dbar123

I used to take it personally when I got a no show. I’ve experienced enough limp zombies to realize that it’s a money saving blessing

Some of these guys still want the money without the effort. I’ve had my share of escort “corpses” show up at my door. Would rather have them flake out and not show up at all.

I don’t mind hair. What’s worse is shaving it off and having to maintain it. When I stopped shaving my face I was amazed that my shirt collars stopped wearing out. All of that abrasive stubble is such a drag

Not a fan of tats that obscure key muscles like pecs, biceps, calves, delts etc.

I love it when you see an escort again and he remembers what was going on in your life from the last visit…and cares enough to follow up

That sucks that your 3 some was a bust. At least you got some decent enjoyment from stud #1. Did you need to call the coroner to ditch #2? When I’ve done 3 ways on the road it’s with partnered guys. Never had an issue with energy level or feeling like a 3rd wheel.

A few years ago I saw an escort at his place and had a fantastic time. Two weeks later I unknowingly booked his married partner. When I showed up at the same apartment I was a bit amused to find that the appointment was almost a carbon copy of the previous encounter. I subsequently started seeing both together which is a lot of fun. The funky issue I have is that I occasionally only want to see one of the two which makes it a bit awkward since I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings. Any suggestions on the best ways to broach this?

My favorite thing is when the escort finishes by showering with you.

Speaking of info drip, I hate it when I ask 2 basic questions of a provider and he only answers one. That’s now a “pass” for me.

It’s not just the reviews themselves….but how many there are and whether they are spaced with reasonable periodicity. I also look to see if there are repeat clients who book for increasing amounts of time…like 1hr to 2 hrs to overnight….

In any environment, “Always be selling.” People always treat you better when you are…

One other off putting thing is when the provider shows up wearing older dingy white underpants. The “tell” that you’re in for an unimaginative session.

I once showed up to see a provider with a stack of 20’s that I left on the dresser before the session. He immediately picked the stack up and slowly counted it. I thought that move was in bad taste.

It’s very hot but so much work to maintain. Not a fan of stubble when it turns into sandpaper. In general I usually prefer some hair…

The reasons you’re now available are no one’s business. Shit happens and people change their minds.

I’ve pretty much stopped hiring guys under 35ish for that reason

I’ve seen him a bunch of times. Very sweet. Combines massage with bfe. If you are looking for a traditional massage on a table then look elsewhere. If you are looking to have someone roll around with you in bed then he’s great

I also use A4A and whenever I hit a foreign city I often get a handful of inquiries from various people. If my planned escort session falls through I will sometimes go for a random chance meet. Quite often they are just as satisfying….and don’t cost me anything. Ive had a few occasions where the escort bailed at last minute for understandable reasons and I’ve met up a few days later but they are rare

To respond to Jarrod’s original question…. Over the past 6+ years I’ve probably hired close to 50 Rentmen around the world. Most of the experiences were no more or less exciting than what I might have experienced with a random hookup. A good 20% or so were truly exemplary and worth the money. Most Rentmen that I’ve tried are just not that imaginative.

I’ve had many instances where the posted escort locations didnt match reality so I never totally trust what’s printed. This is especially true when escorts have an agenda with 5 or more serial locations. It’s easy to get thrown off schedule especially if you’re flying

PatrickFunBoy for sure…with his partner Vince. They are on Rentmen. Fantastic massage and more. Super sweet muscular guys

It’s so unusual that I consider it a treat when I find a guy with a hairy back. I love a hairy chest too

I notice that escorts post rates on Rentmasseur and Masseurfinder…but invariably they are not the rates quoted when you contact the person directly….

I thought it would diminish as I got older and my testosterone faded. The joke is on me. Just around the corner from 70 and I’m as horny as I’ve ever been. Still thinking about it all the time. I need to J/O or have an adult interaction at least once a day or I feel edgy. Especially after working out.

Not sure where you live but here in the Northeast white wine is always served chilled….