KensingtonHomo

Weight is not a great indicator for health. Yes, obese people are at higher risk for a bad COVID outcome, but there are lots of other factors.

This is pedantry. Someone who is infected with a potentially dangerous virus is not healthy bc they are infected. But their baseline health when infected can matter a great deal.

You’re wrong about the reasons for disparate impact. And your fat phobia is just tedious. Plenty of fit and healthy people have died from COVID, especially healthcare workers who were exposed to very high viral loads. You don’t know what you’re talking about and I really hope no one takes your god awful and unscientific advice.

Maybe it's because I'm pretty openly pro-sex worker in my life, but I don't see any issue with asking someone that question. It's generally the preferred terminology for people who escort, do erotic massage, strip, etc. It sounds to me like he was being overly sensitive when you were just trying to determine if he was looking for business or interested in you on a personal basis. If you're publicly (operating with your face, etc. out there) a sex worker, and hitting people up on apps, I'd imagine this question is common place.

Overall, I like tattoos but his are those of a dumb straight guy. So I would avoid him based solely on that.

I'm cackling a bit at the OP who literally said "the ad doesn't have an address" and then acted like we were all stupid when we pointed out why a provider wouldn't do that.

I generally love your posts but in my experience, less than 5% of escorts have websites. I suspect it's because I'm in the US where those website would have to be full of euphemisms. But I do generally check out any links a provider has even if it's just to Instagram or Twitter. It gives a fuller picture and sometimes answers questions I may have.

We got to P-town every summer. Sadly, the massage options tend to be pretty slim. There are good places to get a therapeutic massage, but if you're looking for someone sensual or erotic. This guy is very beautiful. We had massages with him, which were meant to be sensual/erotic but those elements never showed up. The massage itself was decent. https://rentmasseur.com/SensualJockNYC but I could have gotten a better therapeutic massage elsewhere. It feels a bit like a "bait and switch." He wants to be paid a sensual/erotic rate without doing more than massaging you in a thong. I've seen Jim in NYC, and if you want something that's 50/50 massage/erotic, he's great. https://rentmasseur.com/MuscledJim Steban is also good (not great). I've seen him in Brooklyn and enjoyed it, but wasn't dazzled. https://rentmasseur.com/Steban Obviously with all of these "you mileage may vary" but that's my experience.

Okay, this is a bit much. Some escorts work from their homes and it's unreasonable to expect them to post their addresses on their profiles. Even if they're staying at a hotel, I dont' think that's reasonable. I do find some guys are more reticent to share their address or they give you a partial one, which I think is a reaction to "no shows," guys showing up high or drunk, and other bad situations.

Our first hire was while we were traveling in Spain, and it was great. He spoke conversational English to the language barrier wasn't terrible. Honestly, Americans traveling abroad have a much better chance of local guys speaking at least some English, than other tourists. So more than anyone I think we have almost a responsibility to try the local talent. Which is not to say that we should lower our standards, but when we recently went to Montreal, the locals were great.

LOL - were you Regina George?

Yeah, I don't care if someone likes tattoos or not, or if they think someone is too thin or too heavy. The only time I think a comment about a provider's appearance is warranted is if you meet them and they look significantly different from their photos. Because in that case, they are being deceptive. Even then, you can simply say "when we met, the provider was heavier, smaller, etc. than his pics."

Oh, I misread you. That makes sense now.

I don't think this has anything to do with being "woke." Just like honoring someone pronouns, or being a good neighbor, not making negative comments on a provider you've never met, or judging their body harshly, is just being a decent, respectful person. I feel like online anonymity gives people license to behave in ways they never would in person. My general rule is if I wouldn't say this in person, I don't say it online.

This is it. A lot of "hobbyists" (my new favorite term) find a very specific type of guy (late 20s, ripped body, conventionally "hot", and look like actors from a teen melodrama) that - for the most part - I do not find very appealing. I wasn't drawn to men in their 20s when I was in in MY 20s. But I do not say "Ew, why are are you interested in someone so young? Are you emotionally stunted?" Because it's none of my business what two consenting adults do together, and if people want "a model", that's good for them. I also try not to yuck other people's yum. If I'm directly asked by a hobbyist about my experience, then I will share details in a PM, clarifying what I'm into, now it went, my perspective, etc. There's two guys I get asked about all the time. One, I think its absolutely wonderful and cannot recommend enough. The other, who is in the "type of guy" most folks on here seem to desire, was really not for me. But I have never badmouthed that provider bc he was professional, he met our expectations, and - since i hire almost exclusively with my husband - I can't speak to what a one-on-one encounter would be like. So I'm not going to fuck with this guy's business because I didn't love the experience.

