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I’ve seen a few of my providers at the gym working out. I’ve not acknowledged them and they’ve not acknowledged me. It’s nobody’s business.

6 hours seems like a very random number for a first encounter. It sounds like a setup of some sort

Not sure why but I’m in the USA and the Rentmen app on my phone allows me to see the reviews with the latest version.

I received a similar scan by text. The texted threatened to send images to my family and friends unless I sent $3000 in bitcoin. The convo went on for a good while with the scammer constantly threatening to send stuff unless I acted immediately. After a while I got bored with playing along and the scammer timed out. Turns out that there is no incentive for the scammer to actually follow thru with the threat.

I live in a city and avoid driving at all costs so I only buy food for a few days at a time. For stupid staples like TP and paper towels I bite the bullet and head to the burbs for Costco

The”Wellness exam” is a bit of a charade for sure. My PCP experience would be far more useful if he was able to give me patient specific advice on how many calories I should be eating and what kinds of diet plans I should be following. When I ask these questions I get more of a blank stare.

Now that I’m no longer working it’s wonderful to have that spare time to do all the stuff that I couldn’t fit into a normal work week, like sleeping in, biking, going to the gym, making healthy food etc. Retirement is great- I recommend it highly

When we drove cross country back in 2021 the only place where we met a mtf transitioning person was in Hailey Idaho.

IMHO escort quality over the past 5+ years has always been highly variable. Good reviews are critical. And even then an exemplary over the top experience is pretty rare. Whats even more frustrating are escorts who are outstanding one time and mediocre on the next session. I’ve had my fair share of those experiences which are totally confounding to me. Almost like I’m being taken for granted.

An hour goes really fast when you’re meeting someone for the first time. Relax, have some chit chat, a little foreplay, a bit of light trash talk and then get down to business. Whats the big hurry?

I prefer condom use because I don’t want to be the unwitting victim of the next as yet unidentified infectious thing

When Rentmen doubled their client fee I ditched my membership. At the point of quitting I had too big of a buddy list for it to be practical anyway. Not really missing that feature. I don’t travel as much and live in a medium size market so it’s not too hard to figure out anyway

After douching I usually wait a bit on the toilet for things to settle then head to the shower with a dildo. That usually takes care of it

It’s always nice to get an accurate dick length but I love it when the escort also gives an accurate measurement of girth as well. Words like “thick” and “hung” should be avoided since they’re not helpful. It’s always nice when at least a few pics are not just selfies in a mirror. I also love it when a provider talks briefly about any unique hobbies or interests they have. As others have mentioned, the number and quality of reviews are critical. I give extra points for guys who also do massage A really hot video also helps

With the vast majority of escorts I’ve seen, they have gladly used condoms when asked. A few did get pissy about it so it pays to make your preference clear ahead of time. It also pays to ask the escort to bring condoms that he likes if it’s outcall. I’ve had a few providers get pissy about my selection

We don’t have Aldi here in my neighborhood but we do have Trader Joe’s which is Aldi owned

If getting sick is rummaging around in your head then don’t do it. Your inner dialog will blunt your enjoyment.

Here on Boston’s north shore it’s been a great summer weather wise. I bought a new AC unit fearing the worst but never turned it on.

I’m more worried about being shot in a random attack. When I get on a plane I’m never worried about that. Especially in the continental US.

Sorry this happened to you. It’s a good reminder to hide stuff when new providers come to call. A hotel safe always cones in handy

Why perseveration over this? Find someone else. It beats spending your session worrying about it

Touché. In my experience though, people who exercise and lift weights while losing weight always look better all over including facially.

For a first meeting it’s nice to do it in a neutral space like a hotel. Nothing kills the fantasy more than going to an escorts’s place and it’s a filthy shithole with dirty dishes stacked up in the sink and an unmade bed.

The Burner app for IPhone is great. I use it routinely for all sorts of vendors when I don’t want them tracing me

Not a fan of taking these kinds of drugs as they also reduce muscle mass. If you do take them you need to be doing resistance training so you don’t become frail and gaunt from “Ozempic face.”