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You may need a dopamine fast. Clear your mind and take a walk in the woods alone for some quiet time. A bike ride may be warranted.

In the age of photoshop and Covid I always expect guys to look a little fluffier than their photos. It’s a delightful surprise when they look better in person

I had my first at 45 due to rectal bleeding. It was benign fortunately. But it was a wake up call for sure

I saw him a year ago. Super nice guy and a great value. My only heads up was that he does not use a massage table (at least not that time). Would consider a rematch at some point with him when the mood strikes.

Sometimes life isn't fair. Its a good reminder, though, of the importance of routine colonoscopy to nip this kind of shit in the bud before it festers.

I've had about 4 different 4-handed massage providers over the past 2 years. It is more like performance art mixed with massage. A very different experience than with a single provider. They were all extremely entertaining for different reasons. Highly recommended. In one case, the two guys screwed each other while one layed over me and massaged me. It was like having live performance porn. Another set of guys had a whole ritual which ended in a very funky climax where one guy had a small drum that he hit while I got jerked off in time with the drum beats which got increasingly faster. Go for it.

I prefer to separate the two activities. A massage on a real massage table is one style of enjoyable activity. A BFE/massage experience that may include anal sex of some sort on a bed is a totally separate thing. Sometimes I'm in the mood for one over the other.

I keep a spreadsheet with a forced ranking of all the guys I've hired, just for my own amusement. I've never shared it with anyone.

I recently saw a provider at the Loew's in Boston. It was one of those hotels where you need a key to get the elevator to work. The provider instructed me to ask the front desk to let me up. The guy behind the check in counter called the room and got the OK, so they escorted me into the elevator and activated the floor for me.

I just moved out of a condo with a flat rubber roof. It was fine but we had to have the roof "tuned up" every few years to prevent leaks. A guy would come by and look for small tears (usually from nails popping up) and he would patch them up much like a bicycle tire. He would also check the seams to make sure they were good. It was fine...no more of a hassle than shingles as long as you are scrupulous on maintaining it.

Sounds like somebody needs a hug.

If an escort were to ask my age or ethnicity, I would not be likely to respond....and would look elsewhere. I guess I see it as a sign that the escort is unusually selective....and likely to be fussy. Not worth the potential aggravation.

I am usually more interested in the girth. I used to take a plastic pair of calipers with me to measure the size of escorts, just for kicks. Above a diameter of 1.9in, I won't even bother bottoming. I wish RENTMEN would add the girth size to their listings. Length measurements seem too inflated these days (sorry for the pun). Nowadays I automatically subtract 1 inch from most RENTMAN listings over ~7.5 inches for a truer figure.

Somehow (unless I'm missing something) this seems pretty straightforward. You could have told him that you don't have a spare $900 for travel to devote to this....and if he wants you to come, then he can pay for it. Then the money issue would have been outside the client/friend interface. Sounds like both of you were being a bit sensitive about it.

Honesty is a prized commodity...and becoming rarer these days. You did your ex-client a favor. Sometimes the truth is painful. You have every right to feel bad about it but you did the right thing. It sucks that the outcome is not what you hoped for. That's life. I wish you were my friend.

Miguel- if you are working out at the gym, you are probably being too hard on yourself. I think most people tend to be their own harshest critics when it comes to their own bodies. Go for it if you want to do it. There is a market for everything these days.

Due to COVID I am growing a Santa Claus beard so I can play Santa this year. When someone strokes it or plays with it it is an amazing turn on for me.

To the original poster- I wish you well in your recovery and hope it all works out....and that you get the outcome you want. The whole "bucket list" thing is something I've stopped giving thought to because my mind changes all the time and life keeps throwing curve balls our way that constantly changes the playing field. Covid is a perfect example of that. I am retiring on Labor Day and expected to spend my last year of employment doing more international work travel and trade shows....that plan went totally south with Covid. Moving to Portland Oregon and spending the next year or two exploring the Pacific Northwest by car. That's the only thing on my list du jour.

It would depend upon whose vaccine it is. I would prefer to take the protein based one in development

I enjoy the extremes- either very hairy or nothing. Made the mistake of shaving my own chest a few years ago. Big mistake. I felt like a polar bear on chemo.

I used to have a 2006 Jetta. It was one of the best cars I ever owned so my condolences for what happened to yours. Sold it in 2017 to purchase a Honda CRV because I needed something for hauling stuff. The Jetta was a car that I enjoyed. The Honda feels more like an automotive appliance. It's nice and all that but I don't feel much of a connection with it. The Honda has been very reliable so far. I've put 40K miles on it without any problems.

One escort that I see semi-regularly sets his phone timer for 2 hours so you know when that time has passed. At first I thought it was a little weird but now I kind of like it (he usually keeps going if the chemistry is still good). I've has some guys who want to wrap up and go as soon as I've "come" even if two hours haven't passed.

Glad that the whole deposit thing is working for you.

Sorry, man. You are in a competitive business. There are enough people that book appointments without a requirement for a deposit. Don't expect to pick up any new clients.

This cuts both ways. I've had a handful of escorts who were no shows too. One guy in Boston texted me several times that he was on his way.....when an hour went by and he didn't arrive he became non-responsive. Another guy in DC never showed up at all, then had the nerve to text me 2 days later to see if I still wanted to hook up. I've had other escorts who at least had the courtesy to flash me lame excuses as to why they couldn't make their appointments at the last minute.