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I had made an appointment to see him several years ago while I was traveling for work. At the last minute he bailed on me due to family issues. Regardless of whether the reason is legit or not, I have a general policy to not rebook escorts who stand me up on the first meeting.

I've seen Kiddo a handful of times. He is a FANTASTIC top. Amazing body too. His pictures don't do him justice Just as important, he is an interesting guy to talk to, with a very sexy Spanish accent (he is from Spain).

It’s a buzz kill for me…

At least he had the “courtesy” to text you. I had a masseur who didn’t answer his door and went into radio silence leaving me to wonder whether to call 911 or if I should just leave…. Another masseur called me as I had waited at his door for 20 minutes….to inform me that he was running errands and would be back in an hour…and got really pissy when I told him I was leaving and not rescheduling.

I had an off putting experience with him in June. Tried to do a booking several days before and he wanted payment in advance to secure the time. When I told him it was not my policy to pay in advance he made it clear that he would not guarantee his availability. Sure enough that morning I contacted him and he told me he would be busy and unavailable. So I found someone else more agreeable and had a great time. NYC is full of interesting people, fortunately

Several weeks ago I decided to delete my Rentmen client images so I thought it was strange that I suddenly got a handful of requests to see them. Glad to know this is just random spam

I moved out of Boston last year....for the Pacific Northwest. The vibe is very different out there. Not that it's better, just different. It takes a lot of energy to meet people and establish relationships in Boston but it's worth the effort. New Englanders are much more interesting once you get to know them. It is easier to meet people out west but the relationships seem to be more superficial. I came back to Boston for the summer. Didn't realize how much I missed it, but going back in a few weeks. Maybe you need a life sabbatical....

One star on Yelp......doesn't look promising.

Beard = no shaving = no aftershave = no aftershave smell

The sickeningly strong smell of cologne scents makes me nauseated. I prefer the natural smell of a guy any day. That's why I prefer beards and body hair......

I tried him once in Boston. It was a “nice but so what” kind of experience. One and done. The anticipation was far more pleasurable than the reality. Save your money for a more interesting experience

There is a fine line between lying about your age….and simply not updating your profile often enough. I can forgive the latter; the former pisses me off, especially when it’s blatantly obvious when you meet live. If you’re pushing 45 don’t think you can pull off being perpetual 29.

Despite your best intentions, there are so many ways for this to end badly. If you really want to do this I would strongly suggest capping it upfront by telling him it’s ok for a month and after that he is on his own. If it’s working out you can graciously extend it. Don’t feel bad about “not paying” him for sex. You are paying him in lodging

I always assume that escorts are capable of changing tastes and moods....and everything is a function of a current snapshot in time. I am always surprised to find guys who list themselves as total tops....yet still enjoy bottoming when you ask them directly. It always pays to ask upfront.

I prefer text only. Like to get things in writing. Phone calls take too much time and effort. Plus I love the element of surprise

Can’t go wrong with Kiddo. I’ve seen him a few times. He ticks all of your boxes.

I saw him several times a few years ago when I was in SF for a meeting. He was a ton of fun. When I saw him, he gladly wore a condom. Highly recommended.

Figuring that some guys might be in the air flying, I give an 8 hour window...after that I deem them non-responsive and an automatic "no"

I think you are overthinking the rejection. At least he gave you a gracious “thanks.” For all you know he could just be insanely busy or he could be going through his own personal funk. And there is also the possibility that he is just a conceited asshole who just did you a big favor by punctuating you…

I never mind being contacted. It often catalyze some of the most interesting conversations with random strangers

In this age of global warming it seems like an egregious waste of resources in the name of vanity.

At least UCLA was upfront about it. It gives you the chance to put your money at a place that will use it more efficiently. That overhead rate does not sound that out of line to me.

Kiddo is wonderful. I saw him a few months ago when I spent a few days in NYC. Even with the pandemic he was in super shape. He is one of my 5 favorites on Rentmen.

I always get a kick out of escorts who say that you get what you pay for....if only that was really true. I've had better experiences lately with guys who are slightly less expensive....and I usually wind up seeing them again and again for longer sessions. I never negotiate price... If someone quotes more than $500 for two hours I just move on without a response.

I really look forward to getting back to the gym....haven't lifted since March 2020, too. To make up for it I try to bike for 90 minutes every day. My legs look great....the rest could use some help. I plan to get back after the summer when I get home.