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I work hard for you
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Providers contacting clients. Is it welcome?
dbar123 replied to + Jamie21's topic in Questions About Hiring
I totally enjoyed getting massaged by you this summer when I visited London. If you were planning to come to my city I would definitely love to hear from you for a redo -
Yes you are crazy to pay $500 upfront. NYC is filled with fabulous locals and visitors who won’t require such an upfront commitment.
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I am more likely to hire someone with a more buff physique…but that doesn’t mean that I would be disposed to pay a premium for it
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The police have other priorities, like pardoning sex traffickers
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Time is money. Hiring an escort cuts to the chase at your convenience
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I see the same guy every month. He varies things up each time so it’s always a little different. I also enjoy our conversations.
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Would you hire a “side” provider?
dbar123 replied to asiantwunktop's topic in Questions About Hiring
There are times when I want an escort but I just don’t feel like prepping for anal. It would be a relief sometimes to not have to deal with that -
RM guy stole my deposit -- any recourse?
dbar123 replied to redbottle's topic in Questions About Hiring
You paid a deposit for an experience. Looks like you got one. Chalk it up to “life” and move on. Sending a deposit to an unknown is always a huge risk -
By all means grant yourself a guilt release and throw out the rear view mirror. It’s all good.
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Providers requiring Client photo to meet!?
dbar123 replied to jockstrapdaddy's topic in Questions About Hiring
I don’t mind sending a head shot that’s already in the public domain. What I really loathe are the escorts who want to have a conversation prior to hiring. I just don’t want to work that hard for a hookup -
Providers requiring Client photo to meet!?
dbar123 replied to jockstrapdaddy's topic in Questions About Hiring
A London provider I recently contacted asked for a photo. Once I sent it he ghosted me. In reality he probably did me a favor. If he wasn’t going to be engaged I didn’t want to go through with it anyway -
Danny- You flaked on me twice last summer at the last minute. Your complaint gave me a good laugh.
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The guy on the right is joshbigosh (ottersquatter). The guy on the left is Zane something or other
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A few years ago I saw a provider who advertised as safe only. When I saw him I was surprised that he wanted to BB me. In his mind, he was on prep so he felt that he was safe. When I asked him to use a condom he went ballistic. Now I’m more careful when I ask about what “safe” means to any provider I hire
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Providence is a 20 minute train ride from Boston. Take a ride into town for the weekend….
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About to turn 71. Many of my friends are within 10 years plus/ minus but I have a handful of friends 25-45 who enjoy wrestling with me.
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He might just be dehydrated or have an electrolyte imbalance. Sounds like a trip to the doctor might be useful
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I had to ditch a provider I’d been seeing nonroutinely over the past 5 years. He had been becoming more and more lackluster and I felt I was being taken for granted. It’s not the people you fire that make you nuts, it’s the people you don’t fire.
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Life is short. Escorts are plentiful. Pick another flavor.
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Overly passive non-interactive escorts
dbar123 replied to + Just Chuck's topic in Questions About Hiring
Corpse-play is not my favorite mode either. Vetting recommendations is so key when trying someone new -
I’m in London chilling for a few days and decided to try Jamie21 for a massage- thanks so much Jaime- the massage was FABULOUS and well worth the time and money. Highly recommended if you happen to be in the area.
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Cut yourself some slack. Mistakes will be made and you will learn a ton from your first foray. Relax and enjoy yourself. There is no perfect escort and not everything will meet your expectations- you will at least learn what you don’t want for the next round
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You look great! Keep it up.
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When I travel to weird places I tend to bring a few protein bars, dried fruit and tea bags. If I’m driving, I keep a small frig in the car and bring sandwiches.
