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Being fat is totally not funny. When I was 70+ pounds heavier I had all kinds of medical issues from it including metabolic syndrome etc. I devote so much time and effort trying to keep the weight off and it is far from funny. The sad part is that people treat me noticeably better now that I’m thinner and the fashion industry conspiracy makes it easier to buy clothes off the rack that fit. There is totally nothing funny about being ravenously hungry all the time and wanting to eat every fucking bag of potato chips in the supermarket aisle. It’s a horrible thing to have slow metabolism. There is totally nothing funny about the effort it takes for previously overweight people to keep that weight off

If you plan to play safe, make it clear with the provider as to who will be supplying condoms and lube. If your escort asks you to bring condoms, make sure you know what brand/size works for them.

It sound to me that you hired a drinking partner as well as an escort. Next time get down to business when your guy crosses the threshold

I only allow the escort to get one piss on the tree. If the price is too high I politely decline and move on. If everyone did this it would speed up stabilization of prices. I also don’t respond to further discussion of price, even if they try to up sell their value as the best and I will be missing out. My loss of course.

I haven’t owned pajamas since I left home for college

It was all over when random people started calling me “sir.” At first it took me back but now I rather like it. I just turned 66. When it comes to job hunting, 60 is the new 90 but when it comes to dating in the daddy age, 60 seems to be the new 40

We have the same issue in MA living on the ocean. Most insurers don’t want the risk. You may find some local insurers who are more comfortable insuring you for a fair price. I would suggest going out and meeting a few of your new neighbors and asking them who they insure with.

Expecting the moon on a first encounter is a fools errand. I find that the guys I see routinely are far more eager to give me what I want once they know me better

No shows are the worst. I hate it when a provider does that to me (although I view it as the "gift of time and money")....it must REALLY suck, though, when you are the provider instead.

Saw him a little over a year ago in Baltimore. Fun guy....slightly loopy but very interesting. Definitely enjoyed my 2 hours with him but would probably not repeat. Don't read too much into that.....he was not really my type. Sometimes I like to experiment with different people to experience new things..

Depends on the guy. Some people look amazing with chest hair especially if it has an interesting grain to it or if it's really thick and curly...some look equally amazing without it.

I think of Chicago as a very large collection of the world’s second best things. It’s very very nice to visit and I’m sure it’s a fun place to live in.....but it’s not NY or LA

I was enjoying the show too much to notice

I used them a few weeks back when they were in Boston. Great massage- they are very much in sync. Highly recommended

Mine is home right now, cleaning and oiling his shibari ropes, waiting to tie me up and suspend me from a winch.

I had an escort physically count each dollar that I gave him before the session that I left on his dresser when I walked in. It was a stack of 10’s and 20’s held together with a binder clip. I thought it was really tacky on his part, especially since I had trusted him enough to leave the money before service. Needless to say I did not have a rematch with him nor did I leave any kind of review. If I have nothing nice to say then I just don’t bother

I always leave the money in plain sight on the counter or dresser. With escorts I've used before, I put it in an envelope with a personal note or small gift depending upon the season.

I always wear a mask when biking.

When it comes to escort pricing, you are not obliged to play the "guess what I'm thinking" game. He should have given you a price up front.

I once had someone tell me that they were saving their cum for someone later in the day, but that next time he would make it up to me. There was never a next time.

I’ve had that sort of thing happen to me with a few others. Sooo annoying. Once I’ve waited 15 minutes for someone without a response I’m gone

The pandemic has totally killed my appetite for spending time watching sports or any other lengthy network TV. I would rather be out bike riding or doing other things like watching short attention span Youtube videos. I've filled up the time warp and no longer feel like sitting in front of the TV anymore.

When escorts make weird demands, it's time to pass and move on. I've had a few escorts that wanted to have a phone call prior to first meeting which is a borderline practice for me......although I don't think I would do that again moving forward. One of the things I appreciate about Rentmen is that it allows escorts to see how many reviews you've given in the past and they can see a photo of you if you choose to post something. As far as I'm concerned, that ought to be enough.

I had at one point reached out to one of his reviewers for a recommendation. Here is what he wrote back to me- "He was out the door literally 30 secs after I came." That said it all for me.

I loved being home in March for COVID. Every cloud has a silver lining for sure. When my boss called me back in the office sometime in June I got really depressed. Decided to retire early because I just couldn't stand working anymore in the office. My last day is next Tuesday. As far as work goes, I used to think of the big picture, not the hours. As long as I accomplished one significant thing per day, I was good with that. So is the boss.