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  1. dbar123
    Sounds more like your friend is secretly jealous of you, if he found you on RM. You do you… Congrads on taking control of your own life.
  2. dbar123
    Don’t go fishing off the company dock. You’ll both wind up getting fired. Even if you broach the topic at work, you will wind up getting screwed and not in a pleasurable way. Keep it to yourself.
  3. dbar123
    I also recall using him as an escort in DC sometime back about 5 years ago. It was rather unmemorable
  4. dbar123
    I would suggest starting out small- a one hour meet up with someone local who has a bunch of good reviews. Ideally incall so you have the easy option of leaving if something seems amiss. A Multi day affair in Istanbul smells to me like trouble.
  5. dbar123
    Last summer in Boston I had one really good massage with him. In two subsequent bookings he canceled on me at the last minute, both times for the same excuse (sick dog). Not likely to try again
  6. dbar123
    Usually all publicity is good. Probably drives more people to his only fans stuff. perhaps he’s trying something new because he’s maxed out his current offering
  7. dbar123
    Recently I had a provider cum on my stomach. I must have had an allergic reaction to his cum because it started itching like crazy. Never had that happen before. Now I’m more careful with guys I’ve not been with before
  8. dbar123
    If they happen to say that they are running late with another client, that’s an automatic cancel. Any delay for any reason with someone I’ve never seen before is also an automatic cancel. An escort I’ve already got a track record of on time performance- if they are running late I can normally forgive up to an hour
  9. dbar123
    IME a lot of higher priced guys don’t respond immediately with pricing. If I encounter this I move on. There are plenty of guys out there who are more responsive.
  10. dbar123
    If all of the reviews are for an hour, that’s usually a “tell” that the provider is pricier than average
  11. dbar123
    You are making an assumption that he ghosted you for reasons that have to do with you. It’s also possible that he ghosted you for his own personal situation- like maybe he’s sick, depressed, fueling an addiction, dealing with family issues etc. I would not take it personally. Shake it off and go elsewhere
  12. dbar123
    Look at it this way- he was an asshole and he saved you the time and money to find that out first hand.
  13. dbar123
    Some providers who are just going thru the motions will often take extra time to get hard. This may be a problem if you are expecting them to top. It’s often a good “tell” that they’re engaged when they are completely hard almost immediately
  14. dbar123
    It would be a red flag for me if all of the reviews were for one hour…. I like to see a healthy mix of time durations. If there are multiple reviews from the same person I look to see if the dwell time is increasing with more recent reviews
  15. dbar123
    Some escorts are just going through the motions and that’s ok if you as the client are enjoying the interaction. Others seem to genuinely enjoy the experience and the chemistry really works. It’s usually pretty easy to distinguish the difference.
  16. dbar123
    I think he’s expired past his Warhol 15 minutes of fame
  17. dbar123
    I’ve noticed that in general, people who live alone have a whole lot more ajita about everything and bring that bandwidth with them when visiting others. Partnered people are more used to toning their excesses. The Celiac thing is her way of expressing her specialness. It’s not you…in the future keep the visits short.
  18. dbar123
    Why are you willingly subjecting yourself to family on an expensive retreat? That’s not a vacation by any definition. Sounds like it’s time for some new family rules . If you have to do family dwell time, do it somewhere more pedestrian, like a city where you can more easily find ways to separate…like NYC or DC.
  19. dbar123
    You did a good deed. It will someday come back to you in delayed karma, but not from your provider. Stop banging your head against a fake wall on this one. Give up trying to contact him and move on. He defines “ingratitude “ and doesn’t deserve your further attention.
  20. dbar123
    I might have responded…”No, just looking for a different kind of asshole.”
  21. dbar123
    Ask him to bring condoms that he is comfortable with. Some people have strong brand and size preferences, especially if he has latex allergy issues
  22. dbar123
    Sounds like you are a victim of sampling error. I’ve met plenty of gay guys who suck at kissing…and plenty of bi guys who were definitely up to code
  23. dbar123
    DoxyPep use will inevitably result in more antibiotic resistant STI’s. It’s a longtime loser. Im always surprised at how much pushback I get from people when I insist on condom use.
  24. dbar123
    I think it pays to be more direct and convey some sense of urgency if you want an actionable response. Like “ Looking to get a 90 minute massage on Tuesday evening. Are you available and how much do you charge incall?”
  25. dbar123
    It would be foregivable if his phone went dead but my guess is that’s not what happened. One cancellation without an excuse is a hard pass for me. Two back to back cancellations for any reason is also a hard pass

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