not just having a bad day with the first appointment. I think I would move on.  Sorry that happened to you. 

I would like to add my thanks as well.  I know a great deal of effort goes into updating those files. 

I think he is just very cautious about law enforcement.   When booking he has a canned text message that explains he is not an escort and that nothing sexual will happen.  I think being able to identify your phone by reverse number look up is part of his precautions.  I got massages from him on two occasions and found them to be good and him to be friendly. 

I have not done this but like @misterhumphries I would if someone else brought it up first.