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You might be better off in the long run plowing your energy into getting a masters degree and increasing your salary so you can hire who you want

I don’t try out new guys unless it’s incall or it’s at a hotel. I don’t want the confrontation at my place.

If I can’t leave 5 stars then I just don’t bother. In reality, the absolute number of recommendations means more to me than the content.

He kind of reminds me of the human version of Dave Seville from Alvin and the Chipmunks….in the same way that Chris Hayes reminds me of Captain Binghamton

I see that category here in the USA. You may need to be signed in to see it.

Bentley owners need toilet paper and toothpaste too

There is an escort that I was seeing somewhat routinely that shares a common interest with me- we both enjoy biking and we started doing that occasionally outside of sex. My sexual tastes have subsequently evolved so I am not using his escort services but we still enjoy biking. I still take him out for lunch while biking. He is 30 yrs younger and enjoys having a sounding board….and we both enjoy hearing each others’ sexual stories

Allowing the provider to pick the third is really key. If you’ve never done it you should at least try it once. I routinely see a married provider couple who enjoy the variety of having a third and are both super attentive to me. They occasionally fuck each other but watching them is very hot

His girlfriends are into strap-ons

This is a delusion. Let it go and move on. There is no reality in which a provider who doesn’t want to deal with you will suddenly be impressed that you tracked him down. The best thing you can do is just get on with life and get over this before you get yourself hurt any further.

For the grandfathered $9.95 a month that I was paying, I was suddenly barred from viewing videos or semiprivate photos. The $9.95 no longer seemed worth it so I canceled my membership. The positive side of these changes is that as a US client I can now see the text of reviews left by others without a vpn if I use the phone app. All of the dimensions show up in metric but I’ve learned to cope with that

The whole discount thing would be easy to nip in the bud if providers took the time to do a check out especially after the first session, which they rarely do. It entails spending a few minutes at the end of the session asking the client what they liked and didn’t like about the session, what could be improved upon next time and what they might like to see at the next encounter. At this point it is the ideal time for the escort to suggest a longer session for X dollars and outline what you would do for the extra money. The sad truth is that most guys are so eager to bolt out the door that they pass up a key opportunity to foster repeat business and loyalty and they set themselves up for the future discounting discussion.

Several years ago I retired and moved across the country. Much of my time is spent exploring the new environment but I also supplement the free time with biking, wrestling and dining with fellow retirees that I’ve met in town

For regulars you are always better off adding value vs. subtracting price. Make the session longer or go out of your way to do something more special or unique for that client. An escort that I used to see started wearing a harness out of the blue which was a real turn on. Maybe introduce shibari or some other skill into your session. Bring food and eat it off him. The possibilities are endless.

I had to turn that feature off. It was very intrusive to be contacted by escorts within an hour or so of scanning their page. I felt a bit trolled. If, on the other hand, the escort were to contact me with additional information that wasn’t in their ad, I might not mind but usually it was a push for an immediate booking since clearly they were eager to fill some holes.

I kind of put this in the same category as expecting the escort to stay hard for some defined period of time. I would never penalize someone for not cumming or getting soft….but having both is a reasonable expectation within a session

You dodged a huge bullet. How will you feel if he doesn’t stay hard, blames it on you and refuses to pay….

Sounds like you should just shift to an “outcall only” policy and shift onus on the client

I’ve had the same experience. The second time is often a rerun of the same sitcom. save your $ and move on.

Subtle watches that are proportional in size look great. Guys who wear large clunky ones look a little weird. I have a thing for the vintage square case watches

Siri is great in the car!

It really irritates me to go to places like Home Depot or CVS and they have staff hovering over the self checkout area. Instead, why don’t you just check me out?

If the bottom provider is doing outcall, they may not want to be dripping cum afterwards. I think the courteous thing to do is ask.

As a client, I look for someone with an above average body, good conversationalist, and someone who is comfortable taking the lead. A comfort dick is a must (not too big, not too small). Good kisser always counts

Unless the OP is a porn star the request seems highly presumptuous