I just saw Dan tonight. A provider I normally see wasn't available so I decided to take a chance without doing my research here. As others have mentioned, the price is a bit high for what he delivered. The massage was actually pretty good. Again, because I was rushed, I didn't get into what is included in the erotic massage. He kept his pants on most of the time and I thought "I guess it's not erotic." Then when I turned over, he took his pants off and mounted me - I should have known he was a bottom then. He was going toward the HE, and - to be frank - I generally do not orgasm from another guy jerking me off. He said, "you can have whatever you want you just have to ask for it." He then offered an "upgrade." I was like "I'm good." LOL TL;DR - massage was pretty good, definitely worked out the knots. He's definitely of a high opinion of himself. He's very attractive, if not my type, and I don't like al la carte, so I wouldn't repeat.

This person does not have a "fat belly." He has quite a tight waist actually, but this angle highlights the definition of his pelvis. And since his waist is smaller than his abdomen, it gives the illusion that he has a belly. In other pictures, he clearly has a four-pack. Everyone is entitled to their particular tastes, but you have no idea if you could get this guy "off the street." Judging people for their appearance is toxic. Many people who use this forum have bellies or are overweight, so think about how we feel when you show a muscular fit man and describe him as a "turn off" due to his "fat belly." And as someone with a belly, I frequently hook up with fit muscular or toned guys 15-20 years younger than me.

My feeling is that if I reach out in the manner that Liam outlined, a providers response is very indicative. If they answer my questions, and ask their own, we're on. If I get "sup", then it's not going anywhere.

This is almost exactly what my initial texts to a provide are like. I'm a little less explicit and I'm also scanning to see if the provider is open to working with a couple, and has experience doing so.

No, it's not usually painful. I think it's just that the prostate has being stimulated and the nerves are all activated so there's probably more blood flowing to that area, which is highly pleasurable for me. Occasionally it will make me feel like i have pee, but not usually.

It's hit or miss for me. Sometimes I am rock hard when getting fucked, and other times I lose my erection. But the erection isn't an indication of whether or not I'm enjoying it. Also, I am more likely to get hard and cum when I'm on top. My general sense (and I've heard this from sex therapists) that sometimes having your prostate pounded can make you lose your erection.

Don't let the name dissuade you, Dominus is a total doll: https://rent.men/Dominus

I don't enjoy doggy style or facedown for more than a few minutes. I definitely prefer missionary, being on top or being on my side. I have a fairly large ass and thick thighs which can get in the way. I am very flexible - can almost do a full side split, which definitely helps. I think ideally fucking goes through multiple positions, so I think stretching really helps as does having a strong core. I have a belly, which annoys me mostly when I'm fucking, so I will usually start in doggy or on top, depending on how hung the guy is, once we get going I like to move into missionary or side, which does involve me and the guy taking turns holding my legs up and back. Really, being flexible here is really key because I don't have my hamstrings resisting me or the guy. I've used slings recently with a couple of guys and that was really great. They also sell travel sex slings, which you can get for yourself. I've used it with a guy and it was good. https://www.bol.com/nl/nl/p/misterb-leather-travel-sling/9200000052173549/ I would say that you don't want to be in it for too long (more than 15 minutes) because it made my legs wobbly after.

I think this is fair. It's a bit of a dance. The client wants to be sure they will have a good experience and the provider wants to minimize time wasters. I imagine it's very difficult to differentiate between genuine clients reaching out to get a feel for the provider, and those who will waste their time. I do think if escort work was legal in the US, it would be easier.

I doubt it. I don't find him remotely appealing. He's average looking, zero charisma, seems like an entitled Gen Z XXX. Moderator's note: attacks against others are not permitted.