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90 min is definitely a sweet spot. I find my attention starting to wane after that, unless it’s a provider I know well and feel like chatting

I’m cheap so I usually prefer the Rust level.

I see the same massage guy every month. I tip him 100%. He constantly makes the sessions ever more interesting each time so I enjoy going back. It’s a positive feedback loop. You get what you pay for.

With a new provider it’s better to have the discussion ahead of time. There is no greater buzzkill for a client than to be told by the escort that they are saving their cum for another client later in the day.

He has a beard…that May put him in the light hairy category

I saw a new provider recently who kept me waiting outside for about 20 minutes because he was throwing out his roommate for good. When he finally let me in the place was a mess and he was clearly distracted. We went forward with the session but it was pretty much a disaster. After the allotted 2 hours I got up and got dressed (he clearly wanted me to stay longer while he got his shit together but it was clear that it wasn’t happening). I still paid him his full rate but upon leaving he told me that he never expected to see me again and slammed the door behind me. As I was walking home he called me and wanted assurances that I was going to use him again. I’m filing the experience in the “one and done” file

No reviews? $130 in NYC? Yeah…there’s gotta be a catch…

About a year ago I expressed interest in hiring him. He asked me what I was looking for and after my reply he responded back that he wasn’t interested. I guess I should be happy that he was honest about it rather than give me a lackluster experience

I usually use a discount factor in hiring. If I want someone 8 inches I’ll look for a size 9

I never got past the lack of decent photos or reviews

60 is not too old. I’m a decade beyond that and still have great experiences. Serving suggestion: The elephant in the room is that most escorts on RM are pretty mediocre and it’s not you. You probably need to get better at picking better escorts. Reach out to members directly in your area for specific recommendations. I find that people here are incredibly helpful in sharing info

Give the guy some space. You don’t know what kind of shit he has going on in his life or what he is dealing with. For all you know he may be experiencing depression or some other issue. It’s not about you. Just let it rest. If you’re a good client he will eventually reach out again.

The few properties I’ve sold were thru realtors and I never met the buyers until after the P&S was signed. Still there is nothing more attractive than an all cash buyer who flashes a home inspection waiver under his raincoat

I would suggest doing this with cotton briefs instead. More surface area to absorb smells

You can learn a lot about yourself from an occasional bad experience. Memories are what you get when you don’t get what you want. I find that it’s sometimes easier to figure out what you don’t want rather than what you really want.

The other day while walking home from an erotic massage I passed a McDonaldd. A young 20 something homeless kid came up to me and asked if I would buy him an ice cream cone. I brought him inside and told him to order whatever he wanted. He got a complete meal and 2 cones. Somehow, it was the best $20 I’d spent in a long time. Very thankful to have been able to accommodate such a simple yet sincere request

Life is short. Sometimes you just have to move on. Nothing ever lasts forever

Chest face and leg stubble are the worst. Natural, please

Well over 100. I’m on a monthly schedule now. I finally found a regular guy that I groove with and that makes all the difference

He used to be BlakeBenz or something like that.

In the future I might want to FaceTime providers who host, just to make sure their place isn’t a filthy shithole. Nothing worse than visiting a provider who is a mammoth slob

On my last trip to Manhattan I stayed at a hotel down near Battery Park in lower Manhattan, across from the ferry (Hilton garden??) It was pretty quiet relative to midtown

Since you had seen the provider previously at the same spot your provider should have given you the heads-up that he was now in a different place. You were way too generous in paying him for that

Sounds like you dodged a bullet and saved some $$$. You would have really been pissed if he met with you and did a lackluster job

I’ve tried roughly 50 different Rentmen over the past 7 ish years. Most experiences are just Ok…roughly 10% have been over the top amazing. Sounds like your guy was in the 90% pool. Quite often the second experience with a provider is infinitely better as you both know what to expect. It’s useful to try an interesting provider for an hour first to see if there’s a good fit.