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From personal experience there are many ways to justify not changing behaviors to lose weight. It really takes a life altering event for this to happen. COVID is as life altering as it takes. Great time to take hour long walks on the woods and to stop eating high calorie restaurant foods and fast food....and make healthier food at home

Happiness is a vector process....I wasn’t unhappy when I was heavier but being lighter definitely improved my mental state of being. To say that weight loss has a hereditary component is true but it should not be considered as a cop out to weight loss. It just means you need to be more persistent and methodical to overcome it if you want to achieve that goal, and you need to be willing to change your behaviors to make it work

Race, age, height, dick size are things that are out of one’s control but weight is something that is. I feel a bit grateful to people who fat shamed me to lose 80 pounds (especially my physician). He did me a huge favor. Not only do I feel infinitely better but it has made me a lot happier as a person. The added bonus of fitting into clothes doesn’t hurt. For those of you who are a little overweight there has never been a better time to take the reins of your own fate and lose the extra pounds.

We had a friend who brought tomatoes to us last year. They looked so nice that we used them in the salad. While we were eating our friend announced that she had fertilized the tomatoes with the cremated remains of her recently deceased partner. That was quite the luncheon buzzkill

Jarrod- I looked at your Rentman ad. I found it to be a little off-putting. Some advice- try to inject a little more warmth into the text and make yourself a bit more inviting...like you would be happy to see me. There was nothing in it that seemed particularly unique or different. Are you the best heavy massager in town? The softest or hardest pounder? The funniest joke teller? The most amazing kisser? I would also advise you to ditch the A B C rules thing. I wouldn’t have the energy to want to follow a bunch of rules to make you happy. Instead, concentrate on telling me what you want to do to make ME happy.

The Peabody-Essex in Salem MA is also well worth the trip especially if you like nautical scapes and trade. They have great exhibitions....I think it’s a more interesting museum these days than the MFA in Boston. Just don’t go on Halloween weekend.

The guys that I go to regularly take more than a casual interest in me as a client. They occasionally send me texts wishing me happy holidays and they will occasionally send reminders to me that they actually miss me.

Future recycle trash to process? No thank you. I only get digital editions now. NYT, WAPO, Boston Globe, Oregonian, WSJ......all virtual.

Cell Block 13 Trident Neoprene Harness Red CBS132 at International Jock I had a Rentman show up wearing something like this under his street clothes. I could feel it under his clothes as he "greeted" me. It was most unexpected and a real turn on for sure.

Names are highly overrated. What does it really matter? Just call him whatever he tells you he wants to be called

Just moved from Boston to Oregon...downsized to a 2br condo. Be honest and ruthless. Donate the books. Sell off large pieces of furniture if you can. The antique market is for shit right now so don’t have high expectations.A dumpster is definitely your friend. Invite friends and coworkers to come over and take what they can use. At the end we finally called 1-800-got junk to take the dregs

When you see the same BFE provider for some period of time, it is inevitable that you will share interesting things, anecdotes, experiences etc. I have a steady provider who happens to have a kid in school. We always exchange stories about that. It’s just part of being human

Flipping the tables somewhat...I have a few regular escorts who text me occasionally if they haven’t seen me in a while just to know if I’m OK...or to wish me a happy holiday. I love that personal touch.

I prefer hiring repeat escorts that I’ve already got ongoing rapport with. I enjoy the interesting chat as much as the sex.

I would rather not know. It’s really none of my business

I suggest you ask them directly. It may depend on the city

I’ve seen them twice for 4 handed massage. They were a lot of fun and the massage was great

I usually prefer to pay in $50’s. Totally not interested in electronic payment. For safety I get the $$ out of my account at least a week before I need it so there is some delay decay

Lately it’s trunks or shorter boxer briefs. My favorite brand du hour is Clever followed by 2Xist

I have both but spend 90% of my time reading the NYT. Better business section. Actually thinking of dropping WAPO in favor of the WSJ. Used to have the digital subscription and dropped it because it was pricey but they had a more balanced coverage of certain stories and I really miss it.

I’ve never quite understood why guys get back tattoos that they can’t see

Don’t tell your employer. They will be legally obligated to withhold tax from your new jurisdiction. If you work for a small business it creates a huge paperwork nightmare and they get exposed to collecting sales tax from that state if you stay in the USA

Treble was great....but he was no Art Fleming. When I think of Jeopardy I always think of Art

I had a hookup with Karsten about 2 years ago. He came to my hotel in LA. Nice guy- he was a lot of fun

I put all my porn on a microSD card. Easy to get rid of or overlook